Laura Clery
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Saturday 22 August 2020 23:10:41 GMT
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Laura Clery :
& even if it’s just a “threat” of physical violence & never actually done.. doesn’t that still constitute verbal and emotional abuse?
2020-08-22 23:10:56
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Ashes :
Social worker here. If you’re using your hands as “discipline” it’s probably abuse. Look into ACE’s Score / ACE’s study (adverse childhood experiences
2020-08-22 23:46:59
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Rachele Logan :
Kids are literally the most oppressed group of humans because they don’t even know that abuse isn’t normal. 🥺🥺🥺
2020-08-22 23:38:54
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Laura Clery :
Genuinely confused
2020-08-22 23:11:13
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Jake :
can I ask you @lauraclery to please add captions? You have a deaf fan here but I just don't understand what you're saying without captions 🥰
2020-08-23 00:37:18
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Ekco cypher :
There's a huge difference between abuse and discipline.
2020-08-22 23:39:22
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Silly_Little_Girl :
It’s ✨not okay✨ and it’s ✨very traumatic✨ because my father never hit me but threatened it more than he should have. (Which is never)
2020-08-22 23:33:42
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Emily Vondy :
Yeah that trend is ✨The worst✨
2020-08-23 02:15:24
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Samantha Wilhite | 📚Author📚 :
I was raised with physical violence if I didn't do well in school and it is NOT SOMETHING I'M GONNA DO WITH MY BABY. IT'S NEVER OK TO HURT YOUR CHILD.
2020-08-22 23:30:38
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Megan :
Tiktok is bringing so much toxic behavior to light and SO MUCH of it is being called out - not all of it, but still...not as much silence!
2020-08-23 00:33:35
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AL :
I saw those and I was like...😳 are we still okay abusing and traumatizing our kids? Not sure why they came for you
2020-08-22 23:17:59
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Kelsey Nowell Anders :
Preschool teacher here! It is never okay! When you react with violence to your child making a mistake it teaches them to do the same.
2020-08-23 01:01:45
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Linsey Mundt :
It’s all these Karen’s who don’t know how to parent without violence.
2020-08-23 00:09:05
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Shi Giggles :
It’s never ok. But people will defend it till the end saying “I got beat and I turned out great!” Yeah ok. You sure? Anyway, feel better Laura!
2020-08-23 01:08:56
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Cass :
it's because people think they own their kids and don't treat them like they are just small humans.
2020-08-22 23:35:01
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Yecats :
It’s never ok that’s the answer
2020-08-22 23:21:16
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Dog Sense :
There’s zero research showing smacking does anything other than short term compliance. I don’t need 2 use ur hands to teach children 2 b respectful
2020-08-23 01:01:00
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Mz.Oldskool :
My parents used to say that to me and now I have PTSD , anxiety and depression . Not saying that specific sentence made me this way but it definitely
2020-08-23 00:18:34
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amy alvarez :
when they act up! being disrespectful!? and it's not literally but they gonna get a whoopin! it's hard to do these days cuz then CPS is called and
2020-08-22 23:37:54
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MamaBeartoYou :
@lauraclery the dad explained that it was a joke. At one point, you can hear the kid laughing. Some families talk like that to each other 🤷♀️
2020-08-23 03:10:17
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Deni Cortes :
Tbh it’s probably just a figure of speech.In Hispanic culture it’s literally like that all the time but it’s more like they get the chancla or pow pow
2020-08-23 04:23:12
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Haley Couch :
the answer is never. I heard that phrase all to often and it is never okay.
2020-08-22 23:16:34
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katybug22 :
I 100% agree growing up my parents did that and I did not turn out well so let’s stop doing that to our kids it really messes them up👍🏼👌🏻
2020-08-23 00:05:37
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Kimmy Cakes :
I saw that video and I agree with you 100% percent!! Using violence does not get your kids to listen. I’ve raised 3 well-behaved, respectful...
2020-08-23 02:02:23
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mellvictoria33 :
never ever no violence should ever happen to a child no matter what 🥺😰
2020-08-22 23:13:26
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Atoms :
And by no means this is an attack on you. I am a very big fan. But I think you don’t get the culture nor the nuances of the trend it’s self
2020-08-23 01:44:35
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Valerie :
Never! was that the one with the cop dad? I saw it and cringed. my husband has said it and I instantly deal with it. it's hard because we're supposed
2020-08-23 02:14:46
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Theresa🧘♀️ :
100% agree with you! I wouldn't even tell my kid that playing around, kids remember everything 🥺
2020-08-22 23:16:19
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Anna Kay :
Yeah, just saying that is bad! Imagine how the kid feels
2020-08-22 23:13:38
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BloatedPancakeStuffing :
The issue is that they believed he was joking & that you took it serious. He wasn't. He didn't know they were joking. He meant his threat.
2020-08-23 02:09:31
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Melissa Hillsdon :
I saw one as well... was also confused by the logic. Read the comments and kept scrolling... clearly not my sorta folk. Some thought it funny..
2020-08-22 23:19:05
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Kylie Finnigan :
Very effective form of punishment, and now I’m a pretty good person. I stay out of trouble almost to a boring point. There’s a right and wrong way (3)
2020-08-23 01:27:25
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EnduroGeorgia :
Totally agree. I’m not sure how they can even say that stuff to their kids 🙁
2020-08-22 23:13:07
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GregToks :
Physical violence is NEVER okay
2020-08-23 02:42:29
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user9990625196403 :
part 1: I grew up as a child who was spanked and I used to think maybe my mom did the right thing, but looking back I was SO wrong.
2020-08-23 01:43:30
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Boymom5_melyy :
It’s different cultures, whether they do it or not or it’s just a phrase; and not for nothing, but that don’t scarr Hispanic or black kids🤷🏻♀️
2020-08-23 05:14:46
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Tania White :
FINALLYYYYYY someone said something about it👏👏👏......sooooo wrong on sooooo many levels🤦♀️
2020-08-23 03:28:44
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user7662964450700 :
I thought I was the only one who thought this was abuse! Oml thank you for not making me look insane
2020-08-23 01:11:59
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Kelsey B 🫶🏻🌻 :
And this is probably why other kids will grow up with discipline and respect & yours will not......... js
2020-08-23 12:10:18
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Pam, Pamela, Pammy, Ham… :
Children don’t understand jokes like this. They understand safe and unsafe. The. End. My career exists because of these unsafe people!!! Bad. Parent.
2020-08-23 05:17:45
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twinmommy12 :
It’s never ok, am disturbed that so many people think physical abuse is “discipline “ it’s not it’s abuse.
2020-08-23 00:51:37
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Lisawesen401 :
omg you need to get over yourself!!I have 3 grown kids we said that and my kids didn't get beat!!
2020-08-23 01:33:02
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Jamie :
As a foster parent and someone who works in early childhood/child behavioral psychology it is lasting and psychologically detrimental.
2020-08-22 23:43:48
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Ashley Henriott :
Yess I thought the same thing!!! I thought I was the only one that thought this! 😅
2020-08-23 02:17:53
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Vdawg88 :
I fully agree. Although these videos end up being funny, they insist that the potential is there for some form of abuse could take place. So wrong.
2020-08-23 03:17:05
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Rachel :
I agree with you. I also find those videos of parents showing their kids “their new teacher” then showing a drug addict or something for a reaction.
2020-08-23 01:04:20
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Em 👩🌾🌱 :
Thank you. The use of and even the threat of physical violence to your child is ABUSE and survivors bias/anecdotal evidence doesn’t change thaaat
2020-08-23 01:08:12
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