Ryan Allen
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Thursday 19 November 2020 23:33:30 GMT
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Megan :
My niece has an extremely hard time apologizing. To the point where it’ll become a huge drawn out thing rather than just saying sorry in the beginning
2020-11-20 17:37:20
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Katie :
You better be around here when I'm having kids! Your advices are so useful!
2020-11-27 02:33:30
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Jo :
My son just turned 1! First time mom here, how do I keep from using the word “no” as a first line of when I don’t want him to do something or touch
2020-11-24 03:53:05
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Eggo🇵🇪🇩🇪🇮🇪 :
A great technique! I use it with my 2 year old students that are deep in exploring their autonomy and it’s just constant No’s during clean up
2020-11-21 04:49:12
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Kate Cason :
from what age is this effective/age appropriate?
2020-11-21 16:08:27
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BDuran :
I know right...you’re speaking my language.... i’m a BCBA and I do ABA therapy and the Premack principle is what we do a lot
2020-11-24 20:17:22
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Em :
As an SLP working with the EI population I am forever thankful for “first then” language 😅
2020-11-21 05:26:57
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DisneyRN :
What do you do when you feel you've already messed them up mentally, feel like you fail every time you try to do better and are incurable.
2020-11-20 01:44:52
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Brooke Ann Welsh :
Thank you!
2020-11-20 01:09:27
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𝕽𝖔𝖝𝖆𝖓𝖓𝖊 𝕽𝖔𝖘𝖊 🥀 :
Yes! This technique works my three year old will say “ it’s tooo haaaaaard” and then I remind in my calm voice and he does it!
2020-11-20 00:41:23
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Mari :
@naomitojo use this on baresh. Click on the video before
2020-11-23 16:05:34
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DandyLionheart :
Everyone needs to remember it's about practicing it. It didn't work with mine easily at first, but ultimately she understood it and now will ask:
2020-11-21 14:48:01
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Ally T Lopez :
I do this but sometimes it makes them escalate. What do you do then?
2020-11-21 09:31:53
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elekels :
Mine get very upset at this. They say “why do you keep telling me the same thing?!” More like yell it. 😳
2020-11-20 00:40:23
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Samantha :
Yes this works so well
2020-11-21 14:50:58
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amiradianaofficial :
I have been doing this for a long time. My son is 15 and I find that I still have to apply the same techniques on him. 😅 It works!!
2020-11-20 17:36:58
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KittleStix :
yeh my 4yr old straight out tells me no and will throw a fit..
2020-11-20 18:54:08
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wendiew :
any tips for keeping my cool when I've said it a dozen times?
2020-11-21 01:21:18
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Ryan Whitehouse :
Thank you for your content. Any tips for a toddler fighting bedtime with outbursts and not listening at all around bedtime.
2020-11-21 03:19:26
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sweetpea :
This is a huge struggle for us. I do this and it often can take hours for a 5 minute job. Any ideas?
2020-11-20 13:26:19
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JCb :
I have no children, but I love these videos so so much.. I strive to be this kind of parent one day. I watch this to remember. I love this.
2020-11-20 13:17:22
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Quinnny :
i do this as well.
2020-11-20 11:45:25
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Tawnieseattle :
What is wrong with a child who try to get her siblings to help clean up the mess she made. Then goes to her mom and cries when they refuse? The....
2020-11-21 10:41:50
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perdonmy_jenny :
My just-turned-2 year old wild boy doesn’t do anything I tell him. :(
2020-11-21 13:28:24
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BendyBonezFarm :
My daughter is developmentally delayed. can't figure out action and consequence. how can we turn dangerous and bad behavior at school around?
2020-11-20 09:49:27
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user4467357823567 :
I have three teenagers. How do you handle when all three deny doing something that is not going to get them in trouble. I
2020-11-20 00:38:16
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Alaina Greenhouse :
My 3 year old will immediately start crying if we say something that she doesn’t want to hear. Any advice?
2020-11-20 06:08:28
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Chai The Toller :
I'm a nanny and the moment I do this there's a meltdown. we do exactly the same as previous video but sometimes he's telling me I'm mean
2020-11-21 18:59:01
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Caroline :
What do you think of ABA therapy?
2020-11-21 20:46:29
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Sharma :
My toddler doesn’t listen at all. When I say not do do anything he does it more and more. How can I change his habit ?
2020-11-22 08:31:21
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emma :
Your tiktoks have made me a better teacher 🥰
2020-11-22 15:52:54
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Leanne Haran :
I'll try this with my son. he says everything is too boring 😂
2020-11-22 21:17:23
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Jackie :
unfortunately my son is nonverbal and im struggling to get him to listen, he just continues to throw and hit stuff 🤦♀️
2020-11-23 13:45:18
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Kat Pie :
I used to teach a parenting class.. and we always taught if..then .. I works! I use I now with mine
2020-11-20 04:33:36
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Anya :
What if they throw a tantrum?
2020-11-23 19:15:50
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Haley Jean :
I did this today and thank goodness she finally did it so we could move on with our day 😅
2020-11-20 04:18:24
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Clau14 :
The accuracy... I tell my son this when he wants to take out a different toy (containing multiple pieces
2020-11-24 05:44:19
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Lindsay :
How do you get a 2.5 year old to stop hitting? He doesn’t hit out of anger... he hits just because.
2020-11-24 13:31:30
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Kristen Cook :
Yes! This works every time. They are excited about doing something different, so they will clean up quickly.
2020-11-20 02:50:51
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user9735985500818 :
What do I say when she says that’s not fair
2020-11-24 22:24:42
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Giang 🪷 :
Give children two choices also a great techiques.
2020-11-25 01:43:52
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its_ashley_diana :
What’s a good way to discipline a 2 year old who throws big tantrums? I’ve tried this technique and staying calm but that’s doesn’t really work🙈
2020-11-25 10:42:25
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Ehlaura Wigington :
We use the two bucket method she can have two open boxes at a time. If my daughter wants something new we have to clean up first. 
2020-11-20 02:32:17
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sadpkk :
I was expecting the “i like ur cut G”
2020-11-27 14:13:59
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the_one :
Myson likes to play with his bully in school.She holds him with friends and beats him We say to him everyday to play with other kids but do not listen
2020-11-28 19:54:58
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Invisible :
What age or milestone do you suggest for this? I have a 17 month old. I’m not sure when this would be appropriate.
2020-11-28 21:32:50
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A banana :
One thing that has helped me is giving very specific “cleaning up” tasks (“put all the dolls in the basket”) rather than vague “clean up this mess!”
2020-11-29 01:14:59
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Paula Birch Billings :
Yes. It works.
2020-12-02 19:33:31
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Latisha McAny :
How many times do I do this when He's taken to falling out ( I usually give up at this)? He's 28 months and was preemie 29w with minor speech delay.
2020-12-03 05:10:18
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