@professorneil: Reply to @sarahisnext Strategic incompetence is gendered #sexism #misogyny #feminism #gender #masculinity #housework

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rookiehours0
Rook :
also!! it doesn't take a whole lot of mental power to figure out which eggs to buy but learning like car matinence has been gatekept from women their
2021-08-13 15:04:20
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lucille.isadora.tures
Dr. Lucille Isadora Tures :
I think another important distinction is that “women’s tasks“ are usually the most repetitive and needed for a daily functioning
2021-08-13 17:45:03
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eloise_everything
Eloise :
pretending to be bad at videogames or sports to boost the man's self confidence
2021-08-13 19:36:38
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thursamaday
Lauren Ludwig :
Common household tasks are De-valued. I don't think it has to do with enjoyment but no one wants to do something that is not valued or appreciated.
2021-08-13 16:47:30
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nes_s.world
Nic :
I also hear from a lot of my married friends that they pretend not to know how to change oil etc so their husbands can feel manly and useful.
2021-08-13 19:45:30
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mykel8749
Michael Patterson :
Kinda unfair to assume what men enjoy when it obviously varies person to person what tasks they prefer.
2021-08-13 15:42:51
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renaissance_tash
renaissance_tash :
Also, women have to draw the line somewhere. If I have a partner and I’m doing the inside chores and the yard work - why do I have a partner? 😂
2021-08-13 15:49:18
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ti.pi4
ti.pi4 :
you lost me at men doing things they aren't asked to do
2021-08-13 15:17:20
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fionngriffin
Fionn Griffin :
I would like to argue that a lot of times it falls to who’s more bothered if it doesn’t get done
2021-08-14 14:34:14
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honestlyimsodone
give me a break :
women give men tasks to make them feel good... we can all open jars but we tell you to to make you feel strong
2021-08-14 03:19:56
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mrsalabamaworley
Mrs. Alabama Worley :
The trend is that women do the daily things, men do the once-in-a-while things. You don't need to fix things as often as you need to cook, clean, shop
2021-08-13 17:53:24
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beckibold
Becki Bold :
I feel like when women do it it’s to make the man feel good. Like make him feel like he’s teaching her or caring for her.
2021-08-14 02:00:04
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karlagabriellerose
Karla Gabrielle Rose :
also we get laughed at when we ask people to teach us things
2021-08-13 20:48:12
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teeinhd
Tee :
my parents had me try to mow the lawn for the first time @ 14 and they literally stopped me cuz it was so bad. It’s always been my brother and dad
2021-08-14 14:36:57
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sarajenivieve
Sara Jenivieve :
Also a lot of the time women could figure it out but after being told since childhood they can’t do certain tasks just default that task to the man
2021-08-14 08:48:45
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potatocoquette
Zé :
It's also stuff that needs done rarely vs stuff that needs done every day
2021-08-14 06:48:35
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dressedupandnaked
Sara (سارة) :
The tasks men feign ineptness at are tasks you would have to do DAILY if you didn’t have someone to do it for you.
2021-08-27 23:21:01
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doommuppet
Gina D :
so true. I leave home maintenance things that I can do so my husband feels useful around the house. 😐
2021-08-13 15:35:37
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backyarddinosaurs
Backyard Dinosaurs :
It’s also because we’ve already done everything else.
2021-08-14 19:01:51
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anchellaofdoom
angie 🇨🇦 :
confession: i pretended i couldn't cook for a very long time because i knew it would be my sole responsibility otherwise 😳 I've grown since 🙃
2021-08-14 16:25:08
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blanktiktokuser
blanktiktokuser :
there is also a huge difference in frequency. The stuff that's considered "guy stuff" is occasional not the daily stuff of cleaning and cooking.
2021-08-13 21:45:00
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almondcheesecraisin
Almondcheesecraisin :
That sort is almost always an understanding/agreement as well. One person is the main vet caller, the other is the main printer ink changer.
2021-08-14 15:21:29
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meislili
Lili Antonette :
Men’s tasks are often very dangerous too. If I’m not as strong as you I feel like it’s safest for you to do something that requires heavy lifting
2021-08-14 14:24:30
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askamommy
Askamommy 🇨🇦 :
You show up on my FYpage almost every time I open tiktok. 😊
2021-08-13 16:09:20
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