Madeline Pendleton
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Friday 08 January 2021 18:21:34 GMT
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Madeline Pendleton :
This is now my most controversial video of all time lol
2021-01-08 20:12:34
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Kyra :
I respectfully disagree, ghosting isn’t polite and it is bad communication. If the person is toxic then it’s a different story but not in general.
2021-01-08 22:04:19
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love CHERRY motion💟 :
not to mention the idea that you should be available 24/7 is absolutely ridiculous
2021-01-08 18:25:35
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lyla jo :
i don’t think madeline is saying ghosting is always okay. they are just saying it’s not always bad
2021-01-09 00:03:40
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Taylor Darden :
I don't think this is binary. I don't think we can affirmatively say it is or is not toxic. it really depends on the situation.
2021-01-08 20:08:17
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samandgronkthenewfie :
I disagree. a quick hey I'm sorry this isnt working for me. have a great life is easy and provides some closure
2021-01-08 20:47:47
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Simply Divinyl :
Setting boundaries is vital, but it’s important to learn healthy ways to do so. Unless it’s an extreme or toxic case, communication should be had.
2021-01-08 19:05:06
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mikiminach :
Queen of emotional intelligence
2021-01-08 18:23:19
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User :
Honestly I just recently ghosted someone and it was such a relief. thank you for making me feel better about it
2021-01-08 18:26:18
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✨gthgrlclique✨ :
took me sooo long to accept this. but it is so true and has helped me heal so much once i grasped that silence IS an answer.
2021-01-08 18:24:45
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🙄 :
i think the clarification that needs to be made is that ghosting is a valid way of ENDING a relationship. if you ghost someone it's done
2021-01-09 02:32:19
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iris <3 :
nah i think this is somewhat of a miss. my best friend of literally 10 yrs ghosted me outta nowhere. it took me a long time to get over that
2021-01-08 21:33:42
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✨ :
Well my best friend used to regularly ghost me for a few weeks and I do think that’s toxic
2021-01-08 18:56:04
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connor clary :
Agree and this just reminded me to respond to someone who probably thinks I’m ghosting lol
2021-01-09 03:25:00
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Madeline Pendleton :
Many people ghost to leave toxic/abusive situations, or to avoid rejection rage (especially women ghosting men), or bc they have an anxiety disorder.
2021-01-09 16:04:50
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AD :
It’s definitely a type of communication but it isn’t “polite” as you’ve said.
2021-01-08 23:50:39
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Teodora-Elena :
Sometimes ghosting is the better option...? I do it to avoid overly involved people changing fundamental aspects of themselves to fit my way of-
2021-01-08 19:07:25
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Samantha deLuca :
being ghosted can be really traumatic though.
2021-01-09 00:49:57
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excitinglyboring :
Texting something as simple as "I'm sorry, I don't want to see you anymore" is a MUCH kinder way to communicate this to someone who isn't being toxic.
2021-01-08 22:47:21
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kaelyn :
when ppl ghost me out of nowhere it makes me feel like i did something wrong 🥺 not good for me mentally i much rather someone tell me
2021-01-08 20:15:57
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Karina :
bruh my ex ended up leaving me without saying a word/explaining what i did to make him leave me and it left me devastated
2021-01-09 02:31:14
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