Matthias J Barker
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Sunday 29 November 2020 02:31:57 GMT
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Mark With A Shark :
To be fair my marriage should have ended when I talked to girls online. But it didn’t. We were 6 months fresh and regardless of my reasoning I
2020-11-29 14:38:52
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Sol🤍 :
But what about when you developed that because of their actions? I do understand what you are saying because I felt I was doing it in my previous
2020-11-29 05:00:10
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Matthias J Barker :
The Gottman counseling method calls this dynamic “contempt”— highly recommend their book: “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”
2020-11-29 02:39:54
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H.M.2016 :
I cried after I signed my papers and it was my choice. He was unwilling to work hard and change. I had gone through treatment, I was alone
2020-11-29 03:32:44
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BabyBlueEyes :
How do you flip that switch? How do you get yourself to forgive their previous wrong doings? This is my downful. I just can’t 😔
2020-11-29 03:16:48
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Wrightfully Sew :
Except my husband consistently didn’t make any effort to be better. I gave him every possible chance. He never tried.
2020-11-29 02:37:32
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Diana :
But the opposite is dangerous...constantly giving abusers second chances and blaming yourself brings a lifetime of misery.
2020-11-29 15:09:43
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Nelson Random :
I thought Gottman had 4 predictors, criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.
2020-11-30 21:35:12
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Julio Banderas :
Can you do something on love language? How to deal when one person is pysical touch other one is words.
2020-11-29 07:15:12
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Leticia4fitness :
This was so true! I judged before proven guilty I know I needed to work on me! My decision was made but it took time to look at myself. 🙏🏼
2020-11-29 14:55:06
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vannah :
this gave me chills! I try not to think that way but you just opened my eyes to me maybe trying to find something to be mad at cause I'm used to being
2020-11-29 07:05:42
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Célia :
that is literally what’s consuming me all day, everyday, even though she’s the sweetest person i know & didn’t do anything wrong.
2020-11-30 20:03:42
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Kaylin Creeden :
“Mad at them already” yeah, bc they’ve continued to do things “wrong” and don’t work on it even though u’ve communicated your issues with the behavior
2020-11-30 10:49:25
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Collin :
How do I stop thinking that way
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Ailyn :
It feels like this can also reflect parent-child relationships.
2020-11-29 02:36:51
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GravyOdinBeanBuster :
repeat failures with no attempt to change are a character flaws. both my husband and I have them, difference is im working to change and hes not.
2020-11-30 05:06:02
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Dee :
but what if they just continue to fail their person? like you want to not punishment them, but they keep showing you the same patterns of disappointme
2020-11-29 03:11:16
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Heyhowyoudoing#2🧸 :
I’m not even married yet and I’m scared one day my wife will just lose love for me
2020-11-29 02:34:24
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Fearless :
Ah, I just listened to this and thought of my cat. I punished them once because they tried to get my bird. I love them no matter what. They have been
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Kiwi🥝 :
Your videos are amazing thank you for helping me ♥️
2020-11-29 02:33:23
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Cas💫 :
this hits
2020-11-29 02:34:10
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JestMeeh :
so many people don't see this side of things.
2020-11-29 02:35:59
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Tori Gordon :
This is so powerful! Yes yes yes!!!
2020-11-29 02:42:10
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