@iamalilstitious: often narcs capitalize on this & use it to gaslight you “everyone else thinks I’m great” #narcabuse #narcissism #narctok #healing #narcissisticparent

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clarkiecher
Wunda Wuman :
Know this very well. I never heard the term pseudomutuality thanks for speaking on it.
2023-02-16 10:55:56
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alex_bebop
Alexandra :
*turns up volume so my mom can hear it across the room*🥰🥰🥰
2021-04-25 23:12:10
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linzdefranco
LinzDefranco :
This algorithm is getting too specific
2021-04-25 22:55:06
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doreaw_mt
Dorea :
So that’s why she goes for your jugular so hard you broke the façade she had built with your ✨honesty✨
2021-04-25 21:09:33
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cassandrajourdan
cassandrajourdan :
Omg.... ya nailed it. My MIL acts like the best mom/grandma on Facebook and yet her kids don’t talk to her 🧐 hmmm
2021-04-25 23:06:38
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kelsea.danielle
kelsea.danielle :
every kid that got told “but your parents seem so cool” knows what she’s talkin about
2021-04-27 23:57:48
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murdockmoves
Amanda Murdock :
My in laws. We value family above all else- yet we also manipulate and gas light family that doesn’t agree w/us. We will also guilt you to spend time
2021-04-26 00:11:08
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ohchelyeah
🔮Chelsey🔮 :
Could u make a Pt2 giving advice 2 ppl coming into a NPD family structure? It’s hard for me to give my partner advice/insight on my NPD parent!
2021-04-26 01:18:53
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stephsaquaticworld
Stephanie Grimes :
This is literally the family structure I grew up in. I broke the cycle, and in breaking it, destroyed the family unit. Part of me will feel guilt for
2021-04-26 00:31:00
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inkedbeauty85
inkedbeauty85 :
this is my mom 100% it's scary. I haven't been around for many years and started visiting for holidays and she made everything see like the family was
2021-04-26 01:31:37
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michellenicole1
Michelle Nicole :
I’ve never related more with a TikToker. When you talk, I feel like you’re describing my exact situation. Thank you for sharing. I feel less alone.
2021-04-25 22:39:49
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imsweaty_
lenna reindeer :
✨‼️Definition‼️: a relationship between two persons in which conflict of views or opinions is solved by simply ignoring it✨
2021-04-26 06:35:56
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tara_coombs
Tara Coombs :
Holy sh*t.. eyes opening... jaw dropping... this is exactly the explanation I’ve been looking for.
2021-04-26 18:22:39
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fortheloveofmisse
Miss Elena :
And if the solution to any sort of conflict is to always ignore it, this certainly explains why one’s emotional needs could be neglected growing up.
2021-04-25 21:08:26
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autumninthebroomcloset
autumninthebroomcloset :
You just described my dad perfectly. Like, deacon in the church, baseball coach, etc. Nobody would believe me if I spoke out..but my husband knows
2021-04-26 01:44:52
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patiencemarie1
Patiencemarie :
They only care about pleasing people on the outside and fitting in they don’t realize the damage they’ve done to their family
2021-04-26 02:02:15
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victoria_from_jersey
Girlie_From_Jersey :
Geez...do we ALL have the same relatives?!?! We should literally start a group for this topic so
2021-04-26 01:00:46
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songstream
Songstream Nikki :
This is my life and I’ve never been able to explain it.
2021-04-25 23:06:01
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cherilopez19
Cheri Lopez :
Oh. My. God. That’s my family! 😭 I always try to tell people my parents aren’t what they seem, but nobody believes me.
2021-04-25 23:24:19
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bridgetamf
Bridget :
My mother 💯. My entire childhood. No one believed us until she would slip up.
2021-04-25 23:12:21
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marissaandroses
marissaandroses :
O. M. G. There’s actually a name for it 😳 I have been trying to explain to ppl with my husbands family for years...
2021-04-25 22:56:33
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mmelleven
ellenmm :
YES my mom and dad put on this “my family is better than that” facade for their friends and at home they were meaner than middle school bullies!
2021-04-25 23:34:32
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notroublehereofficer
Peach :
Omg. This was what my Mom was like. The one and only time she EVER hugged me was when I told my principal she hits me at home when I was in 5th grade.
2021-04-26 04:34:38
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len_rosa
Rosa :
This video was meant to be on my FYP. My fiancé and I have been going through this situation for awhile and we finally decided to end things with them
2021-04-25 23:00:36
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alina_lehman
Alina Lehmann :
OMG that’s my family !!
2021-06-21 21:22:42
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