Shawna Lander
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Friday 19 February 2021 19:01:37 GMT
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Amanda Becker :
It’s you, but suddenly it’s you lying awake panicking that your newborn might get too close to the ocean in four years.
2021-02-19 23:43:22
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Carolyn/HomeSweetVictoria :
As a mom of seven- I didn’t really find this to be true.
2021-02-19 23:52:23
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Seri Kane :
“You’re you, but also not really you anymore.” Is the ONLY THING I wish somebody would have WARNED ME ABOUT
2021-02-19 19:25:51
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peewee30967 :
The ACCURACY..... people make it seem like 6weeks later you’re back to normal... NOPE
2021-02-19 21:46:22
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Lettuceandcats :
Bro I change my personality every couple years anyways 😂 I got this. I've been due for a new personality anyways
2021-02-20 13:15:12
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JosiPosse :
I literally can NO longer hold back my tears. Used to choke them back, not ANYMORE. Tears for everyone!
2021-02-19 22:36:57
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🤍 :
So, so true!
2021-02-20 01:38:55
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ms_rachelking :
this one needs to go viral because this is actually a GREAT description!!!
2021-02-19 19:38:21
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Meghan :
I'm super super terrified because I know my life bout to change forever and change A LOT. Imma still do it. I want that experience.
2021-02-19 19:35:03
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Dee :
Ya. I’ll stay childless
2021-02-20 01:00:04
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soulbower :
I'm so deeply afraid of the "you're not YOU anymore" part of this. I quite liked who I was/am...
2021-02-19 23:10:03
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katie :
has anyone has a positive experience? i keep seeing videos about how rough/bad it is and it's got me scared. i'm due in like 2 weeks.
2021-02-20 12:08:10
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Nasoturkey :
I can no longer watch stressful movies. no way my body already knows too much stress
2021-02-20 05:53:52
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Afterbloom Studio :
I’m just now learning the old me is gone and learning to become the person after baby. I finally gave up trying to be “the old Me” it’s getting better
2021-02-20 03:33:52
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Heather W :
I don't even know the girl I was before baby. But I know she was pretty stupid😂 and very well rested 😩
2021-02-19 19:22:42
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Jursey :
My baby was super chill and easy, now she’s a toddler
2021-03-18 02:30:11
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Brittny :
Am I a completely different person than I was 2 years and 2 kids ago? Absolutely. Was I expecting that? Nope. Do I miss who I was before kids? Yes.
2021-02-20 05:50:27
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Tara :
Everyone thinks they’re going to be the exception. That’s probably what ensures the continuity of our species 😂
2021-02-20 01:41:26
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ladylongrest :
Ahaaa first time mom about to give birth in about 7 weeks I’m not crying you’re crying I’m not freaking out who’s freaking out
2021-02-20 13:34:20
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reavisrdfarm :
You’re the same, but upgraded to the tired, forgetful, leaky, paranoid, and anxious version.
2021-03-17 18:49:43
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Isabelle :
When you have a baby you die. It’s simple as that. In like a poetic way, but nevertheless, gone.
2021-02-23 05:33:47
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Kristen Janeice Gorley :
don't tell me this.. I'm due in 3 weeks lol
2021-02-20 05:49:41
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Megan :
It’s so hard to explain it to people and you never want to be one of them people that says it in the way of
2021-03-17 18:43:40
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have some warm scrambled eggs :
this is the best birth control I've ever seen
2021-02-19 19:35:31
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Emily B :
But is it worth it?
2021-02-19 23:32:22
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princessofpasta :
Hard pass ✋🏻
2021-02-19 22:24:09
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vee_briar :
I’m one of the lucky ones. I think having a baby changed my brain chemistry for the better! Parenting is still super hard though.
2021-02-19 19:56:16
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SunnySide_Reads :
Adoption sounds nice😅 as I sitting here with my newborn
2021-03-17 23:23:09
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_Jay_Jay_ :
I already don't like myself lets see how much I dont like myself after having the baby 😳😅
2021-02-20 07:15:12
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Charity Brown Art :
I literally had a MAN tell me “it’s no different than having a pet”.... 😳
2021-02-24 03:43:46
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𝖬𝗂𝖼𝗁𝖾𝗅𝗅𝖾 𝖲. :
My body: " You have served your biological purpose. You're on your own now. Good luck."
2021-02-19 21:41:25
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Steph•Newlywed Nail Artist :
18 weeks pregnant... eep 😅
2021-02-19 19:40:07
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Danielle Becker963 :
i wish my family members with kids would have told me abput mom guilt or that the emotional/mental strain and anxiety could be this debilating 😳
2021-02-20 04:58:43
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Elise DeRoy :
I’m 6 months pregnant, lord help me
2021-02-19 23:44:57
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Grace Shippy :
Yes. 100% my brain was and still is completely different
2021-02-19 23:40:24
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danielle.1525 :
So is this during postpartum or is the change long term? Also is it a negative change
2021-02-20 01:58:18
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Vintera || Bria🦋🌺🏳️🌈 :
I mean right!?
2021-02-19 19:30:17
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KelLuDou :
Wait you have to know how to shrink your uterus? 😳
2021-02-20 01:13:23
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Tash 💚🌻 :
I don’t wanna be further scared to have kids... i want kids so much but i don’t wanna lose myself after i’ve just learned to love myself
2021-03-08 18:42:56
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Casey :
But like who will I be??
2021-02-20 01:30:57
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Miaxx :
It is like this but isn’t at the same time. Eventually you find your way out of the fog n become your self again just with a human. The more
2021-03-01 21:11:19
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Janie :
wow you just confirmed me I don't want kids haha
2021-02-19 23:41:39
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Sav :
And this is why I’m gonna get my tubes tied up 😂 🛑
2021-02-19 20:57:56
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witchay13 :
Mine are 18 and 16 now and I still check to make sure they're breathing while they sleep!! 😅
2021-02-20 11:51:23
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Ashley Cline :
This! 🙌🏻
2021-02-19 19:04:25
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Jawsatenemo :
I stupidly tried to go back to school while being a first time stay at home mom. Yeah my brain is not the same it’s mashed potatoes now.
2021-02-19 22:15:35
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Kesh :
100% my body is still ➰➿➿➰➿
2021-02-22 16:52:46
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Kai :
I legit don’t know a soul who thinks nothing changes. I think the fear of the change is y people wait or don’t have any at all 🤷🏼♀️
2021-02-20 16:32:47
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user1167885801664 :
Okay. I have a lot to say on this. New mums if you’re reading some of these with fear about ‘losing yourself’, please read on. Firstly I’m not /1
2021-02-20 14:03:45
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