Rachael-The Considerate Momma
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Wednesday 22 December 2021 18:54:18 GMT
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Erin G. :
Yes! Middle school teacher here and it’s insane how much they change from 11 to 14. Compassion, understanding and love first, then discussion!
2021-12-23 17:55:59
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kaattaliiina619 :
My teen is 14 when I ask what’s wrong I dint accept “idk” as an answer I help him identify his emotion I ket him think about it and then when he’s
2021-12-22 23:38:26
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Miss Rose 🌹 :
The phones are the link these days to the way they act. They have access to an INSANE amount that we didn’t growing up! It’s TOXIC!
2021-12-25 01:43:44
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DenisMetro :
so much good advice. but the disrespect is killing me. i cant help feeling so hurt. it just sucks.then things r good, but go right back. vicious cycle
2021-12-24 14:58:42
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🪽ms_abdulala😇 :
I've been calling these years the 2nd toddler stage bc they're so craving new info so they test boundaries.
2021-12-23 17:16:41
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Ashley :
these tween years are no freaking joke. seriously. I'd take the 3's over the tweens any day now.
2021-12-23 15:41:35
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Delyn Chapman :
I wish your videos were around when my girls were younger. I’m trying now but I feel like we made a lot of mistakes along the way. 🥺
2021-12-24 16:27:30
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Maria :
I raised my niece from 11-17 I wish I knew more on being compassionate. I tried but I could have done better 😞
2021-12-24 13:18:03
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user9854048386285 :
Societal pressures was changed to another word in the auto captions, FYI!
2021-12-23 03:44:17
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jade :
i have been saving and sending your videos to my mom and i’m waiting to see her reply, i’m pretty scared but ur amazing! she needs to hear this 🤎
2021-12-22 20:14:23
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Jennifer Hardidge :
I would love more on this 🥰🥰
2021-12-22 19:30:37
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Cala | Booktok ✨📖🪄 :
I need this 🥺🥺🥺
2021-12-22 23:05:59
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Miranda :
Needed to hear this. But have given trust back and understanding more, I still get manipulated
2021-12-24 14:45:13
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Kristen Shaw :
No joke, I am a parent of 3 and I have no idea what I’m doing. When my emotions get involved I forget everything I’ve learned and just shut down. 🥺
2021-12-23 19:33:19
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Abigail Grace :
Please more on this subject!!!!!
2021-12-22 19:27:49
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AITO :
Try not to attach your identity to their behavior. They're learning how to become them, not reflecting you
2021-12-24 13:58:51
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Valerie Regular Mom+Chaos :
I am trying to break barriers growing up Hispanic & trying to gentle parent, & Honestly my daughter’s relationship w/ me is good because she has the..
2021-12-23 18:04:08
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user4024496086773 :
Pick your battles!!!! Most things they will figure out. If you squash everything you will be insignificant for the big stuff. It’s all hard 😂 ❣️
2021-12-23 16:49:20
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Belen :
This is when you pull them in closer, lots of talk, lots ride alongs, lots of reminders, no threats but solid fulfilling promises. Keep your promises!
2021-12-24 16:01:02
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Tiph :
They just storm off & idk if I should follow to let them know I’m here when they’re ready or let them go 🥺
2021-12-23 18:21:19
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Stephanie Jacobs :
Haven’t people been trying to do this for years? Most of the time they don’t know and then before you know it they change again. You make it seem simp
2021-12-26 03:30:36
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Marcela Collier :
Her preteen is entering brain pruning stage. A big developmental milestone that affects everything
2021-12-27 02:08:54
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caren.sebok :
My biggest success came when I held my ground, but did it in a loving and respectful way. I also listened to my children and didn’t just dictate. 💜
2021-12-24 14:55:37
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Vicki E. :
It gets better..I promise! Age 12-15 was ROUGH! But it was like a switch flipped one day and everything leveled out. Hang in there!!
2021-12-24 18:46:46
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Miranda Amaya :
my 7 ydar old has a screen time limint and he keeps trying to sneek around the house with the ipad to have more time on it, I don't what to do😬
2021-12-22 20:17:35
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Amanda :
@paxtonfellers
2021-12-27 14:06:03
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Cindy Barely Thriving :
@bg2cm1mo4：Add raising a child with attachment issues and coming from a severe place of trauma and you have the perfect storm. Just keep swimming!🥺
2021-12-24 16:08:16
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Cin199o :
@teker08
2021-12-24 17:23:05
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Ashleigh Mayfield :
Thank you SO much. Definitely needed to hear this 💕
2021-12-25 14:00:27
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TakeMyHairAway :
My kids are grown & I wish I had these tools of knowledge back then. Been working on making amends and working on myself for my prior ignorance
2021-12-24 17:09:29
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My Sharona :
Lord, I’m struggling with our 13 year old boy. 😡 He almost dies on the daily Bc of that attitude. We do this 85% but that other 15% ughhhhhh
2021-12-26 04:02:31
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𝔎𝔞𝔯𝔩𝔞 :
I have 2 teen boys 1 teen girl...regardless always always show them love?, hug them kiss them remind them that regardless of the day you love them.
2021-12-24 16:39:35
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Lola Reyes :
@queenbee16_87
2021-12-26 15:55:13
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irishgirl :
@angielavigne7
2021-12-26 21:34:48
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Asha :
Mother of 4 here…your dammed if you do and your dammed if you don’t. Trust me…
2021-12-24 19:17:32
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bensdutro :
@grifffhb
2022-01-09 21:43:39
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Celeste ✨ :
Teach me!!! I need this like now lol
2021-12-22 20:34:13
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deebuglove :
The mom needs a dog to give her unconditional love……just the BEST.
2021-12-24 14:41:01
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Casey Beck :
@Shea Winn
2021-12-22 19:59:04
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bensdutro :
As a 14 year old it’s really interesting to read these comments
2022-01-09 21:44:38
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Shannonhazel Norton :
Pick your battles! Sometimes they just want you to listen. Don’t talk just listen. And you might need therapy
2021-12-24 13:29:00
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@germangemini06 :
As that crazy daughter b.w 12 and 15. I still regret how I treated my Mom. I felt out of control then. I really couldn't help it. I apologized later.
2021-12-25 01:48:55
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amberbye :
Amen
2021-12-23 20:25:00
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Jennifer Camp, Real Estate ✨🏡 :
Ok that told me nothing can we be more specific!
2021-12-23 20:38:31
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Meriah Helming :
PICK AND CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES!
2021-12-23 20:50:04
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LisaGowe :
They are also forming an identity apart from family.
2021-12-23 21:00:36
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mm_number_1 :
This is when they are starting to separate from parents and parents want to fix everything!
2021-12-23 21:21:32
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Critter That’s Krispy :
Lend them our calm instead of joining their chaos. Coregulation baby!!!
2021-12-23 23:09:39
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user2412349775954 :
Raising my now 25 year old, I remembered what I felt like as a teenager. I appreciated her position and loved (and disciplined) her through it. 🥰
2021-12-24 01:38:25
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