tblizzy
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Star :
I find it really troubling when someone says a bi or pan dating a man after them is a legit ✨trauma✨ Like.
2021-08-27 04:33:54
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Ari ♡ :
“Left for a man” or broke up and they dated a man after? And this is trauma how
2021-08-28 21:33:11
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claireeeeeeeeeee :
also if no one wants me bc i’m inexperienced how am i ever supposed to become experienced if no one gives me a chance ?? (1/2)
2021-08-30 04:16:37
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BeccaBackstage :
they have the same energy as my ex-husband saying he never wants to date a bi girl again because I eventually came out as a lesbian 🙄
2021-08-27 12:21:58
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burritos_and_adhd :
an interesting addition: I'm perceived as more masc presenting and I've received hardly any pan/bi phobia 😬
2021-08-28 05:46:58
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Kykey :
it's their insecurities. Bi/Pan people are valid. by in validating bi/pan people, they are doing the same thing that heteros do to us. not a cycle....
2021-10-12 13:45:57
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karlarae5 :
The trauma is being left or cheated on (which hurts!)- why does it matter who they left for?
2021-08-28 23:59:54
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Anne :
i used to date a girl who all the time was scared of me letting her for a man, but she also used to invalid me, she used to tell jokes saying that I 1
2021-10-12 09:28:42
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Apollyon 👹 :
I think some people will never understand why gender don't matter to them. Either identityfing or liking. Like man or women are the same and...
2021-10-15 22:25:05
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Ghostbust :
see this is why I get so nervous to even tell anyone I'm Bi, because I KNOW they have some incorrect judgement of me upon hearing that. like I have 1/
2021-10-17 16:28:24
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🍉meg🍉 :
I think what bothers me the most is that other lesbians will feel more judgmental of their bi/pan counterparts because we almost see men as dirty
2021-08-27 14:05:28
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🍉Thatlesbianyoufollow✌️🍉 :
We’ve got you 💜
2021-08-27 03:17:13
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Morgan Gray :
Thank you for speaking up for us.
2021-08-27 13:16:35
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Jazz they/ze 🇵🇸 :
thank youuuuu
2021-08-26 23:59:44
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miserableshrew12 :
if ur using trauma as an excuse to not date someone from specific group of ppl maybe u shouldnt be dating at all yet..
2021-08-27 04:08:53
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WineyMami :
bc it's mostly their own insecurities
2021-09-09 21:46:31
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mya :
how is being left for a man worse than being left for a woman? they’d rather be left for a woman? why? That has bi/pan ph0bia written all over it imo
2021-08-27 14:49:16
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ann :
how is leaving u for a man any different from leaving u for another woman
2021-08-27 00:21:54
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veeroehero :
Saying they left you for a man is kinda odd. It doesn't address the relationship issues y'all were probably having
2021-08-27 14:48:58
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bư (thằng/nó) :
A lot of ppl don’t rlize they can have trauma but its not okay to project that on others.
2021-08-27 08:28:58
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drivebythinker :
and trauma doesn't give you a get of jail free card for being bi/pan/trans phobic
2021-08-26 23:54:40
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Amy :
This has been so accurate, thank you.
2021-08-26 23:32:00
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That.Hore :
i think there’s plenty of queer individuals that don’t wanna admit their bi and panphobia cause then they have to address their hypocrisy
2021-08-27 00:00:13
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snoekiekoekie :
It’s definitely just biphobia
2021-09-06 19:32:21
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CaitVi shipper :
oh 💯. And I'm in therapy cz I have a lot of trauma that I don't want to burden on my future partner with. Trauma from exes and childhood but I'm not-
2021-08-27 03:10:26
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Bingus :
it's an explanation but DEFINITELY not an excuse for bi/pan phobia :/
2021-08-27 09:46:21
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✨🍉 Kodi 🍉✨ :
I was devout Christian. Coming out WASNT an option for me— I forced myself to date men cuz I identified as pan (I truly believed I was).
2021-08-27 07:56:16
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awitchydream :
I thought the whole thing about your own personal trauma was that you were supposed to work through it so you didn't hold it against other ppl
2021-08-29 23:59:48
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frankie :
WORD !!! straight girls hurting lesbians is not a bi/pan problem
2021-08-27 02:05:44
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Nora :
I think we also need to learn that not all lesbians are women, lesbian means nonmen attracted to nonmen. (1/2)
2021-10-18 13:25:42
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Cece :
Also lesbians leaves one for another woman, how is this different? I seriously am thinking they don't want to address because is their "comfort" pls
2021-08-27 03:40:00
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whatdidshesayyyy3 :
It’s the “leaving them for a man” when I’m attracted to both lol
2021-09-06 15:26:42
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Aimee Wilkinson :
also us bi/pan people also get used by straight girls in the same way lesbians do, so again it’s valid but not to use against us
2021-08-27 09:21:49
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vee :
Yes, we need the bi and pan and trans ladies to increase the dating pool. I have love for all interested and interesting women.
2021-08-26 23:44:17
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Dylan :
Also have they considered that their partner “left them for a man” bc they’re a shitty person who says things like bi ppl just leave lesbians for men?
2021-08-27 12:37:23
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MaddieG :
it kinda reminds me of men who had one girl break his heart so now all women are hoes
2021-08-27 01:30:29
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Cloudy 🍃 cowgirl🇨🇦 :
I’m sixteen and Bi and haven’t been with a girl or even in a relationship other than like random kisses with guys. 1/2
2021-09-06 04:28:25
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💫 :
so many lesbians completely ignore the existence of bi/panphobia which annoys me so much
2021-08-27 15:46:26
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Onyx :
I like your shirt
2021-08-27 04:43:39
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🦋 :
We need to stop calling everything trauma. Ppl are allowed to leave you for someone else - it’s def hurtful. But not trauma.
2021-08-27 16:24:15
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Bri Ryder (she/her) :
THE EXPERIENCE THING IS SO REAL. I’m like 😭 I’m gay too okay just because I’m not “experienced” doesn’t mean I’m not 😭
2021-08-27 04:51:58
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Free the mind :
I could understand the trauma aspect if they just chose not to date them, but actively putting bi/pan people down and discrediting them 1/2
2021-08-27 04:27:52
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the guy behind u :
Frying pan??😂
2021-08-27 01:44:54
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Tara Lore :
The bipan struggle is real. smh.
2021-09-05 06:11:25
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lynn :
I went from pan to lesbian too and my god the gatekeeping. like, my bad bruh, I didn't know I was trying to join the elite gays or something 😐
2021-08-27 06:41:31
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fm366 :
Not to be a jerk … but if someone leaving you is a trauma.. that is a super low threshold for trauma.
2021-08-27 01:37:31
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kat :
there’s so much tension between the two communities.. i’ve seen so many lesbians & bi women be so mean to the other community & it sucks so much
2021-08-27 15:38:08
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Ryan :
if someone has trauma that leads to them making judgments on how they treat people, they need therapy. it is not okay
2021-10-11 03:36:05
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Retconned Name :
huh. looks like I will continue to hide from the Ls, Gs, and straights. le sigh.
2021-08-27 07:02:07
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