@mary_skinner: I mean it’s probably the pandemic’s fault but like. who am I now?? I don’t know this girl who writes a 3 item to do list and can’t even do 1 thing??

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mary_skinner
Mary :
the problem is that covid started during my first year out of school. so I didn’t even get to know myself as an adult before covid changed who i am.
2021-10-29 00:34:17
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user48293857290
Hannah :
high school work stamina is like none other. college ruined me, and adulthood ruined me further
2021-10-29 00:36:40
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natsnider
Nat :
I think we just finally burnt out after all the activities and work and academics, it’s not sustainable long term and now we are recovering
2021-10-29 00:59:44
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oliveplum_
kira :
You are still worthy even when you rest 🥰
2021-10-29 01:54:58
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thejackiejames
Jackie James :
Feels like the “I miss the girl who could read a whole book in one sitting” trope
2021-10-29 14:19:47
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mary_skinner
Mary :
is capitalism to blame
2021-10-29 01:00:19
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mary_skinner
Mary :
we’re not talking about my hair it is very dirty & I stress-fiddled w it so it’s frizzy as hell
2021-10-29 00:36:07
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genevie.sofia
GenevieSofia :
And that’s on ✨capitalism fatigue✨ and realizing that toxic productivity culture is unhealthy. Rest/selfcare/ slow living is what I’m aiming for
2021-10-29 00:42:57
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k3elby
KB :
If you were trying to get away from something (like I was), that goal will push you beyond what’s normal
2021-10-29 01:55:18
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kylee_rose7
Kylee Rose Pownell :
i feel this! i feel like the pandemic took the drive out of me it’s insane!
2021-10-29 00:39:49
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gwendle_viv
gwendleviv :
we are experiencing a collective trauma. that's on top of everything each individual was dealing with before. I feel you the pandemic broke me
2021-10-29 01:25:01
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_ashaleyyy_
Ashley :
Or we are all just burnt out from our teens and early 20s working / studying before we even really were adults
2021-10-29 00:54:33
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kayle.paige
Kayle Paige Church :
it was just one longgg manic episode
2021-10-29 01:59:56
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jenwith1n_soberadhdvers
Jen_1n 🥥🌴 :
Pandemic took a lot out of us all. For sure perspective on a lot changed. Let’s not forget we are still in it. ‘2 weeks to flatten the curve’ was it?
2021-10-29 00:44:44
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alfarojulia
Julia :
This might be the effect of the pandemic fatigue. It is a concept that affects all of our research in psychology right now
2021-10-29 01:23:10
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kimboslew
Kimboslew :
tbh I think dealing with the trauma and collective grief from the pandemic regardless of how it effected us directly zaps energy.
2021-10-29 02:39:57
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carolina_ferreira_158
Carolina Ferreira :
btw Mary I started Acotar because of you and so far I'm loving the first book!
2021-10-29 00:46:04
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her.compass
Brittany ☀️ :
It was the pandemic, I’m 27 and it did it to me too
2021-10-29 00:46:01
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spudsilver
spudsilver :
I figured out that productivity does not = happiness and also death is imminent so why would I do anything that doesn’t make me happy
2021-10-29 01:27:15
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carino_q
Kk :
My mental illness did it all for me, now I’m “getting better” on meds lol
2021-10-29 01:37:55
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paigeraineyy
paigeraineyy :
Same but corporate America is DEPRESSING and all I want to do is sleep when I get off
2021-10-29 01:12:01
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riana_387
adriana :
1) for me personally i feel more burnt out when i’m at home like doing the smallest thing (like attending a zoom meeting) was a major accomplishment.
2021-10-29 02:22:26
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jordynpaige
J 🏎️ :
im in college rn and i feel like this. all through high school i never stopped and no i feel like i can’t get out of bed
2021-10-29 00:39:48
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neeshxox
Neesh | Mum of 2 boys 💙💙 :
Do you think that’s why you may feel burnt out now?
