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YOUR MONEY MAMI
YOUR MONEY MAMI
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babyblues121
Baby Blues :
Just as an FYI ppls risk tolerance stays pretty much the same throughout some1s life so if they don’t take risks now they won’t take risks in the
2021-10-15 08:27:17
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sosoyo2
SPG :
Yes… I work at a Fortune 500 and every time I mention to my parents that I am looking around for a new job they tell me I already have a great one.
2021-10-15 04:31:33
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caarolynv
carolyn🧸 :
i was a BOLD intern this summer and just accepted my G offer - i’m a first-gen Latina and experienced the same feelings you explained in this
2021-10-15 04:40:45
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livelaughlobotomie
moderndayisaacneutron :
We don’t have to live in survival mode anymore like our parents did. We can take chances and fail and rise back up.
2021-10-15 18:06:48
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dilber.h
dilber.h :
Am I the only one that doesn't know what POC is?
2021-10-15 13:19:45
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genuinelygenesis
YOUR MONEY MAMI :
#latinxcreatives
2021-10-15 04:04:05
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its.that.indian.girl
Anon :
I'm a first gen immigrant but I am so so lucky that my mom encourages me to take risks! I know not all brown parents do!
2021-10-15 04:58:19
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brianbaute
brianbaute :
This is powerful and applies in many other contexts as well. Thanks for sharing.
2021-10-15 10:42:34
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sheilfer
sheilfer :
I get asked often why I don't work in larger tech firms. I like building companies more than maintaining them : )
2021-10-15 06:10:33
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gefelmdr
Gefel :
When I tell you I absolutely needed this🥲 I just quit my job and they told me it was a huge mistake
2021-10-15 15:03:09
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bettylulseged
Bettylulseged :
My parents asking me why I am trying to switch jobs so soon
2021-10-16 01:03:41
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milachatting
milachatting :
This makes so much sense tbh. I settled with my degree and my first few jobs and I’m still kind of settling but comfortable for now.
2021-10-15 04:39:37
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rosh.m.osb
Roshni :
POC or not, were they rich kids? If it took a few months to find a better offer, were their parents supporting them? Would they have student loan 1/2
2021-10-15 06:21:25
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reuben.philip
Reuben Mathew :
I had the same experience when telling my family that I was leaving Amazon.
2021-10-15 15:33:46
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bigmike4960
. :
I am curious if this is more of a first gen conversation than poc, as the pressure to settle for lower pay, benefits, etc - is more of a trend there
2021-10-15 16:17:12
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bddmcgsln
Eddbddmcgslnie :
WOW I’m literally going through this exact SAME scenario but with Amazon. I needed to hear this.
2021-10-15 17:59:25
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ginovalencia4
Gino Valencia :
This spot on, I didn’t return to Amazon and shopped around other offers , my family was like ??? Yet cohort all did the same lol
2021-10-15 15:15:58
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sora_hearts1
Sora :
@tierataylor4
2021-10-15 15:01:11
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winetock
user3213429368762 :
I settle for security because if I gamble and loose I have nothing to fall back on. My parents can’t help me.
2021-10-15 06:50:17
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edwnswrld
Edwin :
I feel it. I feel like as a first gen, sometimes you don’t have the luxury of time to keep looking for another job
2021-10-15 05:24:02
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___.ysmn.___
justanopinion__ :
yes! scarcity mindset runs so deep in communities of color
2021-10-17 04:48:07
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julialejandre
jules 🌙 :
I think it’s more fair to use term “first gen immigrants” not just POC
2021-10-15 15:58:34
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darby_darcy_daisy
Darby Darcy Daisy :
I'm the oldest daughter of a 1st Gen immigrant family and my whole family relies on my wage to an extent, so I can't afford to gamble my job away.
2021-10-15 07:24:43
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vignettemenot
😴 :
yeah, It's that scarcity mindset growing up as immigrants / low income; take what you can bc you don't have a safety net.
2021-10-15 16:47:04
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puhtreeseeya
Puhtree seeya :
I don’t think this is a POC thing really just think it’s a wealth inequality thing
2021-10-15 13:43:19
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kelvinjpineda
Kelvin :
This is such a truth - well I get my job at one of the big 4 banks, it was a big deal and I never questions it because of the name.
2021-10-15 06:34:11
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lololtranee
lololtranee :
POC/women are typically treated by yt male superiors as being lucky to even have this opportunity. we are looked as less than in society/work force.
2021-10-15 15:38:50
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drjolenebrighten
Dr. Jolene Brighten :
This is something my older self would have so loved to tell my younger self
2021-10-15 17:47:13
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iam.denalipup
Denali :
POC here. I don’t stay at a job longer than 18 months. Doubled my salary in the last 5 years because of it
2021-10-15 15:56:31
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mademaselle_
🙇🏾‍♀️ :
Yep and part of me feels like big tech knows and capitalizes on this
2021-10-16 21:00:29
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enlacallecongiselle
Giselle | Digital Diary ✨ :
That’s me currently trying to pivot into a new industry. what you said- i am capable but scared to lose what is a stable job.
2021-10-15 05:01:28
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mujeressalvajes
BAMFancy :
I completely agree! Risking in our parents eyes is a no no but that’s why I stopped asking my parents for career advice.
2021-10-15 14:52:13
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starryeyednobody
starryeyednobody :
yep!I got my foot in the door in pharma w/a central lab & stayed even though it was SO toxic bc i don't have a degree &was afraid i wouldn't get a job
2021-10-15 05:28:58
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bdurant18
Bdurant18 :
I just finished school to change my career to tech but there's nothing open in this area.. So back to retail I'll have to go. 😔
2021-10-15 11:38:18
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toomanytamaless
Vic :
100% Felt like the biggest risk of my life was moving from a stable job to a FAANG company. Was worth it, but totally understand as a latino.
2021-10-15 20:45:05
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ama_adem_music
ama_adem_music :
Same with me at Bank of America
2021-10-15 10:26:27
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loladelreyx
Lola :
Just started at Google! The same thing happened when I left my previous company. My mom is like after 5 years you’re leaving? 😂 They don’t get it.
2021-10-15 11:43:43
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shiloh_buff
shiloh_buff :
This is so real. I recently rejected 3 offers that weren't right for me and I had the worst anxiety about it. it kept me up for days
2021-10-15 18:06:16
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poiytrrghhjvbn
ash :
This is so true, my mom is always telling me to stay at jobs because it’s “safe”. But I’m trying to get better roles.
2021-10-15 15:33:22
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alexexpresss
Alex :
My parents wouldn’t be able to help me but I still chose to take risk and it was worth it
2021-10-16 05:06:04
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fbh.webb
fbh.webb :
the ending makes this. poc need more faith.
2021-10-16 05:15:37
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funsizednenax3
Funsizednenax3 :
The fact that we’re made to feel like a good opportunity is the best we’re going to get is wild. 🥺 I’m trying to unlearn that mindset.
2021-10-15 15:29:34
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eddie15151
Eddie :
This is very interesting! My father is POC immigrant to the US and I’m white so I am going to check out the rest of your content too
2021-10-15 15:55:56
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