TherapyJeff
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Wednesday 29 December 2021 00:26:11 GMT
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user5999086725979 :
The worst sentiment EVER! After tragedy/ devastation...this is a crushing set of words to be "comforted" with.
2021-12-29 00:29:52
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lainey :
have you done "is it because you're on your period?" he ment it sincerely, emotions do get a bit... crazy during that time, but still
2021-12-29 00:40:24
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truexstory :
I am widowed twice and I have heard this exactly 8,748 times.
2021-12-29 00:38:37
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klara.woland :
But im an empath 😳😌
2021-12-29 00:46:47
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Inês 💗 :
What should one say instead? 😊
2021-12-29 00:29:51
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_ :
Yessss. About a year ago I interviews for what I thought was my dream job. Got the turndown call and a coworker said that moments after 😳 😳😳
2021-12-29 00:37:08
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Erica :
christians say this and I hate it
2021-12-29 01:20:46
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Iolantherosa :
That is my least favorite bromide, along with “It takes all kinds.”
2021-12-29 00:32:07
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Adaaaam :
I love you! But the real question is where do you get your cardigans?! 🤔
2021-12-29 00:38:19
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TherapyJeff :
Visit me on YouTube for the full list of 11 invalidating statements.
2021-12-29 00:27:05
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renthetortuga :
oooof. also i haaate “it’s not big of a deal” or “it’s not that deep”
2021-12-29 06:57:34
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Lady bird 🇳🇬|🇵🇸 :
This is so true! This particular quote infuriates me
2021-12-29 01:33:46
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Lacy :
I’m feeling like “suck it up buttercup” might also be a no no?? 😏 Guess I better self reflect
2021-12-29 00:40:03
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Tobey :
seeing this for a reason 😳, wait I know what you're doing. 😂
2021-12-29 00:44:55
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Jenkin2014 :
I wish you were my therapist. You’re so relatable 😌
2021-12-29 00:45:54
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Heather :
genuinely my least favorite thing to hear in the midst of something awful happening.
2021-12-29 00:55:24
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T :
this isn't just for partners. it's for everyone. stop saying this. period.
2021-12-29 00:45:29
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Alli :
I think the worst he said is “well everyone’s lives suck.”
2021-12-29 00:49:12
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DaveyJonesVI :
That’s my motto for everything 😭
2021-12-29 00:49:15
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Stevie Rae 🍉 :
my last ex would always say "Just be Positive" while I'd literally be hyperventilating in a panic attack
2021-12-29 00:46:48
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tp6445 🇨🇦 :
It's never a good thing to say....really. It's very cringe worthy.
2021-12-29 01:20:17
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Margaux Dutreux de M :
I hate it when someone says that to me… it doesn’t help how the person feels… isn’t it better to just acknowledge how they feel? And hug?
2021-12-29 03:02:11
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Coolkid :
when I say to my partner, “everything happens for a reason”,The message I am trying to send is,that it will get better,for every bad,there is a good.
2021-12-29 03:33:44
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bemysugakookie :
triggered me from the jump
2021-12-29 00:50:36
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gracie :
wb “i’m sorry for making you FEEL like that”
2021-12-29 00:41:19
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Meesh :
Fastest way to make me want to punch you is to say this. Oh, is that reason that there is some malicious deity getting off on my suffering?
2021-12-29 19:07:06
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dreghons :
I want to say a big thank you to this wonderful herbalist doctor, who brings peace to my marriage. you are blessed🥰 @drikhiriaspellhome
2021-12-29 20:37:53
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HelaryYakub :
I love that it’s snowing in Portland rn & I’ve been following you for a while & I didn’t know you were right here! 😂
2021-12-29 18:11:30
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Alma 🖤 :
my mom says this and "look at the bright side" and I'm so over it😭 there could be a funeral and she would say there is a bright side
2022-01-08 09:50:46
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Amethyst A :
What is a better way to respond ?
2021-12-30 14:16:45
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TooFlyy :
It is what it is, it happened there’s nothing I can do about it. Ha
2021-12-30 20:17:38
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Jess :
Partner never said this to me, but I have heard this after my miscarriages and the loss of my dad. I hated hearing it.
2021-12-30 20:49:11
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Claudia Villarroel :
👏👏👏👏
2022-01-04 18:33:28
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kim okane :
Thank you! My daughter got diagnosed with a terminal genetic disorder at 7 months old…I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY THAT! Everyone thinks it’s comforting
2022-01-05 14:35:57
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Kate :
I love all your videos. Can you do more on self love, reparenting, self esteem? I'm working on all those things before I date again. ❤
2021-12-29 16:10:36
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Ali Als 🧶💎🐈🐈⬛ :
Ugh...yes. I know people are meaning well but just don't
2022-01-12 09:23:33
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Ali Als 🧶💎🐈🐈⬛ :
'it'll all work out in the end' 'worrying about ir won't help' 'just don't think about it'
2022-01-12 09:25:49
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AglayaPiano :
Yep. It’s so invaliding.And you just want to ask; were you even listening to me ????
2022-01-12 15:48:56
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brookewood :
if you were my partner I'd steal that sweater. And the t-shirt too. Also, your videos are smart and helpful and I like you.
2022-01-12 18:07:29
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itsjessmehere40 :
Do you do online counseling? Marriage counseling?
2022-01-13 01:49:48
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Melissa Romero :
My daughter took her life and I hear this all the time. Or “ you need to move on, she would want you to” 🙄
2022-01-16 22:24:41
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