@paigelayle: food for thought. #ImAGhost #fyp #foryou #xyzbca

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dontmindme902
Don’t Mind Me :
Right? This isn’t hard at all!
2020-12-08 02:52:55
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meegz93
Megan :
I'm a teacher & have 308 students. 2 students decided to change their names/pronouns halfway through the year & I could remember. There's no excuse.
2020-12-08 14:12:32
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taylor121995
Taylor :
When people get married we change their last name no hesitation!!!!
2020-12-08 02:55:16
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sillysillygoos3
i don’t even know :
The most satisfying feeling is when someone’s real name gets rooted in your head and their deadname just vanishes istg
2020-12-08 03:29:33
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bossghostwriter
BOSS GHOST WRITER :
Even if it is hard u can adjust if u respected people’s identity .If u refuse just admit ur transphobic don’t try to camouflage it as something else🙄
2020-12-08 03:12:14
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cymruleigh
Leigh :
These are probably the same people who expect you to remember the name of the 40th person they have started talking to that month.
2020-12-08 10:24:28
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nicholasguillermo
Nicholas Guillermo :
I am all for supporting trans people and will use their chosen pronouns and names but I don’t think this analogy is very good.
2020-12-08 03:15:33
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madilovedove
Wheresmeowleg :
Is it ok if it’s a slip of the tongue? Like their dead name was just changed and you’re getting use to the switch?
2020-12-08 03:31:24
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samantharideout8
Samantha Rideout :
my ex and best friend is transitioning I find it hard to call him by his new name sometimes but I automatically correct myself when I realize
2020-12-08 03:09:59
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leeanneruthh
LeeAnne Ruth :
I’m not saying it’s right but I also think trans people need to be more patient and understanding to the new process from others.
2020-12-08 14:59:47
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kadenlitzinger
Kaden :
this is such a good argument. shouldn’t have to be an argument tho:/
2020-12-08 04:19:33
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girly_swirly_girl
Girly Swirly :
It’s the dismissive attitude ppl have, too. You may mess up, but put in effort and it will be easy and you will learn quickly.
2020-12-08 03:04:19
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diehardpats1
Bmcbride95 :
What about if your friend transitions and changes their name and you’ve known them for 20+ years and have to learn a new name and mess up a few times?
2020-12-08 10:51:27
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theadhdhomestead
The wild one :
dude... I have a hard enough time remembering a name to begin with😅 but I at least try and you're comparing apples to oranges
2020-12-08 03:32:07
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buttercupscorpio
K :
so you can say Lady Gaga not Stefani Joane but you can't learn a trans person's name?
2020-12-09 03:12:29
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jay_ddog
jay(: :
It’s a little hard when the person changes what they want to be every day /every hour like don’t get mad when people get it wrong when u can’t decide
2020-12-08 13:02:14
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taylorsredlipstick13
ana :
@Jkrowling
2020-12-28 13:03:50
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laurenrgoode
Lauren G :
The key phrase here is “my comfortability is more important than your existence” it’s such an easy way to make someone feel respected and heard!!
2020-12-16 05:59:41
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livinlifewithhales
Haley | Live Life With Hales💗 :
Amen!
2020-12-08 04:09:34
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oli.viayorkk
olivia :
And it’s okay to slip up in the beginning but after a while it shouldn’t be hard to just be respectful. My friend came out to me as non binary and -
2020-12-28 18:10:11
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ewa.williams
ewa williams :
did she stutter... no
2020-12-08 11:51:32
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tost.tost.tost
Kost :
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK SIS!!!!!!!!!!!
2020-12-08 07:25:59
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tilierose02
Tilie O’Neil :
Also from my experience if you mess up the first couple times and just say omg I’m sorry and say their new name like it’s not a huge deal, youre tryin
2020-12-08 03:07:47
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