Kc Davis
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Saturday 16 January 2021 00:25:18 GMT
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Jessica Anderson :
I saw in the comments of the original video ‘I’m still responsible for it if I have to tell you to do it’ and it’s so true.
2021-01-16 04:33:24
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FrieBitz :
She’s reading from “this is how your marriage ends” by Matt fray/ amazing book
2024-12-31 19:22:13
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🤪🪿 :
Omg yes! I can never put into words to my husband why I don’t think I should tell him what needs done around the house.
2021-01-16 00:30:37
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Michelle Hall :
I am blessed to have a partner that is a team player. No lists needed. He sees it and does it.💖 Married 28 years in Feb.
2021-01-16 00:34:54
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Akopian Atrebates :
This requires relaxationnof control. If you do not do that, then this will never occur.
2021-01-16 00:50:47
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user8783733195286 :
I Read Fed Up: Emotional Labor and the way Forward” it changed everything.. 😌
2021-01-16 00:59:13
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Meg Rose :
it's literally so hard for some of us though, I keep trying to tell my mom I didn't decide not clear the table, I didn't see the shit on the table 🥺
2021-01-16 01:57:18
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Cupcake :
There’s an article called  “Women aren’t nags- we’re just fed up”. Please everyone to read it! I sent to my husband changed my life. 
2021-01-16 06:48:00
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Lari 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️ 🐉 :
My partner and I have an ‘if it bothers you, fix it’ agreement with housework and it’s never become an issue in almost 6 years 😏🥰
2021-01-16 06:31:45
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Stina Marie :
@domesticblisters the most mind blowing part is that this ends marriages and when they end that individual now has to do exactly what we were asking4
2021-01-17 16:39:32
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Stephanie :
This this this this. It is MENTALLY exhausting to be in charge of EVERYTHING, ALL THE TIME.
2021-01-16 01:30:46
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Alyssa :
yep. I have to tell my boyfriend what to do and THANK HIM for doing a good job. However, it is EXPECTED from me.
2021-01-16 02:50:06
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AmandaA :
I would even settle for “Is there anything I can help you with?”
2021-01-16 02:03:45
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Cathy Ma :
Delegation/management is, in of itself, work! In the corporate world we have people who’s entire job it is to organize people&delegate work.
2021-01-17 06:34:59
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Karen :
Roles were reversed in my (former) marriage. I needed to be told what to do (executive function issues). But never did it to his satisfaction.
2021-01-16 02:05:03
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Dona Reggio :
i second the "I've got this!" statement. it's the absolute best thing to hear AND KNOW it will be taken care of
2021-01-16 03:19:54
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Cassie O'Neal :
my hubs and I just talked about this! I've gotten better at letting go of the control and he's gotten better about doing things without asking.
2021-01-16 01:45:41
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Sara Quimby :
I just had this convo with my husband last night. He told me to just tell him what I want him to do. I don’t want that to be my job! We are partners!
2021-01-16 06:24:56
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Jennifer Willprecht :
I had a super stressful and emotional day today (unproductive dr appt, waves of grief for my grandma, parenting tiny humans). I was bawling in our bed
2021-01-16 05:28:17
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Sybil :
I lived this struggle for 7 years. Then I left him and married a woman. Best decision ever.
2021-01-22 17:36:57
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notevenmeagan :
yes 👏🏻 my partner tells me “if you need help in the AM just wake me up” 🙄 no, he knows. he doesn’t get why it bugs me so
2021-01-17 19:35:28
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Nelli_Parous :
"I got this". This would been followed by "I have to do everything". I can still hear the criticism almost a year later.
2021-01-16 02:38:12
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Sparkly Foster Mamma :
I used to beg my partner of 36 years to pick just 1 task & do this so that I didn’t have to think about it. Near genius IQ & incapable or unwilling.
2021-01-16 22:53:41
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Aunti-M :
Omg this all day! Loudly!!😎🥰😂
2021-01-16 03:42:02
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Jess :
A million times yes!!! I could never had explained it so well to my husband!!
2021-01-16 03:50:46
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Princess Buttercup :
so good!
2021-01-16 01:11:14
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Bridgett :
The book is pretty awesome, too!
2021-01-16 04:44:19
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Christina Pendergrass :
this makes so much sense!
2021-01-16 03:27:25
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🍃🌬jenni_fromtheculdesac_🇨🇦 :
This just this.
2021-01-16 03:25:56
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Danielle Wiegand :
Holy crap. I needed these exact words.
2021-01-16 00:53:32
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Sonyia :
CFC
2021-01-16 06:38:26
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Samantha Musser :
1000%. Just had this conversation the other day 🥰
2021-01-16 00:34:43
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aithyne :
The good thing is, they can learn. I got tired of telling my partner what needed doing. I stared at gift wrap trash for days after Christmas.
2021-01-16 08:44:13
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Malia Robinson :
It’s honestly partly really nice to know this is something that other women struggle with, and also hard to know it happens to so many of us. 1/2
2021-01-16 09:56:55
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Erie928 :
Yes!!!!!!
2021-01-16 13:56:18
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Velours :
YES. Thank you !
2021-01-16 17:51:23
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Sarah :
Well... now I’m crying
2021-01-16 22:48:10
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Tanya Marie Drammeh :
I was looking for this video!
2021-01-16 01:13:40
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Brooke Megan :
bingo. it's helped us tremendously to divide labor tasks as a whole that the other person takes responsibility and management of. no nagging, reminder
2021-01-17 04:45:42
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ChrisMC13 :
So much this.
2021-01-17 06:06:50
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mommahongry :
I could cry
2021-01-16 02:17:17
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Michelle Daniels :
I need more on this topic. My husband doesn’t understand that the mental load completely exhausts me
2021-01-17 13:44:15
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Lissie Wickes :
This has been a constant point of contention in my marriage... absolutely constant. How do you approach it to get results with someone who ignores it?
2021-01-17 15:51:54
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Macy Hagan :
Yep, and funny thing though sometimes women struggle to let men do the thing when they do want to bc women have been managing things for so long 😳😳
2021-01-17 16:36:09
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DeWalt_Diva :
this is amazing!!!
2021-01-16 00:30:48
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kell1429 :
I just saw this too and saved it!
2021-01-16 01:27:13
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Laura Gillanders :
I think I tagged you in this hehe 🥰
2021-01-17 21:36:31
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Ashley Jones :
I have a new saying “I am one persons mother” it works in these situations and for friends that burden you with being the “mom friend”
2021-01-18 03:34:28
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Corey :
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
2021-01-18 15:26:54
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Małgosia K :
Some people need reminding, clear instructions. It's not always "not taking initiative". Communicate, people!
2021-01-18 17:15:06
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