2021-10-29 00:54:15
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atdawnanddusk
Elizabeth Cortes :
Me typing something about ADHD and then boom, you mention diagnosis and immediately deleted my comment 😂
2021-10-29 01:08:30
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jackandsally999
user7583060658692 :
that's why you had a break down lol
2021-10-29 02:56:26
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hayvaypay
hayvaypay :
Sis - did you ever read the second From Blood And Ash book? Did I miss the update? I just finished the first one and it was super meh
2021-10-29 00:36:46
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marykateolsensbirkin
M P :
I mean a lot of people stop taking their meds because their mania feels amazing, so maybe you’re less productive but hopefully you’re happier?
2021-10-29 02:04:32
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rayrayrichay
rayrayrichay :
I was a dual major, 18 credits per sem, worked 4 pt jobs, and commuted 45 mins one way WHO WERE WE
2021-10-29 01:43:14
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boogiebo0
brooke :
I was going to say “i guess doing good in school doesn’t mean you will succeed in the business world” but it more sounds like a covid issue…idk
2021-10-29 13:29:37
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alyssazanchetta
Alyssa Zanchetta :
started adulthood and quarantine at the same time and I'm not even kidding had a complete nervous breakdown
2021-10-29 00:56:15
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samanthabrooked
Samantha Dalton :
I feel the same way. I worked full time and ate healthy and worked out and had a social life and read 75 books a year… then I got laid off
2021-10-29 04:00:39
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herbal.ciggarette
Hannah Benson :
The pandemic is just draining. I love school so much, but I can barely do anything now. I make a to do list that I used to be able to do in an hour
2021-10-29 03:49:29
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megan__henrich
Megan Henrich :
You just burnt yourself out
2021-10-29 06:23:20
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nicole.h.b
Nicole HB :
Being in school by the 7:30 bell 😳 then going to the jobs and hw def the episodes carrying us
2021-10-29 00:40:03
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perpetualmalcontent
🥀 Julie Gianni 🥀 :
Same girl same I was just telling my mom I feel like I don’t know me anymore my productivity 📉
2021-10-31 03:26:44
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theoandmama
Jess :
I totally feel this! I saw a video that made me feel better about it and maybe you can relate. It said a lot of people feel unmotivated right now
2021-10-30 03:06:22
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ashleyhendrixxx
ash :
for me, i was running. i wanted to do everything so fast, and get out. and now that i am out. and comfortable, i can rest.
2021-10-29 23:29:01
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kassie_mruk
Kassie Joy :
Literally SAME!!!!
2021-10-29 01:51:24
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rubyredcrocs
Grace Grace :
@rubyredcrocs:I am bipolar and relate to this sm, as I get older I wonder HOW I used to function like that 😅 undiagnosed and untreated but killing it
2021-10-29 01:48:47
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madelynfisher9
madelynfisher9 :
i did the same thing i say I used all my “productivity points” early in life
2021-10-29 01:58:25
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averyforsythe
Avery Forsythe :
I have never related to anything more
2021-10-29 16:17:26
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amandascupoftea
@m@nda’scupofte@ :
I relate to this so much
2021-10-29 02:56:07
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giovanna_7771
giovanna :
Just literally had the same conversation with my therapist 😬
2021-10-29 01:37:35
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just_sweetea
Tami | Outfit Inspo + Beauty :
Multiple times in my head I heard 👏🏻 no sleep 👏🏻 nother club 👏🏻 nother club 👏🏻 nother club 👏🏻 no sleep lol
2021-10-29 02:17:11
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honeyedmj
mj :
Maybe you’re just tired babe, like on a deep level
2021-10-29 00:58:38
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thereshuffle
thereshuffle :
I think we get a set about of energy per lifetime and we all squandered it in our late teens/early 20s. Now we’re tired for the rest of our lives😂
2021-10-29 02:26:45
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