@bugandalex: Reply to @bluesunshinegirl . I'm trying not to care about the comments but damn. #actuallyautistic #autism #neurodivergent

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annon668
Anonymous :
I swear one of the new buzzwords on the internet is “infantilized” and people just throw it out and hope it fits??
2021-10-09 13:21:38
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identitycrisis74
Identity Crisis :
“You seem ‘normal,’ how dare you not mask” -Ableists
2021-10-09 10:17:52
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weavingrivers
Annette Harrison :
As a late-diagnosed human trying to uncover my suppressed autistic joy, that video showed me a future where I can be myself and still be loved 💗
2021-10-09 16:39:17
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lizalou80
Lizalou :
I had to mask my stims as a kid and my dad would scold me in public and tell me to grow up. I am freer to be honest with my stims now as an adult.
2021-10-09 10:18:12
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alex.rainefall
Alex :
The attitude I catch when people mention high/low functioning, even if it’s not outdated, it was never even their call to say it about anyone else—
2021-10-09 09:16:11
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riproe
Ro :
Seeing your unmasked joy made me so happy as another autistic. This is how my wife and I talk to each other too these people are just... Strange.
2021-10-09 14:28:20
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bagelathlete
Paige :
Why are they trying to cancel your partner when it’s YOUR relationship lmao
2021-10-15 02:53:19
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myscyanide
MysCyanide🌻 :
To infantalise is to hold power over someone & restrict their autonomy, while assuming their mental capacity is that of an infant, NOT "baby talk" 🙄
2021-10-24 21:04:31
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paularoberts7
Paula Roberts :
I think it's wonderful that you have a love relationship where you can be your authentic self. That is a blessing that so many people do not have.
2021-10-09 14:10:37
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floodofjewels
Flood Of Jewels :
Can I ask if your stims were ever characterized as Tourette’s tics? Mine look very similar to yours
2021-10-09 18:46:14
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transkingbee
Elijah Gideon 🐝🏳️‍⚧️ :
So what they’re saying is you should be masking in public… 😤😤 allistics be trying me all day every day
2021-10-09 22:45:24
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gildingthegutter
gildingthegutter :
I'm so sorry they went in that direction with that video-- your joy was beautiful to see AND THOSE SHELLED BABIES WERE ADORABLE
2021-10-09 14:59:22
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lizalou80
Lizalou :
I watched the reaction you had and it genuinely warned my heart because it was so natural and I do this when I see owls.
2021-10-09 10:16:04
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nervis89
hamish :
Also a separate note, being taken care of in a way that doesn’t seem age-appropriate can often be very comforting for trauma victims, mindya business!
2021-11-01 22:42:57
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miadanmakes
hayley :
also it's just cute to see someone you love happy?
2021-10-11 10:09:47
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squeezy_queen
SqueezeQueen :
The video from you and the tortoises makes me sooo happy. See you like that is amazing 🥰🥰🥰
2021-10-10 10:44:08
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rjlsrulz
Becci :
yes! well said!!!!❤️
2021-10-09 10:00:29
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theaussiehickey
Emma-Michelle🏳️‍🌈🍒 :
Bloody well said! 🥰🥰
2021-10-09 12:00:32
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fartsygoblin
joyce :
so sorry for some ppl
2021-10-09 13:10:51
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brandiecopeland92120
Brandie :
I found a new hill to die on. this ☝️
2021-10-11 17:01:23
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breakdownbrand
BreakdownBrand :
that sweater is SICK sick
2021-10-11 13:06:18
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skankhunnt24
Skankhunt :
Y’all claim to hate labels so much yet all you do is use them????
2021-10-09 13:45:26
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theskiesthelimit123
user8507534327183 :
Agreed!!! I was so happy watching you in that video. I also have autism and we should be free to be ourselves. You be you! 😁
2021-10-11 10:18:58
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androgynousalex
Alex :
my dad has encouraged my stimming, especially after we watched Venom 2. he knows it helps me process excitement
2021-10-09 19:22:58
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knkrtblnd
Carol Elizabeth Melvin :
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
2021-10-09 20:35:22
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fishfromyournightmares
Lifeitself :
Yes, you tell them! Im a young high schooler with autism and I found you and Im happy I did. Love you and your wife already
2021-10-09 20:37:59
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happycircle68
user5714229928663 :
You are great, please just be you! ❤️
2021-10-09 21:25:11
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extravagantintrovert
extravagantintrovert :
✊💜
2021-10-09 22:08:29
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northernglittergoblin
Call Me "M" :
I sent the video to my partner & he was like, "omg it's you! I almost cried" & I felt so seen & full of joy. I love your happy stims! 🥰
2021-10-09 19:32:55
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rayndust
rayndust :
I swear I get second-hand happy from seeing your videos. Infectious joy.
2021-10-10 05:16:04
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spongeson
jesse 🍉💕 :
my sister, her partner and myself all talk to each other like that sometimes NFJFJ it’s just an affectionate tone
2021-10-10 06:56:48
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floodofjewels
Flood Of Jewels :
Well said!
2021-10-09 18:44:58
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daisi.89
Daisi :
this why i hate leaving my home & go places where there's alot of ppl, I'm scared of stimming in public. i had only 1 gf that accepted my stimming
2021-10-10 15:33:30
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pscyhomia
⚠️Psycho⚠️ :
Those people can rot tbh.I talk to my husband in baby voice all te time 😂and the worst thing is he does it to me too,its so adorable .
2021-10-10 19:20:37
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neko.sam97
Samantha Nieto655 :
I think that people who speaks like that is because they don't have real happiness in there life
2021-10-10 20:37:25
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fatalewoman
evie like the Pokémon :
well said. tik tok will turn any happy moment into something else. you two keep doing you ❤️
2021-10-11 03:19:39
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k.l_v
kieda :
the communts under that video just… 💔 allistics get uncomfortable when the mask comes down… i hope you’re well 🤍
2021-10-11 03:44:32
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rainingrus
Carter :
I literally talk in baby voice 75% of the time because I like it
2021-10-11 05:09:47
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lessyluu
Celeste Reyes685 :
My man literally talks to me like that. NEXT. 😒
2021-10-11 05:18:00
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nikkifofikki
N J :
Your response to this is not only amazing and accurate, but it is also beautiful and kind, which is so important. Thank you. 💜
2021-10-11 05:51:13
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leenloss
Leen Loss :
I'm not autistic, but I still react that way in public. It's called joy, some of them have never heard of it and it shows.
2021-10-09 18:44:09
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erinandaish
Erin :
People were saying I was infantalizing my partner because I said they were cute, like bruh
2021-10-09 18:03:08
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ashleabrittney
Ashlea Brittney Hayes :
The heck?! The what?! The…actual…what the…I…you owe them no explanation…just be you
2021-10-11 10:30:57
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rayepanda_93
Raye Oline :
Thank you for addressing this 👏💕
2021-10-11 11:05:45
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