Ryan Allen
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Friday 17 September 2021 23:20:34 GMT
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Ingrid :
This is hard in Latin culture bc we are socialized that it’s bad manners but I’ve been trying to educate my uncles and aunts w/my nephews
2021-09-18 00:12:38
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LauraLove :
Being forced to hug/kiss adults & guilt tripped like this as a kid taught me I couldn’t say no to adults & it ot me sexually assaulted at 6 YRS OLD (1
2021-09-18 00:01:35
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soothingyouessential :
Nothing like mocking and laughing at your child when they are struggling and in distress. My son knows he doesn’t have to have any contact with people
2021-09-18 02:20:52
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Shannon :
1. The kid said no and nobody respected that. 2. The mom put him down, which was not what he needed to feel safe.
2021-09-18 00:59:26
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Mojo_Rojo :
Is it bad that I’ve taught my daughters to yell and thrash if they have to? 😬
2021-09-18 01:56:06
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MommaOzya :
Even worse she keeps saying “don’t you love me?!” That’s some special kind of mental and emotional abuse.
2021-09-18 11:58:40
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Ryan Allen :
This was painful to watch…. Just leave the kid alone. He said no
2021-09-17 23:34:43
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Opal_Wells :
Shoo that was hard to watch. 100%
2021-09-17 23:25:26
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frazz :
That is so incredibly uncomfortable
2021-09-18 00:33:29
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Karen B) :
That brought me so many bad memories 😭. Let’s no do this to our kids please is so dangerous!
2021-09-18 00:13:05
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LauraLove :
This video broke my heart 🥺
2021-09-18 00:00:01
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Anjoelina Love :
I clicked on the original video thinking it wasn’t gonna that bad but oh my lord, I wanted to yell at them so bad
2021-09-18 03:52:30
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Mama Owl :
Forced affection is a hard no for me.
2021-09-18 19:07:03
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Its Jeeves :
"can i have a hug?" "not right now" "okay buddy sounds good" is a common occurrence here
2021-09-18 00:13:33
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Alex Williamson :
Yes yes yes!! I notice this to especially be a problem with grandparents.
2021-09-17 23:24:40
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Ktp :
you have literally just made me realise something horrific.. omfg I'm never doing this ever again.
2021-09-18 14:38:06
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Queenofzilch :
are you making this video to the adult?
2021-09-18 18:57:41
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Kas :
That whole video gave me serious ick
2021-09-18 03:02:40
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FamouslyRed :
The other day I asked for a kiss and my daughter said no, jokingly I said Aw why not and she goes “because it’s my body” 😬 you right kid my bad! 😅
2021-09-18 00:41:44
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trish :
Did y’all see the video before that? She is saying that he is a bad 4 yr old?!?!? He obviously gets ignored and doesn’t know what no means bc of the
2021-09-18 04:22:48
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Mama :
I was the first to do this in my Latin family. It didn’t go over well with the family. But, I didn’t care- I chose my kids over their egos.
2021-09-18 08:46:22
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Marissa Jalea :
that was so weird made me feel so uncomfortable, & the fact that she’s just ignoring it. he said NO. he’s a person too!
2021-09-18 14:13:06
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Cassi Crane :
my 4 yo has been on a no hugs and kisses mood for several weeks. its hard but im respecting his "no" and hoping it's just a phase 🥺
2021-09-18 02:04:52
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Jolene (Dolly’s version) :
Adults can’t do that to other adults I have no clue why people think it’s OK for adults to do to children🥴
2021-09-18 17:03:18
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Jess Jackson :
This made me so uncomfortable. As a child I was ALWAYS forced to hug and kiss relatives when I didn’t want to. It was considered “rude” not to. This
2021-09-18 15:20:58
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Leah :
The "don't hurt me, love me!" And "you love me right?!" while forcing him to give her kisses is extremely concerning.
2021-09-18 16:30:45
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Lily Swanda :
Wooo that triggered some spicy memories. This is a boundary with my kids that I will enforce violently if necessary.
2021-09-18 02:27:40
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Elijah’Grace :
This triggered a whole panic attack. It took 2 hours to calm down. That mother needs to do better and allow her son to set boundaries and say no
2021-09-18 11:15:47
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TwinMomKayy✌🏽 :
That’s what I tell people too. Don’t force affection on my kids. No is not a bad word in our house when it comes to personal space.
2021-09-18 00:09:05
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x H I L D A x :
That original video triggered me. That poor boy did not want hands and lips all over his body. He was literally scared. Ugh🥺
2021-09-18 06:12:48
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TerryL :
I wish my mom would listen to us when our kids say no don’t force it!
2021-09-17 23:54:48
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Chris :
Surprised the original didn’t go viral.
2021-09-17 23:28:07
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Prizzilla :
My Mexican family gives me problems about this.
2021-09-18 03:22:31
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Natalie 🇦🇺 :
My son was 4 before he gave my mum a hug, she always respected his choice and was over the moon the day he came up to her and hugged her
2021-09-18 09:32:00
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Lisa Marie :
I don’t even do this to my own child. If he don’t want it I back off
2021-09-18 15:52:05
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Bri M :
At the end she says “he’s such a brat” …you instigate and push him til he’s upset and he’s the brat? Whaaaaattt??
2021-09-17 23:44:57
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Nani 💕 :
I get told I’m a bad mom by my Hispanic family because I don’t force my daughter to interact with anyone she is not comfortable with
2021-09-18 12:42:17
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Caren :
My oldest son will easily tell people “my body, my rules” why can our children understand this but not adults?
2021-09-18 04:17:10
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KatieeApplee :
I wish my mom would understand this since I was a young age ive said 100 times no it makes me uncomfortable & my would alway force it on me
2021-09-18 06:11:57
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Lisette Stephany Car :
Ooo that irked my soul. I let them know it’s not ok to force it. But their dad doesn’t understand that no means no with our kids. He’s still learning1
2021-09-18 00:20:23
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Mission Cognition :
Oh gosh that was tough to watch 🥺
2021-09-18 00:13:40
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Chelsea :
Woah. My own son (3yo) will tell me no to hugs and kisses sometimes and I respect his space. Even tho I love him so much that …(1)
2021-09-18 08:19:20
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Erin▪️Interior Designer :
And then she calls him a brat! 😳🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
2021-09-18 02:27:20
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banana :
I teach my daughter that manners are looking people in the eye to say hello and goodbye. hugs and kisses are just if she feels like it. most of the
2021-09-18 13:09:43
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Jessika :
I always ask my son how he wants to say good bye! high five, blow a kiss, wave good bye, etc. I never force hugs or kisses even for grandparents
2021-09-18 00:07:47
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breanna. :
This made ME uncomfortable and I’m not even the kiddo. No means no.
2021-09-18 00:31:37
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olips862 :
My one year old has learned to sign stop. It’s her new favorite thing. So glad she can communicate and she does it with AUTHORITY!
2021-09-18 14:49:02
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Sana Zero-Two Llama :
Children are little humans, people need to respect their boundaries.
2021-09-18 12:07:36
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