@catieosaurus: Desire is not one size fits all! #adhdrelationships #adhdpartner #adhdinwomen #adhdlifehack #LearnOnTikTok #cse #catieadhd

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Wednesday 13 October 2021 17:01:50 GMT
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jhartung30
jessycahartung :
it took me half the video to realize that's a sharpie and your wall... not a white board. but I appreciate this content so much !
2021-10-13 17:07:25
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.justme.irish
JustMe🇮🇪 :
I HATE being propositioned before sleep. There is no time worse for me, when I have decided to go to sleep then it is try to sleep time.
2021-10-15 22:30:53
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markiea13
markie :
can you talk more about how sexual/ romantic attraction and how desire/arousal are different? 💕
2021-10-13 19:16:31
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gayle_a_h
Afton Hensley :
....Did you just draw on your wall with a Sharpie for This??
2021-10-13 17:07:56
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plebby.bourgeoisie
plebby.bourgeoisie :
fruit snacks didn’t make it through the screen to me. 🥲
2021-10-14 01:47:18
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mattylarson37
Matty Larson :
is it common for people with ADHD to go through bouts of hypersexuality and then bouts of no sexuality?
2021-10-13 19:25:15
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floraidh.nicshithe
🦇Flory🦇 :
can I has fruit snack while I stay and listen 🥺 I like fruit snacks
2021-10-13 17:05:38
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kendryyy_
Kendryyy :
1- as a person with ADHD I struggle with hypersexuality at the beginning of relationships, but then normally around 2 years I lose almost any interest
2021-10-13 18:08:46
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dedaanmans
DeDaanmans :
Wait, arousal and desire are not the same? Can you make a video about that, because I feel like I knew that but not really.
2021-10-13 17:32:58
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petrichor144
Petrichor :
I love your content, but often feel more like a spectator than a part of the community cause I'm ace. The recognition is super appreciated 🥰
2021-10-13 19:01:09
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colekaleihoku
Cole Kaleihoku :
As a demisexual cishet dude I cannot count the number of people who cannot wrap their heads around my sexuality.
2021-10-13 17:07:45
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thethemeisplantz
Ryn Dickenson :
Thank you for mentioning the Ace Spectrum! 💜🤍🖤
2021-10-13 20:49:46
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feigninghuman
Trevor :
See, my problem with these videos is that I like the content and want to stay to watch it, but I also really like those fruit snacks...
2021-10-13 17:10:22
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beks_grace
Bekah :
Have you read “Come as you are” by Emily Nagoski? Its amazing book about sexuality
2021-10-13 17:41:20
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theeverevolvingjourney
theeverevolvingjourney :
Could you give us definitions of desire, arousal, and romantic attraction please??
2021-10-13 20:30:21
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zarenapruitt
Zarena Pruitt :
what is demisexuality? I've heard of the others, but not that one and would like to learn more about it
2021-10-13 17:15:27
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lauren7416
lauren7416 :
I think ppl get naturally high/low desire & arousal confused w/ when it’s a symptom of other things. Weight gain and stress FTW over here 😒
2021-10-13 17:44:30
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abstractbats
abstract bats :
because I get so distracted I feel guilty for not having "enthusiastic" consent. just regular old consent. it's hard to be enthusiastic
2021-10-14 01:08:21
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allhaildaria
Daria Hince :
AROUSAL AND DESIRE ARE NOT THE SAME THING. Catie u just helped me understand smthg that has confused me about myself for YEARS thank u, u are a gift!
2021-10-21 04:04:36
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bad_britt_sc
Brittany :
ty for posting this. I'm so tired of being made to feel like there is something wrong with me because I can go for months without even thinking .....
2021-10-13 18:25:38
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michaelcurtis898
michaelcurtis898 :
Please, more on this!
2021-10-13 17:06:58
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momma_liz_2
Momma Liz :
In the last decade, I've gone from a high seggs drive to nonexistent. It took a while to realize that I'm just touched out by the needs of two little
2021-10-13 18:16:45
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jaleigh811
Jennifer L Olivas :
because ADHD I envision Catie in a sea of fruit snacks that never get picked up afterwards
2021-10-15 14:55:37
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thecamlofamily
Florica :
Thank you. Ive had a hard time with it, not because i dont enjoy the act! But Im never in the mood either. Thought it was my bc, maybe it is my brain.
