Karla
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Monday 17 May 2021 16:56:03 GMT
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Mikael G.K. :
Problem is the “avoidants” can view this type of clear, thoughtful communication as neediness. then abandon. then perpetuate the cycle
2021-05-17 21:59:08
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Sam :
As an avoidant, being constantly asked if/reminded that I need space is so aggravating. Like a backhanded attempt to connect. Personal opinion tho!!😌
2021-05-18 07:27:16
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Jamie Potenza :
I’m crying, this is so helpful.
2021-05-18 20:52:43
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Christie :
These are great. And sometimes you say them and it doesn’t help, or they aren’t able/ready to receive them. And that is okay too, maybe just not a
2021-05-17 17:46:35
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paws&hike :
Doesn't their deactivated attachment in moments of stress make them think that they dont care about you and arent committed to working through things?
2022-01-17 23:55:20
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sugarmeggnolia :
I want to be this healthy in my next relationship!
2021-05-17 23:35:07
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faerie_mary :
fwiw I said almost all these things to my last SO and they went unheard. sometimes we can say/do all the right things but the other person is simply/1
2021-05-29 17:40:32
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discopyth0n :
Even with a lot of communication a secure person and an avoidant person very well might still not work.
2021-05-18 00:09:04
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Julian Dominic Haene :
I'm amazed at the fact that you can still have a clear mind in time of conflicts . . . if only I'd known this years ago 🥺
2021-05-17 19:50:18
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gwanlipibu :
I feel like this is way too much communication for avoidant attachment
2021-12-23 07:02:51
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Capt :
Literally had a conversation with my ex, I said if we were to get back to together we would need to set and discuss boundaries for us both.. Her resp.
2021-07-24 22:06:33
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Blue eyed soul sister :
I loved your answer that said, the best I can do is keep my own side of the street clean”. Good words!
2021-05-25 12:47:05
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Rawan Fish :
thank you you put my feelings into words
2022-04-30 23:50:54
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Holistic Divination :
love this beautiful
2021-11-29 22:30:54
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Aaron in progress 🍉 :
AAAAAAAAAH!!!!!! 😤 😡😰😢🥺😭🥺🥺🥺🥺 I’ve tried. I’ve tried do hard. This is going to be helpful. Thank you.
2021-06-10 13:52:58
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Hell0Goodbye :
Sadly sometimes you say all those things and they aren’t far enough on their healing journey to be able to do it.
2022-01-05 14:23:18
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Fares Farhi :
i wish i was told that 🥺♥️a very great video thank you ♥️
2021-11-12 20:11:39
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tama_java_eine_Dame :
needed this sooner
2021-12-29 22:08:11
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Alaynah :
I will take notes from this to help my anxious partner
2021-09-03 04:22:55
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ms.masesi :
finally a person who doesn't bash avoidant people and is understanding
2021-10-21 20:36:03
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that1noodl3 :
He says “I don’t owe you any reassurance”
2021-05-21 17:04:12
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Waves :
Thank you for this
2021-09-28 08:40:04
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Lia :
doesn't ever seem to help. he literally closes his eyes and completely ignores me to get out of conversations. 💔💔💔
2024-01-14 03:43:08
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Andrew :
dude, thank you for posting this
2021-06-10 19:18:20
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