@matthiasjbarker: #guilttripping #parenting

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jardenkt
Jarden :
Growing up is realizing how flawed your parents are. A parents love should be unconditional. It’s sad how much parents manipulate. 🥺
2020-12-06 03:37:22
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imma_bee_me
Imma Bee Me :
I’m learning this after a LOT of therapy. But how do you make them stop, the less attention I give her the worse it gets. It’s a constant struggle.
2020-12-06 03:50:00
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cloversetlettering
Melissa • 🎨 :
Cut my mom off this year after learning this and what abuse can look like. I still miss her, but I’m doing so much better.
2020-12-06 03:33:35
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jessicadouget
Jess :
YOU DID NOT ASK TO BE HERE. When they chose to keep you, they chose to put you first as a child. You do not owe them a single thing.
2020-12-08 07:47:11
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ookieedokiee
okiedokie :
i just hit them back with a "i didnt ask to be born"
2020-12-06 08:24:12
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pleasegivemeausernam
IOI :
I’m lucky to have great parents
2020-12-06 04:04:21
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atomicageamerican
BigBackOng :
my alcoholic mother has been saying I owe her for birthing me for years, we don't talk anymore because she doesn't think she did anything wrong when..
2020-12-06 04:48:14
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alexbalx
alex :
Thank you for everything you do for me I appreciate it 🤍
2020-12-06 03:33:07
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howlingeclipse
Lexi :
... I've been told so much I should be greatful that I had clothes, roof over my head and food when I was a kid and that I should be appreciative with
2020-12-06 06:46:01
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yensend
yensend :
I also think showing appreciation to our parents for the sacrifices they did make for us bc they love us, if we’re raised right we’d honour them!
2020-12-06 13:35:08
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pattywhack7
Nicole :
my mom tells my kids I don't like her because I don't call her enough
2020-12-06 04:00:42
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haileym013
Hailey :
You owe your parents everything, if they were good parents. No you didn’t ask to be here, but they didn’t have to be around either.
2020-12-06 14:30:17
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ayumimesotora
ayumitora :
Also no matter what people will say or call you it's OK to not love your parents and you don't owe anyone explanations,excuses or guilt for it
2020-12-06 07:36:31
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patricialamastherapy
✨patricia Lamas LCSW✨therapist :
I wish our clients (and ourselves) could understand this more easily... sometimes I wish we had a magic wand 🦄
2020-12-06 03:34:52
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bria_elliott
Bria :
I have a question how do I get my parents to stop bringing up my past mistakes that I’ve learned from how do I prove to them I’m more responsible
2020-12-06 04:27:26
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mumiphrewup
Grace :
How do you handle having one toxic parent and you realize that but your other parent doesn’t. He’s so stuck and he deserves the world. I can escape
2020-12-06 07:50:04
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oliviadawn.98
Olivia Barden :
this hurt more than it should’ve 🥺
2020-12-06 03:36:51
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largecoffeeplease
LargeCoffeePlease :
Thank you for this correction 🥺 I’m a parent and I sometimes use guilt trip to get them to spend time with me 😔 I don’t want them to feel guilty.
2020-12-07 08:15:24
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carrot.cake.person.thing
carrot :
could you talk about when parents try and make it your fault that they want to leave
2020-12-06 03:34:39
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sarahlaughlin4
Sarah Laughlin :
My kids owe me nothing. My 18 year old is always like, I help you with or that. And I’ll tell him no. The best thing he can do for me is take care of
2020-12-06 16:33:14
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thatgeminisunpiscesmoon
Helene🏔 :
These videos help me cope so much, thank you
2020-12-06 03:34:23
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msrxoo
mar🌞 :
how do i send this to my mom without sending it to her ?
2020-12-06 05:25:31
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alexserves
Alex :
"after everything I've done for you?!".... yea, I didn't ask to be here. that was YOUR choice.
2020-12-07 18:59:27
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katandatlas
Kat :
My dad holds him paying for my school against me all the time. Any time we disagree, he threatens to stop paying
2020-12-06 03:35:50
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