Jess martini
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Tuesday 26 October 2021 16:56:59 GMT
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Danielle :
I talk abt this with my husband all the time. I tell him I'm not trying to raise well behaved kids, I'm trying to raise well adjusted adults.
2021-10-26 17:31:21
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Olivia Mai, MEd :
As a teacher, I always have that one “well behaved” kid that starts shaking & crying when they make a mistake. Poor baby I was you
2021-10-26 20:40:32
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Song Bird’s Story 🇵🇸🏳️🌈 :
YES. Thank you for sharing this. She did get complimented and I was horrifically abused. Like, some of the worst of the worst.
2021-10-26 17:02:46
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Sarahludwig1995 :
They’re so “well behaved” because they’re terrified to be children. They’re punished for exactly that.
2021-10-26 20:05:24
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Tess :
and it makes moms who are literally trying EVERYTHING to help their kids behave “properly” feel so guilty bc our kids don’t fit that standard.
2021-10-26 21:26:23
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A :
I actually got complimented once while my son was throwing a fit and I was talking him through it. She winked at at me, gave thumbs up and mouthed
2021-10-26 19:13:26
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moar :
Growing up hearing kids are to be seen and not heard and basically not allowed to have feelings, yep.
2021-10-26 17:37:19
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sammantha5797 :
I do agree with this however it is situational. my daughter has always been extremely well behaved in public but a crazy mini tornado at home. 😂
2021-10-26 17:52:06
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octaviakapre :
YES!!! I went to a church where a 4yr old girl got spanked so bad if she moved from her seat. My kids would be the loudest and I’d have to always....
2021-10-26 17:49:14
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Bloom Wellness :
Every millennial right now trying to figure out how to parent the next generation with greater empathy than we were shown 👏🏽❤️
2021-10-26 23:34:02
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Sarah L :
My husband, and my FIL have said “they need their a$$ whooped” and I said “well we see how that worked for you and your kids”.
2021-10-26 20:17:58
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Mama Q :
Yep. My mom beat the 💩 outta me & I was TERRIFIED to do anything or get my clothes dirty. She was constantly complimented on my behavior and clothes
2021-10-26 17:58:08
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Alicia Lee :
Yes yes yes! I was so “well behaved” and basically was a mute growing up because of the abuse I endured from my mom and brothers. I was terrified to
2021-10-26 17:57:29
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broken_angel2009 :
I get into arguments all the time with my inlaws bc I treat my kids like little humans with thoughts&feelings bc I want them to be healthy adults
2021-10-26 18:53:40
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Amber Lyle :
My kid is wiggly and loud and talkative and assertive and that’s all okay. It doesn’t make me a bad parent and society treats me like one.
2021-10-26 18:23:36
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Cheonix :
I’ve just started liking your vids before hearing anything 😂
2021-10-26 17:29:17
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Amanda Christine :
Thank you for this! I have a 2 year old and his behavior in public varies😅he’s got big emotions!! Snacks help. Lots of snacks!!
2021-10-27 05:27:47
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bonniedoes 🇵🇸 :
Yep 👏 I behaved perfectly bC if I didn’t I got the 💩 beat out of me. But my parents were always told I was so well behaved😳 no I was terrified
2021-10-27 00:41:15
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Taylor :
Thank you! I get a lot of judgement because my 3 year old doesn’t like to sit still. He’s a toddler, they’re not wired to sit still
2021-10-26 19:04:44
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theultimateblt :
Stuff like this really changed my mind on what I considered “good behavior” with my kids. I’d rather them be happy, healthy kids than robots.
2021-10-26 19:06:59
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Wizard of Joz :
I’ve always said you can tell how a kid is truly treated at home if you just watch them for a bit. The red flags are there ya just gotta look
2021-10-26 19:04:44
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beopentotheuniverse :
Its disappointing that cps also looks at your ability as a parent by how good you can control your kids
2021-10-26 18:23:58
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bh3110 :
Thank you for this! I went to a church where people thought I was failing my job as a mom because my 18 month old didn’t obey me.
2021-10-26 17:45:23
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Keysha Baxter :
Fun fact: I practice gentle parenting. A family member ours we’ll say does the opposite. I always get complimented about how well behaved my kids are.
2021-10-26 19:11:12
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Dan.yell.a.lot :
THANK YOU
2021-10-26 17:30:29
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