Shawna Lander
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Tuesday 23 November 2021 16:32:52 GMT
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Robyn A. Schaefer :
No judgment, I would have welcomed even THAT kind of support when I had cancer. My family didn’t visit and my husband died while I was in treatment.
2021-11-23 16:42:10
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Eternal_Aries :
If you have the energy could you also do the reverse of the proper way? I know it may seem obvious but to some it hard for social cues
2021-11-23 16:36:06
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Amanda 🐝 :
Ngl I’m this kind of friend and it’s hard for me to realize when this kind of love is inappropriate. I’m trying to be more aware
2021-11-23 17:09:01
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Emily🤩 :
Honestly my first reaction would be to hug I’m not good at dealing with bad news so a hug is always my answer
2021-11-23 16:46:02
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Laura's Write Edits :
The friend could leave it on your doorstep and the note could simply say something like: "Just letting you know I'm thinking about you"
2021-11-23 16:51:32
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kelly :
light a match!
2021-11-23 16:35:57
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Amanda Carr🧩🌹 :
As someone who had a love one pass from lung cancer. when she first found out she wanted to be alone too. which we let her be. she didn't want to come
2021-11-23 17:10:42
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vegasladytierney :
10000% ppl do this - I was either suffocated by people’s *support* or got completely ghosted 🤦🏼♀️
2021-11-23 18:07:37
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marmalademariegooseneck :
Am I ok to just drop off small gifts and food and flowers at their house randomly, without knocking or disturbing them? That’s what I’ve been doing 😳
2021-11-23 17:14:23
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Stephanie :
this, 100% this!
2021-11-23 16:48:56
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K𓈎A𓄿T𓏏R𓂋I𓇋N𓈖A𓄿 :
this is how my sister was when I got diagnosed last year. ugh.
2024-12-30 18:50:02
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Samantha :
Oh yes the trauma dump gift. They always feel so much better after like they did some grand gesture
2021-11-23 17:24:41
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Celine :
This was literally my "best friend" when I miscarried. Luckily she didn't have a house key. She left it in my mailbox 😳
2021-11-23 17:40:00
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Tamara Wilson :
That’s difficult we are taught from a young age Treat others the way you would want to be treated unfortunately not all of us want to be treated the
2021-11-23 17:43:30
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Pretty Grim🇵🇸 :
Bro I’m brand new to this and already so far I’ve experienced everything you’re showing in this series
2021-11-30 05:53:56
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Amber :
my mom just got diagnosed with cancer and is going through this. everyone means well but she just does not want to talk about it with others. she is t
2021-11-23 17:38:33
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bailey :
I found you from your MIL videos and kept looking through since they were so accurate to find these. I cant even explain how accurate these are too
2022-05-02 18:36:23
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Ren :
I know people like this. My pain is not yours to discuss nor yours to feel. Its mine!
2021-11-29 23:18:31
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Lisa_Lisa :
I feel this in my soul. Currently in treatment and did not anticipate the invasive nature of others. 🥺
2021-11-27 22:31:06
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Leigh Ann Weidner Ba :
You nailed it- so hard to explain to folks that this isn’t helping.
2022-02-09 18:16:31
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Molly Ervin :
I remember following you when you were going through this, but now I am set on this unfortunate journey, myself and re-watching these are really
2023-11-15 11:23:30
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Kari Kraft Mirro :
Oh, the card about their “big feelings” about cancer was my mother in law in a nutshell.
2022-02-11 00:49:45
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Medical Boy Mum :
When my mum got sick, the amount of ‘people’ that crawled out of the woodwork 🙄
2021-11-29 21:03:54
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Kayla Morgan :
“Cancer-related gifts” 😭😂
2022-04-09 21:58:32
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Devon Jinks :
People mean well, some just have to turn a bad thing into something about them …
2021-11-23 17:01:37
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