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al :
and they always be so casual about it. Like your SO gets mentioned off handedly like that? oh god no
2021-11-18 21:11:57
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capitalismkills1917 :
nnn: you should see a therapist about your attachment issues before calling yourself polygamous🥰
2021-11-19 05:52:07
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alyssa :
then they try to convert u like it’s a religion and make u feel dumb about being monogomus😭
2021-11-19 01:00:00
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ellie :
yes, im monogamous and being poly would just not work for me at all bc of my insecurities and stuff so not knowing that would hurt a ton
2021-11-19 00:45:47
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monica :
yes this is a pre date thing for sure
2021-11-18 21:35:01
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Ruby Tomb :
3 months into dating, wholly knowing I'm monogamous: "Well, uh, you see, I like to date multiple people at the same time and-" 😂😂😂
2021-11-19 00:54:38
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✨ :
As a poly person, if it's a hookup they don't need to know, if you're looking for a partner then honesty is the way
2021-11-19 20:54:13
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lilac rose :
I'd agree but based on the comments you're liking :/
2021-11-19 21:35:11
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Clay :
yes, being non monogamy works based on respecting agreed upon boundaries. if not they’re not doing it right
2021-11-19 02:49:55
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fatposting :
as a poly person, it's gross to know people actually do that 😳gotta be first line of the bio surely!
2021-11-18 21:04:12
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𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 :
This just literally happened to be except it was our FOURTH date
2021-11-19 06:45:07
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dahindsight :
The first date is where you try to get to know the person and it's when you can say a lot about yourself. However, the fact you have a wife/husband
2021-11-19 03:35:12
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Ellington :
YES! worst date I've been on, guy waited until the date to tell me he had a girlfriend. wouldn't take no for an answer after 🙄🙄🙄
2021-11-19 00:43:31
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mel ✨ :
don’t even get me started on the ones that don’t tell you til after you’ve slept together 🙄
2021-11-19 00:32:15
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Haley :
I very openly disclose I'm poly to people before we even start talking
2021-11-18 21:12:41
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grace🥞 :
exactly
2021-11-18 22:53:03
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El Chonco :
wait, people DONT disclose this upfront? it's literally in me and mg BFs bio
2021-11-19 06:01:22
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Bot :
no nuance, gives nuance lol
2021-11-18 23:44:06
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Boredgh0st :
They know what they’re doing
2021-11-19 00:59:13
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Luke Merrin :
Honestly if they hide it are they really poly or just a cheater?
2021-11-19 03:13:18
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Kt :
I totally agree with this sentiment. Poly isn't for everyone, just like monogamy isn't for everyone. it should be talked about BEFORE the date.
2021-11-19 16:27:09
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viv <3 :
honestly that should be established before meeting
2021-11-19 21:41:52
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Rat :
I'm all for "ask when you have a hard no" but most ppl don't know or understand poly enough to even think of asking that. and when knowing this, ppl
2021-11-19 01:39:30
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Jorge Figueroa :
if you’re the one with the hang up, then ask
2021-11-19 01:12:39
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Salem :
omg yes thats incredibly shitty. i wish other polyam ppl understood its not an attack on them for someone not being ok with nonmonogamy??
2021-11-19 05:25:00
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Eloise Trancy :
Nothing is worse than talking to someone for weeks only for her to pull out “so, my boyfriend-“
2021-11-19 06:32:16
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Ixanna :
if you dont want a poly relationship thats fine. ask them before the date, or disclose that you are only for mono relationships. communication is
2021-11-20 00:31:53
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Ray :
communication is so fucking important in poly, you have to be forthcoming with everything.
2021-11-19 03:13:17
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Shayla 🇵🇸 :
Hooked up w a guy and the next time we hung out like two weeks later his gf texted him and he just casually told me like it was nbd
2021-11-19 02:58:42
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✨Vivion✨ :
I totally agree! I think if it’s just a hook up date it doesn’t need to be disclosed though but appreciated
2021-11-19 02:03:57
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Chrundle Kelly :
Who would disagree with this??
2021-11-19 01:22:26
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Sam :
They don’t wanna put it on their profile because some people don’t like it… no shit. That’s why it should be on there
2021-11-19 06:58:48
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Unity :
Why not disclose that you're monogamous only upfront?
2021-11-19 18:33:41
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MF :
dont you take the risk that any date can be bad or incompatible?
2021-11-19 16:14:18
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MF :
generalize to villanize and projecting ones own bad experiences <3 I hate this trend
2021-11-19 19:11:26
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Jackson :
No fr- I don’t trust a poly person that doesn’t disclose it prior to anything. Makes me question if the SO knows/wants it
2021-11-19 23:38:52
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Celestial Curations :
I've got the fact I'm poly on my tinder profile first thing and on first msgs I ask it they read it and I still run into ppl trying to get me to be
2021-11-19 04:22:52
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Jaebae 🐶 :
💯
2021-11-19 01:18:31
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5geminiplacements :
tru i keep it in my tinder bio 4 that reason
2021-11-18 23:59:22
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! :
I'll totally happily date a poly person but honestly, I need that disclosure first, yk?
2021-11-19 14:47:30
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ketamean girl :
dont see how anyone could possibly disagree with this
2021-11-26 04:04:37
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Ethan :
I had a ‘friend’ who was in an open relationship. She was always trying to hook up, I said no that I’m not comf with that but she kept egging me on.
2021-11-19 00:38:38
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IMDbella :
Shiv Roy, I’m looking at you
2021-11-18 23:45:36
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Eowyn- Faramir :
no offense to poly culture- but after being offered to join an already thruple- while in my best relationship ever- boundaries are something ppl have
2021-11-26 17:18:53
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😇😇😇 :
yes. when I was monog I would have hated if I found out l8r. Part of consent I think.
2021-12-01 10:17:23
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MissBibby :
That shits in my profile. Anyone who doesn’t have it plastered on any dating sort of profile is a walking red flag.
2021-11-19 16:42:11
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SunnyButterflyBloom :
This is 100% true but I’m getting the vibe that a lot of you have a weirdly warped and twisted view of poly people and their relationships
2021-11-26 03:29:45
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Kazper :
i agree that its fuckd but theres no reason to go poly=cheating n unhealthy. u can make good takes without shitting on groups of ppl
2021-11-25 17:07:52
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