Sadistic Stylist Denali
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Saturday 20 March 2021 05:51:32 GMT
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J. Slashy :
I’m sorry how the hell am I just hearing about missing stairs??????
2021-03-20 08:33:42
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Khaki :
Every Fandom has a missing stair I feel.
2021-03-20 09:21:40
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Wagatwe Wanjuki :
Asking about missing stairs often doesn't result in learning about them. Groups will often let you learn for yourself.
2021-03-20 09:33:25
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Sadistic Stylist Denali :
Common reasons someone can stick around as a missing stair: He's friends w the leader of a group, he IS the leader, he has power.
2021-03-20 05:53:20
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Felix :
Just putting this here. Cosplay community. Not joking.
2021-03-20 07:07:48
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Sadistic Stylist Denali :
Sorry this vid's a bummer. Communities (and their leaders, specifically) all NEED to do better to keep everyone safe.
2021-03-20 05:52:42
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Cellardoor :
Oh yeah! I work in academia and the amount of times an older usually female coworkers has just whispered to me to be careful about someone 😳
2021-03-20 14:54:10
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TheBigMamaLisa :
Oh yeah vic mignona...xD...
2021-03-20 16:34:09
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julian.susana :
I feel like taking a hammer to the stair is a solution...in either case🤔
2021-03-20 16:25:28
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Jay :
Unicorn hunters in polyamory.
2021-03-20 09:14:39
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Koseiris🔻🏳️🌈(comms open!) :
Should we just make a website that lists fandoms and has everything bad that’s happened with usernames
2021-03-20 20:51:34
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kealundey is writing :
this is the reason i end up on the fringes of one particular community, because i acknowledge the missing stairs 👀
2021-03-20 09:04:13
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Lutia222 :
i’m gonna make this a thing when i’m with large groups of friends... it makes it easier to warn people without making a scene
2021-03-20 07:01:14
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Bfeldz :
The worst part is that you start doubting yourself bc “surely if anyone else knew this person was like this, they would have at least said something.”
2021-03-22 14:03:39
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S :
OMG. I have left multiple communities because I was not comfortable tolerating missing stairs, and people would judge me for it. I’ve never had 1/2
2021-03-21 03:58:25
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Jude 🇵🇸 :
immidiatly thought about 3 missing stairs 😬 had no idea there was a term for this kind of person.
2021-03-20 07:54:58
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Dessa :
Hey there some Goth Scene ✌🏾 lots of stuff gets pushed under the rug or laughed off/ignored
2021-03-21 07:16:47
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liddulbug :
wow the first group i thought of was celebrities & the missing stair was Harvey Weinstein
2021-03-20 22:05:11
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Marcia Howard :
That one uncle.
2021-03-23 17:36:34
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Jamie Leigh Slater :
Yeah this happens in the workplace so much
2021-03-20 07:10:28
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Damien Black :
Absolutely. In the k1nk community especially. Doesn’t matter which one: there’s at least 3 😒
2021-03-20 14:51:15
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butcher or pauper :
perhaps not necessarily a singular person, but in kpop for me, the rlly aggressive fans who everyone says "those ppl don't represent the fandom"
2021-03-20 20:32:53
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Bambi :
Oh oh OH, to tell you the time I had a kink event coordinator ask me what we should do about a missing stair that was a presenter. 1/?
2021-03-20 13:56:59
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they/them :
a prof at my college is def a missing stair 🙃 over a dozen reports but nothing happens and he still works there
2021-03-20 21:17:35
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user6081077021125 :
Didn’t know this term but have definitely seen this in action. Thank you for sharing the term!
2021-03-20 06:54:23
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Maxxis :
I've seen it first hand coming out into the kink community it happen to me and I'm the one who got kicked out the "friend" group
2021-03-20 06:57:21
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user7223862863804 :
I entered and left several groups due to NOT being warned about the missing stairs and then later finding out it was known.
2021-03-20 15:15:27
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Katie :
And this is how I got rap3d
2021-03-20 12:55:06
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Kalleidoscape 🍉 :
It’s heartbreaking how every activist community has at least one or two “hero narcissists” who absolutely REFUSE to reflect and apologize for anything
2021-03-25 09:28:19
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Adrian🦕🩶🩵 :
I’m sorry but if they were your real friends you wouldn’t have to ask.. they would’ve already informed you.
2021-03-20 17:30:06
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Aunt.Lydia :
Ooh... sometime that missing stair has gained a lot of power and the stairs around it become it’s flying monkeys 😬
2021-03-22 01:22:40
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Loopy McDermod :
Ended up in an abusive relationship with a missing stair person associated with the Sex Positive Community in Portland. Avoid that group!!!
2021-03-20 22:56:31
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lychiiaa :
Oh I knew this was a thing but didn’t know this had a name/term 😳
2021-03-21 04:59:15
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It’s Kyra! 🥰 :
My friend group had a missing stair and we just got rid of him this year 😅
2021-03-21 16:49:07
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Heather weather :
The fact that I openly call out missing stairs has made me unpopular ...apparently I need to “stop making trouble” 😬 🤷🏻♀️😏nah! TY! Great info!
2021-03-20 19:03:24
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softgothgirlfriend :
I never heard of this term but it makes so much sense. I knew one in a family I was close with and got 0 warning 😐
2021-03-20 16:34:52
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LivBounty :
So many “missing stairs” in 12 step programs too
2021-03-20 21:05:43
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qwkjbue :
this is the first time I've heard this but love it@moxieminion @cutekittenkink @gravescross @the.metalcowboy @catieosaurus
2021-03-20 10:48:39
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Kells :
The whispering! Tech industry heavily relies on whisper networks and young/marginalized ppl frequently to not get privy to the “heads up”
2021-03-20 10:06:58
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Toetal_devastation :
I don’t really understand this. Do you mean that there are actually people in the community that are dangerous as in may cause physical harm and every
2021-03-20 20:41:41
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clarasaurousrex :
As a furry, the furry fandom has a HUGE problem with missing stairs, moreso than others. We tend to push things under the rug for reputation :(
2021-03-20 16:55:07
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lilianna <3 :
Found out about one in my family when I remembered a weird experience as a child, I found out my family’s been hiding it from his daughter for years.
2021-03-20 16:20:59
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Bowie :
@loverzspit hmmmmmm @bobrossenergydrink hmmmmm
2021-03-23 15:47:37
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Lane :
It’s so sad how rare it is to get justice for victims so there’s just missing stairs everywhere instead of them being on a registry
2021-03-23 08:57:13
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James Stokes :
I didn't know this term but it's so accurate, thank you!
2021-03-22 12:54:32
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☢️RadioActive Redwood🌿🍁 :
This is the first I’ve heard of this phrase but yes!! I am well aware of those “creepy uncles” or hot head co worker etc
2021-03-20 07:38:09
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The Tower System :
I knew a missing stair in a LARP community in the midwest. I reported him and they said "he's fine if you don't anger him."😐
2021-03-20 14:48:18
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Alice Crusher :
Why does this remind me of the Ed Edd and Eddy episode
2021-03-20 08:50:58
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Jessi Wizard :
TO PR0M0T3 PROPERLY THROUGH THE COMMENTS: 1. NO SPAMMING EMOJIS 2. DON'T SAY BººST 3. USE CAPITAL LETTERS AND !? 4. LONG COMMENT!!!
2021-03-20 08:16:29
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