Kilisi
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Wednesday 05 May 2021 22:42:05 GMT
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Lindsay :
Slightly unrelated buttt, TOO TURNT TINA FROM VINE IS ENGAGED???
2021-05-06 00:06:07
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uhhhunter84 :
Is this “Imma fleek the eyebrow cuz josh likes the flick of the wrist”
2021-05-06 03:48:39
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☆彡 :
"my feelings are hurt and i need time to process them so i can better communicate with you"
2021-05-06 01:44:31
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Emilyyyy :
I’m def a internal processor
2021-05-05 22:45:13
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Kilisi :
This goes for your future children too
2021-05-05 22:44:35
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connie :
THIS EXPLAINED IT SO WELL, THANK YOU SO MUCH, I had no idea it even had a name !!
2021-05-05 23:23:09
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𝓢𝓱𝓮𝔂𝓮𝓷𝓷𝓮 🌞🥾✨ :
Wow thank you I never knew the word for it but I am definitely an internal processor and my fiancé is the opposite. This will help.
2021-05-05 23:20:57
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notyogirlfriend :
Id tell my ex I was internally processing not giving the silent treatment in hopes he’d stop yelling at me and he’d tell me “well don’t do that” 😃
2021-05-06 08:57:07
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✨𝙹𝚎𝚜𝚜✨ :
YES. I always give myself 24hrs max after a confrontations. It means I either had 24 hours to decide if the issue was that serious or I had 24 hours t
2021-05-06 01:52:59
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Aileenchristineee :
I’m an internal processor too and you explained this SO perfectly!!
2021-05-06 15:49:23
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Changa21 :
The biggest difference is if you actually talk about what's making you upset after the silent treatment. If they refuse to talk about it after then...
2021-05-06 05:23:43
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Meg :
Also my therapist said it’s sometimes best to remove yourself from the situation (meaning walk away) and process and then come back and discuss..
2021-05-06 16:28:03
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emma jo :
you’ve been like the older sister/cousin to me since i was in like 4th grade ily ty
2021-05-06 00:20:25
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ari 💕 :
my partner is an internal processor and due to trauma they take quite a bit of time to talk to me and explain their feelings
2021-05-07 03:24:01
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evie :
OR there is also trauma responses and/or verbal shutdowns that happen to people who have ASD! There’s many reasons to go silent but as long as you go-
2021-05-06 13:33:35
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ariana biermann :
thank you so much for this. i’ve always tried to find the words to explain it, didn’t even know internal processing was a thing💕
2021-05-06 18:10:29
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🔅☀️Soul🌻🔅 :
YOU GOT A FIANCE- 😳 damn, we growing up FAST
2021-05-06 01:43:12
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Kilisi :
1 more viral tik tok away from blocking the word “fiancé” I’m sorry I’ve internally processed as long as possible and I’m not willing to negotiate.
2021-05-06 03:44:00
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alyssareign :
my fiancé is definitely more internal as well!!! i always try to give him as much space & time as he needs to understand & find words for his feelings
2021-05-07 17:58:15
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Juni (they/them) :
I'm an internal processor. I tell whoever I'm talking to/arguing with that I need time to think and calm down and I'll come talk when I'm ready.
2021-05-25 07:03:24
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cookiicrumbz :
I'm the same way with my significant other and it's hard to try to explain it to him,how do I explain it, help please
2021-05-05 22:45:40
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Spencer Lee :
Finally someone who gets it! People want me to talk through arguments BUT I WILL OBLITERATE THEM WITH MY WORDS. IM BEING NICE BY SHUTTING UP.
2021-05-06 01:36:55
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Sony :
what if i’m neurodivergent and easily get overstimulated by having arguments and need time to cool off? i’m just genuinely curious
2021-05-06 02:46:06
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Emily :
As an internal processor who hates confrontation I found that taking a minute to calm down then texting instead of talking helps but that’s just me
2021-05-25 22:56:04
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𝒮ᥫ᭡ :
YOUR WHAT? I missed so many chapters
2021-05-06 01:20:06
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