Zachery Dereniowski
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Tuesday 26 January 2021 22:36:19 GMT
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Zachery Dereniowski :
Can YOU Relate? Are you The Helper?
2021-01-26 22:37:03
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This is definitely me. I get frustrated when people offer help and always say stuff like “No, I’m fine, I’ll figure it out.”
2021-01-27 00:25:31
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sheila :
that's me
2025-10-25 02:45:19
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ADA🇬🇭😍 :
So me🥺
2025-10-04 09:59:02
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K.R.G :
I can relate to this a lot. I always help people but I handle my problems on my own
2021-01-27 02:41:25
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Zachery Dereniowski :
To whoever reads this, your life matters. No one can replace you. I’m thankful you were born. I love you so much. Read that again. ❤️
2021-01-26 22:36:37
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maotai99hh :
Yes! Always "fix" others problems and fix mine on my own
2021-01-26 22:38:22
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Zachery Dereniowski :
Although mental health is universal, it’s different for everyone. Please be patient. You matter most ❤️
2021-01-26 22:36:51
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Zachery Dereniowski :
SAVE & SHARE to spread the message 🙏
2021-01-26 22:38:08
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Jason Hastings :
my level of trust is gone. i will help if i can, but if i ask that same person if they can help me, they dont have time... so i keep to myself....
2021-01-27 01:08:02
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Zachery Dereniowski :
Click link in bio to ACCESS the Mental Health care that YOU deserve. YMM ❤️
2021-01-26 22:37:31
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Steph Vandy :
So true. We tend to give to people who only take...and then we feel we don’t deserve to ask for help. Because of this we’re strong. ❤️
2021-01-26 23:20:13
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Luke Welder :
As a helper it took finding another helper for me to break that cycle
2021-01-27 01:45:10
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Lmao are you describing me? 😂
2021-01-26 23:34:59
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CheChe Adao :
some people also have bad experience in asking help even if it's a relatives
2021-01-27 02:06:27
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TikityBoo :
Makes it all the more painful when you ask for help & it is not given, just reinforces that you’re battles are yours alone.
2021-02-01 22:20:30
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Sky :) :
first 🥰
2021-01-26 22:37:53
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Ms Chunky Legs :
My sister sent me this - this is me. I never ever ask for help. I encourage others to. It’s not natural to me & I avoid it so I don’t get let down.
2021-02-08 23:20:52
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Aisling (Ashling) :
❤️❤️❤️
2021-01-26 22:38:59
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Renée/Raven :
This how I am 🥺
2021-01-26 22:40:06
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beany :
yes and i feel uncomfortable if it's any other way, but exhausted and resentful because of doing it all on my own 🙄
2021-01-26 23:35:34
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Kjfitz288 :
@maddie.guildea this is me
2021-02-08 18:12:47
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Adi🧸🦋 :
@amariw00
2021-01-26 22:40:58
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. :
love u zach YMM
2021-04-05 10:11:22
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/_/ :
@crustywater_ this sounds like you
2021-02-01 11:10:49
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Jorja Wareham :
@codieharris22 @thepotatogawd
2021-02-01 09:31:22
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why u readin diz? :
@smallaby...girl31 ah yes im the helper for mostly all of my friends
2021-01-27 14:14:35
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Neon :
@katelynriordon I’m trying
2021-01-30 20:56:17
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Susan Kedigh :
And some of us are avoiders and will only be the helper to take on others mental health and ignore our own needs
2021-01-27 14:18:43
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MrsGoodReaver :
@kellywoodruff5 hmmmm 😬
2021-01-26 23:59:29
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Hibs.xo :
@user6428930210613 do u think this is me?
2021-01-27 01:29:40
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Steph :
even when I do reach out to ask for help...I get advice/opinions rather than actual help.
2021-01-27 00:00:05
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Moni Kelly :
@brody_kelly23 me
2021-02-16 06:58:47
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Nathan_ingalls :
@hbborden i’m kinda going through this rn. i’m sorry babe. i’m not mad at you i promise🥺
2021-01-27 06:18:27
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Simran Kaur :
@ashleywk11 @_s.imrat_ I know imma regret tagging u 😂😂😂
2021-01-30 03:53:36
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zaira🦖 :
@sumx.k this is you xxxx
2021-01-30 00:36:29
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Emisembragiusto :
@carl_0tta1 non noi due
2021-01-27 21:08:44
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kodie_89 :
This hit deep! It took me a long time to ask for help. I always helped others before I helped myself
2021-01-27 02:05:08
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chevon newman :
I absolutely love your videos they have really helped me accept myself! thank you for posting these!!
2021-01-27 21:04:43
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Corrina Leeflang :
@y.uan ik ben hier echt actief mee bezig😬 leren hulp vragen😅
2021-01-28 00:19:06
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Kerrisimo :
Oldest kid. Gen-X. Dear Abby of my friends.
2021-01-28 01:41:50
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Iamagood1 :
Makes life painful. Some of us were hurt young. Never hurt others first now.If you see your blessings Then your found and healed.
2021-01-28 01:54:15
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Robin Marie :
It then makes it hard to ask for help.
2021-01-28 04:48:52
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Michelle Telemchuk E :
Yes! I’m THE helper. Always giving. Worn out and run down😞
2021-01-28 07:05:19
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stella🦢 :
yes
2021-01-28 10:56:33
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gdawgs96 :
@too.many.horses 😪
2021-01-28 13:30:03
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Natalie :
Yes! I believe talking to people about my problems is selfish
2021-01-27 07:05:50
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Nichole Johnson :
Oh gosh this speaks more truer than ANYTGING I’ve ever read or seen in my life.
2021-01-27 22:21:26
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. :
@katehohen
2021-01-27 03:20:40
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DENSYO :
Bren dealing to that till now..hope i can make it
2021-01-27 04:23:26
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Sarah Sanders :
Yes. I can relate. No one ever asks if I’m okay and if I need the help. It has always been about them.
2021-01-27 04:53:06
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SirMaximus :
This is true. When things go wrong for me or anyone in my family I am the one they look to to figure it out.
2021-01-27 05:51:43
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Tiffany F :
yes so true help others before you deal with your own things.
2021-01-27 05:52:51
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