Chaia Ella
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Wednesday 18 August 2021 21:34:29 GMT
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Gabriel :
Yuuuup. Yep. Yeah. It’s hard to advise people on the correct approach when there’s no clear cut answer that includes everybody.
2021-08-18 22:27:37
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Xtra :
Unrelated, your hair looks magical and cool!!
2021-08-18 22:36:22
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Cynthaer :
I've been staring at this one uneasily for a couple years, and watching Contrapoints get torn to shreds for taking about it didn't help
2021-08-19 00:42:33
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Emilio Bedelio :
I think an answer is normalizing asking for pronouns. If you ask one person, ask everyone. Also, start with, “my pronouns are ___, may I ask yours?”
2021-08-18 23:09:49
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Ben (they/them) :
as a nonbinary Amab masc presenting, no one ever gets my pronouns right without asking. this is a complicated issue
2021-08-19 13:27:41
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jenna :
thank you for pointing out that it's complicated, many people want to pretend that these issues are black and white but that's not the case
2021-08-22 02:21:37
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Querent Mercury :
I'm non-binary and if someone was able to assume that from my presentation, it would make my entire week.
2021-08-19 18:32:58
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✨Echo✨ :
I ask pretty much everyone their pronouns when I meet them by telling them my own pronouns
2021-08-18 22:45:45
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Kiri Callaghan | Author | VO :
I try to ask in person rather than assume, and often give mine first. That way it feels more like asking for a name than because of someone’s
2021-08-18 23:52:24
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Not A Snake :
instead of asking for pronouns I usually give my pronouns which prompts everyone in the conversation to give their pronouns.
2021-08-18 23:39:22
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Occifur :
Yes!!!!
2021-08-23 16:06:10
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j@zzy :
i have a desire for both of these at different times & it's frustrating. i wrote a poem about it
2021-08-18 23:12:39
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K Skullz :
sooo... the contrapoints drama
2021-08-24 21:21:37
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Ray Asher :
Platinum Rule: treat others the way they wanna be treated
2021-08-19 13:49:48
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unoriginalpenname :
I feel like Natalie Wynn made a tweet about this…and she got burned hard for it
2021-08-23 15:45:43
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aedy :
I have a story I’ve wanted to share on here relating to this, so expect a stitch sometime soon!
2021-08-18 23:19:47
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Rainbow cashier :
what are we supposed to do then?
2021-08-19 03:57:25
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Spooky Babe :
This is very closely tied into the casualness with which some non-binary folks shout “gender is fake”, etc
2021-08-19 00:46:59
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Brianna :
thank you for all the content you make! i haven't seen your vids in a while and am glad to see you again. one of my fav creators
2021-08-24 11:06:09
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8halfx11 :
that is such a good point! so awk
2021-08-23 06:14:27
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Lady-Eight :
Yes
2021-08-25 19:48:43
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PersonalGenius :
Yup, it’s complicated!
2021-09-07 16:12:59
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7 Foot Auntie :
I feel this
2021-08-28 21:16:51
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Prophencia :
Also makes me think “oh they clocked me, and they STILL don’t know I want to use she/her” I know why they ask but it makes me so insecure.
2021-08-23 20:12:10
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Corey Hornraven :
I think the answer is to normalize asking for pronouns. If everyone asks everyone their pronouns, it doesn't other or alienate anyone
2021-08-19 14:39:10
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