2021-10-13 17:08:29
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merjia_
Zach :
I want to hear this. BUT I STILL WANT A FRUIT SNACK CATIE.
2021-10-14 00:22:00
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elbowsonthetable
Yeet me off a bridge :
@amber_jinxx
2021-10-14 01:39:58
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mcrebecky
Rebecca McLaughlin 🍉 :
Understanding desire ≠ arousal was a big part of me unpacking my identity and realizing I’m ace 😂
2021-10-14 22:14:09
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themothertyrant
Jess Hannan :
I’m just so caught up in my day to day chaos that I never remember to reserve the spoons for sex, and kind of forget that it’s something I like to do
2021-10-13 17:47:19
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ladycassaundra
lady Cass :
catie over here educating me in ways my therapist never did.
2021-10-13 17:52:59
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glitterybumblebee
Glitterybumbleb :
Do you have any resources about sex drive/ace/demi that you could share? It’s hard to know which ones a trustworthy until you find yourself several 1/
2021-10-13 23:55:26
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ivorysandwaves
Ivory :
I've been bagging so many fruit snacks and still stuck around on all these videos!! mwuahahah >:3
2021-10-13 17:57:55
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minxhuntress
The Dragons Toy Hoard :
so I'm not diagnosed but pretty sure I'm ADHD to some degree. i.e. I wondered if you reuse the same pack of fruit snacks each video or a new one? 😂
2021-10-13 22:23:48
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will_is_here22
Will 🍉 :
Just a reminder sexual attraction and libido/sexual desire are not the same thing
2021-10-13 18:01:05
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jasper_907
jasper :
it sucks that a lot of people don’t understand that physical, romantic, and s*xual attraction are different things. especially in relationships
2021-10-13 22:17:27
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justlilolme8
K💜 :
This is the first time i have heard*demisexual". I looked it up and that's me! I've always felt so strange. Then assumed it was my autism.
2021-10-15 06:13:22
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caeneus_afab
Caen Dusk :
do you have a playlist for the fruitsnack vids?
2021-10-13 17:36:37
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deadfoxdown
DeadFoxDown :
Fruit snacks!
2021-10-14 04:57:09
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wobblytripod
Wobblytripod :
I can have no desire at all as demi, and this along with my nuerodivergency has caused a ton of relationship problems
2021-10-13 18:09:14
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authorkries
Kat :
@acedadadvice had a video about being on the Ace spectrum + desire/Intimacy. so interesting. also yes ADHD struggles. it's up & down for me.
2021-10-15 19:46:11
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thereal_aubsidian
Aubrey :
I love the fruitsnack bit so much. also the video is good too. these are important things to talk about and think about.
2021-10-13 18:45:44
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texturedhades66
Genepher phariss :
can I have the wrote snack and learn
2021-10-14 05:41:50
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safaia_terralos
Safaia :
I seem to not think about it or avoid b/c bad timing. so I have to "rev up the engine". it's like I'm reminding myself that I like it 😳😅
2021-10-14 08:11:19
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warpedlegacy
Twan :
The phrasing at the beginning made me think "desire is bad." Catieosaurus would never say that. But many in my upbringing did. Bad memories 😬.
2021-10-14 09:14:39
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give_me_churro
Jaxon :
Rn I am chemically ace and it’s oddly satisfying. I kinda like it, I won’t lie. It makes me really examine if I like the person I date because they
2021-10-14 09:38:51
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lostmama75
Chele Mayhugh :
⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬇️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬇️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️adhd in my head now that I am over40 has made life a whole new roller coaster.
2021-10-14 05:32:03
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davidlemke663
cyber.dave :
high sex drive and not happy lol
2021-10-13 18:40:00
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pastel_eclipse
Pastel Eclipse 💜 :
I've always been a morning person for intimacy... by the end of the day, I just have no desire for it. My partner is the opposite🥺
2021-10-13 18:49:48
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