Catieosaurus
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Tuesday 07 September 2021 17:16:21 GMT
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finding.katie :
can you please talk more about how to distinguish the difference? like when a partner has ADHD but won't\can't help find solutions.
2021-09-07 18:15:18
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Ben 🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
Why are you so wise? Like was there a quest? A tree? Some fruit?
2021-09-07 17:22:24
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Aaron Kaye :
what do you do when partner b is nerotypical & won't chip in, partner A (ADHD+) struggles but takes on the extra tasks & it stresses them out.
2021-09-07 17:45:07
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a not so perfect mom :
you just explained my entire marriage to my ex & how he treated our relationship. now realizing I have adhd it makes it so much worse
2021-09-07 17:26:32
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Belleze 🇦🇺 :
My sister growing up used to say that exact line. “I do it poorly so I don’t get asked to do that chore again” aka I would then am have to. I hated it
2021-09-08 13:39:17
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Sabien Gray :
The thing is that I’ve found within ND spaces particularly YT ND spaces is that both are often present. And it’s difficult af to navigate being on the
2021-09-07 19:20:28
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Katelynn Cano :
I'm the neurodivergant...but I'm partner A. I do everything in the house basically.
2021-09-07 17:56:31
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jon10388 :
I know I’m not a good cleaner so I went out and found a good housekeeper and every other week she does the cleaning.
2021-09-07 18:05:23
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Michael :
...and this leads to a parent/child dynamic within the relationship where the neurotypical partner takes on a parent roll in correcting and coaxing
2021-09-07 17:53:39
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MissBee :
my co-parent. I love him as family. I understand he has ADHD. but he chose his games over me. I spent weeks begging for help around the house.
2021-09-07 17:39:36
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anna coleman :
I feel relieved you worded it so clearly
2021-09-07 18:43:53
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Advertising Career Coach :
Oh the struggle is real at my house. Two neurodivergents trying to mimic adulting. It’s an interesting ongoing project. 😅
2021-09-07 18:32:53
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RobJ :
as an off topic question how do you manage to keep organized enough to keep putting out tiktoks on a regular basis?
2021-09-07 18:22:07
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Kierra :
I also gotta say I do think it’s okay if one of you is terrible at dishes and the other is terrible at laundry that you just take the job you’re good
2021-09-07 20:43:42
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CD + The Players :
This is where the clash between people with Neurodivergent vs people with Depression & Anxiety Disorders come into play
2021-09-07 18:47:56
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Fluffy Penguin Kitty :
My husband and I both have issues with adhd (and I’m bipolar) and luckily we’ve found that he’s better at dishes (which I struggle with bc of sensory
2021-09-07 17:49:36
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ej :
if you say trash needs to be taling out I WILL NOT KNOW YOU ARE ASKIN ME TO TAKE IT JUST FCKN ASK ME DAMNNNN
2021-09-07 17:55:34
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jfree :
As someone recently diagnosed with ADHD, I remember always blaming it for my inability to do chores it was validating, but also not helpful.
2021-09-07 18:39:02
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Theory Lane :
I do weaponized incompetence with my mom cus she guilt trips me into helping her with her gardening even when I have other plans and doing it badly -
2021-09-29 18:24:03
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Ashtree Brown :
Every relationship I've ever been in I've had explain how do everything. I now say "I'm not your brain"
2021-09-07 17:57:29
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♾️🧡AuDHD Home TV🧡♾️ :
Every day I hope I’m doing enough/pulling my weight dude
2021-10-03 12:50:54
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Anti.Tiggy :
I want so badly to be able to function. But I struggle with chronic fatigue, ASD shutdowns and Executive Dysfunction. it's hard.
2021-09-08 12:16:33
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Will DeHaven :
I saw this in my parents' relationship, and lots of others. I think one common key to fixing it is that the partner wielding the weaponized (1/2)
2021-09-07 19:14:35
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scottyshouldhaveknown :
😅wait wait wait. is your mic on your glasses??
2021-09-07 17:19:23
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port_mom_teau :
My husband and I struggle with this. Thank you for explaining it so well.
2021-09-07 17:21:52
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