not your sweetie
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Sunday 03 October 2021 20:43:53 GMT
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millerhighlife :
💯 I was raised this way & struggled with said confusion and shame, and also was in an abusive relationship for years!
2021-10-03 21:52:50
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oro laso :
and the alternative is? there's the challenge of responsible sexuality ...do they wait, try it or try it in tandem
2021-10-04 01:59:47
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Ashta Monogue :
It also dismisses the existence of asexual and aromantic people
2021-10-04 18:38:25
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Cher :
it's time to stop depending on the kids to change the world and start teaching adults to respect each other.
2021-10-03 23:57:49
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Ceddric Williams :
🤏 just a little....
2021-10-03 22:35:13
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BA Mom :
when I was 10, a guy told me sex only mattered if it was in a bed, and his 'juice' entered my man hole, he was a pastor, yep- no told him Im a boy.😅
2021-10-03 22:54:32
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JadeIchor :
And because it teaches them that if ANYONE expresses sexual desire towards them, it means they love them. And that is a FAT DANGEROUS LIE
2021-10-14 12:25:22
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FairyPandaQueen :
I honestly didn't think about it this way so I'm glad I watched this video
2021-10-03 21:50:10
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sprout :
not to mention that it usually backfires if you tell kids that the two things go together. (1)
2021-10-04 20:49:41
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ethelandwilma :
Thanks for this! The idea that love and sex are always connected can be used against kids. I appreciate this info so much!
2021-10-03 21:48:28
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Moooooooooooooollers :
It’s a big reason why I ended up in a s3xually abusive 4 year long relationship, I know better now 😤
2021-10-11 12:31:28
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Bethany :
This is a good point and I want to protect my kids I'm glad I saw this.
2021-10-04 21:42:48
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Justin DeMedeiros :
More than a little sus.
2021-10-04 10:49:36
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Kat🥂 :
Love this.
2021-10-04 02:50:11
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Regan | Serotonin Glassworks :
FACTS.
2021-10-03 20:56:14
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Sir Kiwi :
I think just teaching them about sex would be helpful. But also that it isn't a shameful thing. Its normal and natural.
2021-10-04 01:25:29
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Tobias🪻🪦 :
also: some people don't feel romantic attraction (aromantics) and some don't feel sexual attraction (asexuals)
2021-10-13 20:36:30
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CallaghansQuestions :
Parents who don’t want their children to have adequate sex Ed are not mature enough to have been having sex to make children 😅
2021-10-05 07:03:03
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Jenn.I.Am :
Facts 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
2021-10-04 13:12:31
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Katie Goodtree :
@baumergoodtree we need to get on the same page so we can talk to the kids
2021-10-04 13:00:54
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oggary1017 :
@oggary1017：It’s pretty dumb advice, given that no one is more convinced of their adulthood or their eternal love than a 14 year old.
2021-10-04 12:14:20
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🤣 :
Facts! I have a hard time with hook ups because of this.
2021-10-04 12:58:24
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chaplipsandcrookedteeth :
I was really confused when I started developing sexual desire and thought it was love, they are two different things
2021-10-04 18:03:10
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Kika :
KNOWLEDGE IS POWER
2021-10-11 15:08:40
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Nobody Here :
my parents taught me it sort of *should* be kept for someone you love just because it's very vulnerable and intimate but that it's fun and feels good.
2021-10-13 16:05:26
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Rachel’s Recommendations :
And young adults who spend their early 20s equating sex to love…and spend their late 20s and early 30s healing from that.
2021-10-13 15:40:45
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Bergamot North :
It was the “a little sis” for me
2021-10-15 19:36:29
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Lore :
the amount of girls I knew who were pressured into sex in hs by shitty boys who said "but you said you loved me" is too high
2021-10-16 01:55:13
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AnitaKayHolland :
It’s teaching that love and sex are the same thing!!! This is why young women don’t report abuse.
2021-10-07 21:20:55
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Aemi Daniels 🇨🇦 :
"oh you were assaulted? well sex only happens with people who are in love so it wasn't assault because they love you!"
2021-10-04 18:12:43
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frankiefuxitup :
Yes ma’am. 💯 facts.
2021-10-04 04:49:33
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Jennifer 🆘🇺🇸 :
the only thing my mom ever told me about sex was that it's better when you're in love....that didn't help.
2021-10-04 21:16:06
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babybludriver :
It👏primes👏kids👏for👏abuse👏to👏say love👏is👏required👏for👏sex. Just tell the damn truth.
2021-10-04 17:55:12
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Taylor♉ :
Lowkey it seems they do it with the intention of shame in hopes their kids won't do it 😒
2021-10-18 18:55:06
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Lynk :
We teach comprehensive science based sex education curriculum in Unitarian Universalist congregations
2021-10-05 02:13:18
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Athena Chubb :
at 10 years old...I thought my mom was full of sh*t
2021-10-03 23:31:37
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Cage :
TEXT THINGY!!!: ah okay okay but I think I know you guys are just okay with that it is okay understandable if it’s not your fault you just want me too
2021-10-04 08:24:19
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Mel :
*memories unlocked* 😅😅
2021-10-04 14:21:30
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madiromo :
when parents force their children into their lifestyle and wonder why their kids don't like them or want to be there as adults....😳
2021-10-04 15:06:36
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Athry :
Book recommendation? Oldest son entering puberty
2021-10-12 21:19:54
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Tawatha Conley :
My dad didn't teach me ANYTHING about sex because he was a single dad who was embarrassed beyond belief but I learned naturally that I only wanted sex
2021-10-04 21:24:54
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llamadelrey :
Don’t need to love your sexual partner, just need to be able to trust them!
2021-10-10 18:11:06
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Amanda Boekelheide :
🥰🥰🥰
2021-10-04 22:24:59
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quinn.raizel :
exactly why my kids were taught that sex happens between consenting individuals who share desire and respect for one another.
2021-10-05 01:23:57
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Beau Jágr :
gosh this
2021-10-05 02:25:39
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