@drkirren: I’ve been asked this question about emotional abuse a lot #psychologist #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #gaslighting #relationshipabuse

Dr Kirren - Psychologist
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drkirren
Dr Kirren - Psychologist :
We can emotionally exhaust ourselves trying to understand this. There are no excuses for treating others like this.
2021-02-07 10:27:53
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deniseplattermeup72
Denise Williamson :
Ever notice when they lose it and smash things it’s never their precious things only yours ! They know ! They know ! Survivor here!
2021-02-07 15:51:23
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the.truth.doctor
Dr. Courtney | Therapist :
I have compassion for both 🥺 The one being abused needs safety and security. The one abusing needs therapy and insight 🥺
2021-02-08 02:35:13
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password_funny
Password Funny :
When I find that person abusive I let them know. In most cases it works is seems like abusive behavior is always a Façade to protect something
2021-02-07 16:14:20
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suz2317
Şนຊ :
They certainly do! But why do they do it🤔
2021-02-07 13:27:41
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nancyburchfield1964
Nancy Burchfield :
Yes!! Recently left a 35 year marriage due to this! Divorce in process and he’s still doing it. I know better now though!
2021-02-07 16:14:25
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pettybetty393
Batty Hatty :
yes, but u said they know what they're doing and then u said they think it's their victim's fault. So do they know that they r being evil or do THEYRV
2021-02-07 16:00:01
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stardust723
Stardust723 :
How do I know I’m not the abusive one then?? It’s so crazy making
2021-02-07 18:27:30
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mamamonteith
Kyra M :
Actions should equal words , when they don’t 🚩
2021-02-07 19:30:15
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gigi.geminie
Giggi🫧🌺🎀🪩 :
I’ve always wondered WHY they do it? What is the pleasure for them?
2021-02-07 18:30:42
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narc.awareness
I Am :
To those that are healing remember I am loved I am strong I am deserving! Yes you are💜keep pushing forward
2021-02-07 21:40:45
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zavianka
Nastasya :
the intention is to make you believe that they don’t know what they’re doing in order to make you stay
2021-02-07 23:15:56
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nuttysnail
Nutty snail :
These people take time to wear the victim down and support should be given to help victims and it dosnt happen
2021-02-07 14:05:52
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xtinaalina
🍄❇️𝙓𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙖❇️🍄 :
I wish i knew this when i turned 18 or younger. .. This should be school lessons for kids and teach them.. This people are so dangerous
2021-02-07 21:45:49
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user8044727978941
user8044727978941 :
I agree completely. People are so a customer for making excuses because they’re not strong enough to deal with the reality of it. 
2021-02-07 15:33:05
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th3prodigals0n
The Prodigal Son :
Thank you doc👍
2021-02-07 11:18:57
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drkirren
Dr Kirren - Psychologist :
Many people spend time trying to understand why the other person behaved in a particular way.
2021-02-07 10:27:18
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pettybetty393
Batty Hatty :
My sister will invite me into her life over and over and the second I am comfortable or weak she will attack me and tell me how awful I am that I'm cr
2021-02-07 16:42:21
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oftenirate
LJ :
Thank you for this. I have two emotionally abusive family members and making excuses for them absolves them of all the pain they cause others.
2021-02-10 08:05:41
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softcushions
Susie🇬🇧 :
Yes because you watch them only do it to and in front of certain people
2021-02-07 16:27:05
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susiep34
Susie :
I work with people like this... when I raised the issue with management I was told "it's just banter" & your just more sensitive than others
2021-02-07 22:32:31
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abcd123ab12
user7049687901502 :
That is so true. You hit it right on the nail
2021-02-07 16:55:39
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lucy_pbj21
Lucy :
Can you do more on emotional and financial abuse
2021-02-08 05:06:01
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ammmmmes
Amers :
My brother was in an emotionally abusive relationship and he took his life this week because he felt he had no other way out 😭
2021-02-14 09:31:55
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user6825273798514
user6825273798514 :
Oh look. My “mom”
2021-02-08 08:55:12
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