@chillpolyamory: Reply to @abbysberry Reply to @abbysberry let’s talk about #couplesprivilege 💞 #polyamory #nonhierarchicalpolyamory

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stilllyinghere
me :
as a former third, those coupley assumptions, definitely brings up those feelings of being less.
2021-12-05 18:10:50
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singular.jame
James Blair :
Start a poly relationship with your coworkers and everyone list the next as their other beneficiary in a chain lol
2021-12-05 20:39:38
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amberraven7
Amber Raven672 :
this explanation is so well articulated. I love how you explain things.
2021-12-05 18:24:22
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kemos8
Ke Mos :
relationship after 2 weeks of dating that a couple of 3 years experiences, or to demand that an established couple not do things or change their habit
2021-12-05 18:32:29
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nopeidontlikeyou7
Tigerlily the Tiny Tyrant :
@hexane1993
2023-03-18 11:10:50
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theandrogynousbean
Eden :
Honestly I love this page you touch on polyamorous things so perfectly💛
2021-12-05 17:59:26
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baethoven76
🇮🇱baethoven76🇮🇱🎗️ :
Real question: do you believe that this is actually avoidable? In my experience, people say they aren’t hierarchical but they always are.
2021-12-05 18:52:37
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xox_misschief_xox
MissChief :
I'm so impressed by your ability to perfectly explain this concept so succinctly and in a way that's easy to understand. Thank you for all that you do
2021-12-05 18:46:47
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mountain_myre
Mountain Myre :
gosh this gave a name to what caused my last serious breakup :( but learning these things is key to happiness 😌
2021-12-06 02:14:03
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briarandboneao3
briarandbone :
Adopting kids
2021-12-06 17:52:28
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s.serenititty
Serenity 🤍 :
How do you tackle this with marriage in polyamory?
2021-12-06 16:44:00
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jaqkal.m
jaqkal.m :
It's about how power operates in your relationships. Couples' privilege presumes that the longer-term partners have more power 1/
2021-12-12 21:34:03
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saradawn831
Saradawn832 :
How does practicing hierarchical style of poly change this or affect this?
2021-12-05 20:19:47
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knight_of_red_queen
that guy :
thank god someone is explaining this to others
2021-12-09 14:18:43
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nadinepiontek
Nadine Piontek :
I also want to mention that when I was single I felt left out because everything was catered to duos.
2021-12-05 18:54:34
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kemos8
Ke Mos :
because one of them starts dating someone new?
2021-12-05 18:32:48
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kemos8
Ke Mos :
privilege, a couples privilege is earned through putting years of work into each other. Would it not be a huge entitlement to demand the same level of
2021-12-05 18:31:36
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simmister
simmister :
Yea I asked this a while ago
2021-12-06 06:23:48
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kemos8
Ke Mos :
Okay, but it feels like this ultimately boils down to "the only right way to do polyamory is relationship anarchy". Unlike something like, say, white
2021-12-05 18:30:58
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maddbu
Maddy Benitez :
I totally agree with you. I have a long therm partner and a 2nd partner. And It has been challenging at times.
2021-12-06 19:07:31
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lil_ssmithers
Sarah :
Thank you!
2021-12-07 06:23:46
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biker_medic
ShadowMedic :
New to poly here, and wishing this wasn't a thing. GF is amazing and just wish I could do more.
2021-12-07 15:35:04
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victoriareeduk
VictoriaReed :
There are assumptions by couples that their single BFF won’t want to socialise so they only go out with other couples. Never get invited out single
2021-12-08 20:07:10
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thegoldenandthegirl
Brody and Hannah :
It’s so hard. Especially in a triad
2021-12-09 04:58:01
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codyrenton
Cody Renton :
goddammit tiktok, I'm trying to fall asleep, not remember I have no idea how to broach my debilitating insecurities with my partner
2021-12-09 09:10:11
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creature.skin
Kaya :
I'm nearly a year into my triad, they've been together for 18, so there's a lot of this. Luckily it's all understood and negotiated though. While .1
2021-12-09 13:23:07
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notinterestedbutthanks
Virginia :
The largest hurdle to navigating my relationship with my newly poly partner who has a wife of many years. We are both learning so much, but it’s hard.
2021-12-05 18:21:34
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hoonicorn413
Maggie Lamica :
my hubby Believes in a hierarchy for himself, however I want equality in my partners. not sure how to work through this
2021-12-09 18:06:57
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crown_with_12_stars
🖤 :
How can that be work on? Having a little issues making my new partner feel less
2021-12-05 18:11:54
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5hark
clark :
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2022-09-30 03:47:24
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