@jesmartini: How my parents (particularly my mom) set up an environment where I didn’t need to lie #MomsofTikTok #fyp #parenting #fy #mymom

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mrsfc
MrsF :
I was raised by gentle parenting as well 🥰 I still had rules but I was never afraid if I broke a rule as a teen or broke something etc
2021-12-07 21:03:52
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songbirdsstory
Song Bird’s Story 🇵🇸🏳️‍🌈 :
I love that you felt that trust! But gentle parenting is non-punitive, and the way this is worded suggests that you WERE punished at times. 😬
2021-12-08 03:56:34
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laurenciera
Lauren :
At what point do you start gentle parenting ftm due in January 🥺
2021-12-08 02:54:32
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medspring
medspring :
Wow. I cannot even fathom that type of upbringing 😳 You are blessed.
2021-12-07 22:36:43
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npashley13
Ashley❤️‍🔥 :
I love your content! I grew up afraid of my parents, I want to show my son different.
2021-12-07 21:22:50
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kotapises
kotapises :
I want my future kids to feel comfortable telling me ANYTHING. I don't want them to hide, sneek, or suffer in silence. I'll be there for them.
2021-12-07 21:29:59
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ladyehm251
ladyehm :
what are somethings you would get punished for, and what did those punishments look like?
2021-12-07 21:12:49
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_kayjaye_
KayJaye :
I walked on eggshells majority of my childhood, I try my hardest to not do it to my kids
2021-12-08 04:56:39
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sarahscorzelli
Sarah Scorzelli :
Your mom sounds like a great role model. I’m curious to know if her mom was the same way and hear your moms point of view/what was difficult for her?
2021-12-08 14:56:34
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alysse_18
alysse_1988 :
@tara19855
2021-12-07 23:12:23
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dinaa_925
Dina :
I think it would be a great idea for your mom to do a video about her perspective on how she raised you!! If of course she would be okay with it 😁
2021-12-09 05:07:24
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jazz.ornelas
Jazz | beauty•lifestyle :
Love this 🥰
2021-12-07 21:30:22
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leylo0206
leylo0206 :
what did you get punished for? what are things that made it easy for you to do that you noticed others getting in trouble?
2021-12-07 22:06:12
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apples_theoni
apples_theoni :
Wow, I love this so much!
2021-12-08 01:51:54
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amberlynne.h
Amberlynne.h :
Thank you!!
2021-12-08 02:18:46
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jonahandmicah
Charlene :
I send your videos to my husband all the time and he oftentimes will respond by saying “she was probably a chill kid”. How would you respond back?
2021-12-08 04:04:43
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bruisedviolit
Violit :
i need to learn how to stay calm when asking my kids to clean their room. my 9yr old has a really hard time with executive function as well.
2021-12-07 21:42:50
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nicoledelacraft
Nicole De La Cruz :
How do handle your child having a hard time going to bed. My son has a rough time
2021-12-07 21:06:48
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kelllykel
Kelly Cunningham :
I definitely want to be like this for my teen. I needed this so bad. Help with sleep, schedule, homework. I was told I should just be responsible. But
2021-12-08 07:52:11
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margarethmaia7
Margareth Maia :
@fanksbankskittkat
2021-12-08 09:53:42
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iamami87
iamami87 :
Question: was your mom a SAHM?
2021-12-08 09:59:43
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leah_saunders01
Leah :
I grew up afraid of discipline and that made me terrified of confrontation now. my parents were so strict I felt the need to be sneaky just so I
2021-12-08 13:42:01
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albanipleasant
Albani the Channeler 🤍 :
Girl you’re lucky because most of us are now healing so we can do this for our babies
2021-12-08 14:10:09
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bradenspencer24
Braden Spencer :
Love this! And you! Such great, helpful tips!
2021-12-08 07:52:46
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thefinancialwitch
The Financial Witch 🧙🏻‍♀️✨💰 :
I’m almost 28 and a parent myself and I still don’t come to my mom with things because she always overreacted and punished me for telling the truth
2021-12-08 16:39:56
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freakyfaithh
Jules :
My mom used gentle parenting with me but my dad who abused us for almost a decade ruined it all 😢
2021-12-08 19:20:38
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naiveenough
Sydney :
Can you give examples of how they punished you for things you did that were actually wrong and were your fault?
2021-12-08 19:54:11
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c_myran
Corrinne :
I want my son to grow up like you.
2021-12-08 20:52:01
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kkrieger95
Kkrieger95 :
What would you do if you found liquor or beer in their room? Or if they wanted to go to a New Year’s Eve party where there’s alcohol? Age 16/17.
2021-12-08 20:54:08
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justbeinghonestfrfr
justbeinghonestFrFr :
What did your parents do when you wouldn’t do homework? My 4 yr old struggles most weeks
2021-12-09 04:21:00
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katesanders23
Kate Sanders :
I’m so grateful I raised my daughter like this 🥰🥰🥰
2021-12-08 05:33:58
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mama_medusa_
Kas :
I told my mom too much and she would have to tel me to stop because she didn’t wanna know all that detail 😂
2021-12-10 10:35:03
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finally.farruggia
Yaya 🐶 📚 🌻 :
I find it so shocking that there are parents like that. Must have been so nice 😭😭
2021-12-10 12:59:52
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lescobrown00
Leslie Brown :
@Jess martini - how can I practice gentle parenting while trying to sleep train ?? My son is 2 years old
2021-12-10 16:08:21
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trenssi
trenchcoat :
yes, you have to create an environment where telling the truth is actually easier than lying 😁
2021-12-11 08:13:56
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mommag2218
MommaG :
thank you for sharing your side 🥰 makes me confident in how I'm raising my kids
2021-12-12 00:10:21
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cerebral_arson
Mandy :
my oldest has adhd and I tend to take away privileges when she doesn't complete tasks. do you have an alternative?
2021-12-20 18:50:16
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