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Erin2410 :
Yes! Like so many parents don’t enjoy being parents, it makes no sense why they had children.
2021-05-20 16:26:18
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Emily Cole :
what's wrong with being selfish when it doesn't effect anyone else. if you don't want kids because you want your free time it's selfish but not in
2021-05-20 16:06:38
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NJoahn :
while I love bring a mom. I strongly believe that not everyone is meant to be a parent. and thats fine and if more ppl were more open to that
2021-05-20 17:48:24
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EarsAndBows :
The way I see it, if I regret NOT having kids, that only affects me. If I regret HAVING kids, that affects EVERYONE
2021-05-20 17:44:22
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Camilla Luise :
Last week I was asked why I didn’t want kids. I answered that after college I’m done living with roommates with their own opinions and lifegoals😁😂
2021-05-22 15:54:45
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Lili 📚 :
I actually think it would be MORE selfish to have a child to satisfy my own wants when I’m either hesitant or unable to commit 100% of myself to them
2021-05-20 17:37:48
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T.J. Loveless :
I had three. All grown. I *hated* pregnancy and parenting. I love them. Both can be true at once.
2021-05-22 19:06:05
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Em Jay :
I know so many bad parents (not bad people) because they just did it because they were told to. If you’re not 💯 about it spare yourself and the kid
2021-05-22 13:43:20
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Alicia Rosario :
I’m so with you on this! The only difference is when people make the ‘selfish’ comments, I wholeheartedly agree. I’m absolutely selfish and you should
2021-05-20 16:53:02
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Perfect-disaster 🇨🇦 :
having kids when you don't want them is selfish not the other way around. I don't want kids either
2021-05-23 08:39:39
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René Hudspeth :
Selfish would be having a kid just bc you’re “supposed to”, then trying to continue to control your free time as if you’re still childfree
2021-05-20 16:34:41
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Leillani :
I'm glad my friends had kids before me. Because I know what it entails...and that I DON'T want it.
2021-05-23 04:09:08
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Lady Rina :
Also anyone who doesn't want kids but could be open to it one day. Get a partner. Not a spouse. Someone who will let you have some control of freetime
2021-05-20 17:47:44
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Jennifer Marroy :
I love parenting BUT because I love parenting, I understand that I DO love it because it WAS A CHOICE and with that choice, I will not use them as
2021-05-20 16:13:49
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Lynzooo :
Speaking as a mom, I don’t think it’s selfish to say you don’t want kids because you value your free time. It would be selfish to feel that way and
2021-05-20 16:21:46
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LeeBru :
You can be a wonderful Auntie —— or not —— ;)
2021-05-20 16:52:10
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Shannon King :
you don't have to love every aspect of parenting. parenting is hard and it cam be difficult. o say this as someone who isn't a parent yet. that said
2021-05-20 19:54:47
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🦌Little Deerie🦌 :
I love my kids, but I do let them know that while their safety is my #1 concern, their happiness is not. That not to say I won’t do things they love,
2021-05-20 17:18:08
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Tami (Vi’s Version) :
My favorite response is: how am I being selfish when these kids don’t even exist
2021-05-21 06:11:49
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Snurffiboo :
My mom used my siblings and I for status. She hating parenting. Just stayed in bed 24/6. The only day out was Sunday for church.
2021-05-20 17:20:40
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Elserson :
Very good point! Definitely Will be saying this when someone hits me with the 'It's different when it's your own' after I say I don't like kids
2021-05-20 17:23:32
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Wookie :
We need more ppl like you. Being mature enough to recognize that IS being smart. I have a friend that thinks the same way!
2021-05-20 17:25:36
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dramaxlandia :
It’s better to be selfish and prioritize yourself than having kids because of pressure then resenting everything!
2021-05-20 17:33:28
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Brittbritt :
I mean you’re not trying to have kids so I think it’s fair to be honest 🤷🏻♀️
2021-05-20 17:34:03
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Argleblather :
Yup. I could be a good parent, but I would hate it.
2021-05-20 17:15:06
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Tavia Baldwin :
I don't enjoy parenting. I do it because it needs to be done and I only have the one so it's worth it but I really don't like it
2021-05-20 17:00:51
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HateMeToday_Lov :
And the fact that women are called selfish bc they don’t want kids which take over their entire lives forever and ever proves that society is taught t
2021-05-20 17:45:18
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Queenyy :
selfish isn't a dirty word. it's okay to be selfish! also it's selfish to have kids- signed a mom 😂
2021-05-20 17:45:40
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Bibliophile :
I feel bad because early parenting is like training a dog for me >.> Like, get that out of your mouth, don't chew on that, no biting...
2021-05-20 17:45:53
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Lady Rina :
I didn't understand this concept until you said it. I love my kids and there are some aspects of parenting I love but I hate some parenting stuff too.
2021-05-20 17:46:13
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Shayz MG Anderson :
With my adhd I’m already parenting myself just to do basic tasks. Adding an actual kid to the mix would not make that better.
2021-05-20 16:53:51
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Bee :
I don’t think some parents really understand how all consuming being a parent actually is
2021-05-20 16:49:32
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confused.doodlebug :
honestly the craziest thing to me is the people who call people who decide they don’t want to parent “selfish”.
2021-05-20 17:49:38
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Bailey Marie :
I love being a parent. Hate parenting. sorry not sorry.
2021-05-20 17:50:55
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Amy Jay :
So many people. So very many can’t stand and even resent their families. I’m 46 and I never had them bc I didn’t want to take that on
2021-05-20 18:23:20
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Cindoro 🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩🇸🇾🇱🇧 :
People who get weird about others not having or wanting kids are either jellies or they’ve been conditioned to believe propaganda bs from capitalists
2021-05-20 18:44:30
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Beatrice :
I don't think we talk about this enough.
2021-05-20 18:55:57
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Bethasauras :
Parenting sucks!!! Don’t have the kid if you don’t want. I support you! My boys don’t want kids. I’m down with pet grandma
2021-05-20 19:25:00
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Mike :
Your opinion is valid here. I think my children think the same as you do.
2021-05-20 16:48:53
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Silly goose :
YES ! Wanting a baby isn’t a good enough reason to have one, you have to want to parent!!
2021-05-20 20:00:12
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Stephanie.Lynne :
I never understood people calling childless people "selfish." You would be selfish if you HAD children & just did whatever regardless of your children
2021-05-20 20:24:41
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Kay1626 :
yes you are right
2021-05-20 23:07:41
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Whoever :
Nothing worse then seeing a parents who hates being parents. Good for tou for making a wise choice
2021-05-20 23:09:57
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Kati Schuler :
It’s hard enough taking care of my dog. Kids are not it for me🤷♀️
2021-05-20 23:15:54
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