@therapyjeff: #stitch with @litfrank Should an abuse victim ever apologize to their abuser? #therapy #MentalHealth #trauma #abusesurvivor #abuse

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emtups
Mary T :
As a therapist it infuriates me that any clinician would do this 🤯 irresponsible and harmful to the client!
2021-10-14 14:08:54
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adorameow
AdoraMeows :
We also do not have to grant forgiveness from our abusers. I hate when people say you can only heal if you forgive
2021-10-14 14:36:45
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bumbleberryjam
just for questions :
i have a question and your input is always super helpful to me- would you as a therapist ever treat someone that was unknowingly abusive in the 🍂
2021-10-14 15:38:31
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junniperjess
Jessie :
I don't understand why there are so many horrible therapists out there. I had a therapist tell me I was making up my anxiety just because I don't (1)
2021-10-14 14:54:53
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bigbagoflittledonuts
Travis Manley :
My mother took me to an occupational therapist through her government job to “work on our relationship”.
2021-10-14 14:40:29
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siriusbeta
Sirius :
Quick question: do you know when you are counseling the abuser? (btw i ❤ ur vids and this is unrelated to the stitch)
2021-10-16 03:27:23
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rachaelclaremeyer
RaeBaeBae :
This is very validating 🥺❤️thank you
2021-10-14 16:33:39
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thegotohelget
Buddha J :
(1) He says pretty regularly he’ll never do therapy in his content as a joke… so I’m kinda worried that whatever made him think this would happen
2021-10-15 03:40:38
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silverqueen1981
Crystal :
Thank you for explaining this🥰🥰🥰🥰. You are so real and explain in detail and I really value you and your time
2021-10-14 14:23:40
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rodeochick20
Rodeochick20 :
there is a whole MLM based on that. Landmark
2021-10-17 16:16:46
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hormonemonster6
jp🧜🏻‍♀️✨🦄 :
It still feels good to hear this
2021-10-30 17:22:46
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edgarallanhœ
yikes :
my school found out about my s.a. and sent me to a therapist that came to my school and the first session she said if I didn't forgive him I'd never -
2021-10-14 23:18:54
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utopiaafilms
𝐴 :
wait really ?? I’ve always been told forgiving is a step closer to self growth and I’ve been doing it or atleast tried to ever since
2021-11-11 08:03:54
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craftysnatch
craftysnatch :
Thank you for this post!
2021-10-17 17:27:45
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taem1ch
mich :
Wait that’s so crazy you made me realize that my therapist was gaslighting me by siding w my abuser in the first session🥲
2022-02-08 09:07:46
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naeckyz
l'ombre du iench à ricky :
i told my mom she made me unhappy and she wants me to apologize... she bought me food and told me "because me, i love you" 🤨
2021-10-22 00:18:15
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whoisbroccoli
Beatriz :
Thank you for this. I needed this
2021-10-16 11:41:00
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awtistic
enny :
thank u for this :( learning the term "reactive abuse" was such a relief bcoz of how often my mother would gaslight me into thinking i was the abuser.
2021-11-03 22:07:51
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crypticcatperson
Cryptic Cat Person :
My high school best friend had a therapist like that, aiding with her abusive parents. It’s what makes me hesitate to get therapy for myself hah… 🥲
2021-10-16 14:40:43
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trebltones
trebltones :
man I had good parents and good therapists and I STILL have mental health problems. Y’all are stronger people than i for living thru all that
2021-10-17 06:39:40
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mayalvnn
Maya :
This is something I’ve been struggling with for a few weeks and you just gave my all the validation I needed to know I’m doing the right thing❤️Ty.
2021-10-16 17:56:57
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changel1ng
Penny Rose :
I had a therapist tell me she wanted me to forgive my literal p3do dad so he could be "rehabilitated", he won't even admit to anything 🤷‍♀️1/?
2021-10-16 15:15:12
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settetherapy
Vanessa :
Agreed.
2021-10-15 02:26:33
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