Jen O'Rourke MA MFT RPT-S
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Saturday 15 January 2022 17:01:47 GMT
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John Smithelton :
Part 1: Don’t ask why. Part 2: because they don’t know why. Part 3: Say, “what happened back there?”. Or use more open-ended questions. You’re welcom
2022-01-17 14:46:57
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User18703286041 :
They don’t know “why,” because they are disregulated emotionally. So, ask “what happened? How are you feeling? How were you feeling right before?
2022-01-15 17:28:33
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Reneexx :
Not helpful if we don't know what to do instead 🙃...
2022-01-15 17:28:27
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user1395659737769 :
Dont share videos and not tell us what we need to do instead then 🙃
2022-01-15 17:26:16
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Cassandra Thompson :
As a therapist, I instantly knew you were going to say “why” lol Use “tell me about…” or “I wonder what caused that…” etc.
2022-01-15 18:18:12
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Jessica Lee :
there are 1 and 3 minute videos...
2022-01-15 21:37:17
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Katy Tripp :
Why?
2022-01-15 19:30:35
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Jen O'Rourke MA MFT RPT-S :
Sorry to leave everyone hanging! Just posted a follow up to the why don’t ask “why?”. Will post soon about what to say instead.
2022-01-15 17:52:49
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H Lynn :
Omg well I’m a big failure then.
2022-01-15 19:46:56
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Selina🌙 :
..... out of the risk of doing what you said not to do lol but why?
2022-01-16 08:42:41
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ladygr8ness :
And why is that???
2022-01-15 19:10:38
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heyy_its_maria___ :
could tell us why and what to do instead ?
2022-01-15 17:20:47
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Jeanette Cortez :
But it’s ok for them to ask a million why’s back to back😅jk
2022-01-18 01:53:04
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user3687914033571 :
Don’t ask adults that either also I’m. It aloud at my old therapists
2022-01-17 12:38:32
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Sophie :
As adults we don’t why we behave the way we do. How are children suppose to know the answer to this question. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
2022-01-16 23:51:47
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Lanni B :
I don’t say “why” I ask “how come” haha pretty sure it’s the same 😩🙈
2022-01-15 17:39:42
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shilaIvonny :
never even thought of asking that throughout my sons life. its better to ask them what happened, and guide them on why it isn't good gor them and what
2022-01-17 13:58:23
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Sophie :
SCREAM THIS OUT LOUD !!!! Been saying this for years
2022-01-16 23:50:35
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Kelly :
IT IS SOO HARD NOT TO! I have a foster child who has done some shocking things and I've asked so many times! trying to stop I swear
2022-01-15 19:31:17
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Helen Belton :
without asking 'why' you disregard their reasoning in their behaviour, which in turn leads them not to know about consequences.
2022-01-17 12:48:24
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Cinnamon_Spider :
Examples of alternatives plz
2022-01-15 17:50:18
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barolo :
But WHY? Why not ask 😂
2022-01-16 23:39:46
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user.33458 :
haaaaate when therapists actually ask me why though 😂 💀
2022-01-16 22:35:53
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abbynichole📚💻✨ :
my parents would ask that and my dad's signature phrase was "I don't know is not an answer". plagued me for years.
2022-01-15 19:54:27
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Tristen-Rae Scutchings :
hahaha, I this is why I can't find the right therapist cause that's always what they ask me me!! I'm 36yrs old, if I KNEW WHY I wouldn't need "you".
2022-01-16 03:27:01
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