Chaia Ella
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Monday 16 August 2021 21:57:14 GMT
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porcupinology :
it's strange they would use them *when* directing people to your bio when your bio says she her haha
2021-08-16 23:12:32
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Hubris :
as someone who uses they, you're right. you've a right to use she/her as I've a right to they/them
2021-08-16 23:24:59
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Maya Z :
Maybe don’t do it indeed
2021-08-16 22:44:53
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where's the lettuce :
a lot of people saying "everyone uses they/them" miss that a lot of people ALSO do it to us to avoid recognizing us as our genders
2021-08-17 01:48:47
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Callum Riach :
I use they for people a lot even when I know their gender. In fact it’s pretty common. It might not be a personal attack.
2021-08-17 22:55:32
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Andreas :
Umm sometimes I use they/them for people even when i know their pronouns just because i see it as a universal pronoun is that an issue
2021-08-18 05:12:59
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No :
Yeah it’s so weird seeing supposed trans allies suggest that intentionally using they/them for someone who doesn’t use them isn’t misgendering
2021-08-16 23:51:10
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Hillbilly Gothic :
sameee i almost would rather be called he than they
2021-08-16 22:38:48
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🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️ :
some of these comments make me very sad. when a trans person says "don't call me that" it's always treated as a topic for debate.
2021-08-16 23:48:04
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Alex :
She has spoken!
2021-08-16 22:00:46
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bermudaPiangle :
honestly as a trans guy it hurt way more when my friend used they on me then when I get accidentally misgendered
2021-08-17 06:40:22
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Ironfrenzy :
I have tried to use gender-neutral terms most of the time but hadn't considered this negative impact. Thank you for helping me do better!
2021-08-16 23:12:16
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Dani :
right? it literally takes 2 seconds to check someone's bio. That's literally the whole point of putting pronouns there!
2021-08-16 22:52:26
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Me x Red Velvet :
My dad never uses my pronouns and just calls me by they/them because it’s “easier” and I really don’t like it :/
2021-08-17 00:15:57
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NohbdyDoesTikTok :
I'm sorry, I really need something safe to address everyone as, if I can't use gender neutral they I'm just gonna be calling everyone dude again.
2021-08-17 01:21:40
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kilgore :
my initial reaction was that this was a chronically online take but i’m glad i kept watching because that actually really helped me understand
2021-08-16 23:11:06
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GlowCookie :
yes ill be talking to someone on discord and ill have my pronouns not only in my status but in my name and theyll still misgender me by saying they
2021-08-17 11:16:31
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Charlotte :
my god go touch grass
2021-08-17 00:24:40
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Jakob :
It makes sense to say they/them when you don't know someones pronouns or seeking in general about "a person"
2021-08-17 09:43:47
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xx_gorilla_biscuit_xx :
Dammed if you do dammed if you don’t. Somebody will always find something to cry about.
2021-08-17 16:19:57
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abigailmc8 :
i understand your point, and you probably did it for shock value, but they isnt a gendered pronoun so you cant be misgendered with they/them
2021-08-17 10:10:28
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Atticus :
I think by definition it's not "misgendering" but that doesn't make it not disrespectful and transphobic.
2021-08-17 21:22:05
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gLass :
you're definitely a woman; however, they / them pronouns are universal to all genders, including women. it's not just for nb people
2021-08-18 15:13:09
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Joshua Malfoy :
🤷🏼 Disagree. They is never misgendering. They is inclusive rather than exclusive. You're trying to make a big deal out of nothing. Take a seat, ma'a
2021-08-18 17:22:20
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