@preschooltherapy: Reply to @nikaattack this has been ingrained in parenting for so long. #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #preschooltherapy #MomsofTikTok #dadsoftiktok #discipline

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giesabreak
giesabreak :
the most disturbing thing about the video is the comments suggesting THIS is a gentler method because she didn't hit him 😳
2022-01-15 19:45:23
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chrys.olsen
Chrys :
And unfortunately many of us when we first start with authoritative/gentle parenting still feel a need to make sure they feel bad the way we expect
2022-01-15 19:37:54
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daboolie
DaBoolie :
I much prefer calmly explaining why something is a rule to my 2 yo, rather than have him get upset to "learn his lesson". he's going to learn much
2022-01-15 19:51:18
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emerald_dragonfire
Emerald Dragonfire :
Yes! a little while back my son broke the window and I wanted him to feel bad but I held myself back. the next day /1
2022-01-15 20:22:51
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racheleliselockwod
RachelEliseLockwod :
Yes!!! My oldest used to laugh when I got mad but it was fully a stress response. It’s very hard to stay calm but I learned in the end 😊
2022-01-15 19:55:27
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sashagracecreations
Sasha Grace Creations :
So what would be a good option? I ask as a first time parent. Thanks 🥰
2022-01-15 19:40:44
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unloikly
unloikly :
hey Ryan, love your videos! i've learnt so much from you! Would it be okay if I used u and ur vids as an example in my presentation about parenting?😳
2022-01-18 11:03:26
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teddyandthebigc
Kat Lichten :
it's hard to override that ingrained feeling that your kid should be visibly sad or feel bad after doing something wrong 🥺 but working on it!
2022-01-15 19:46:27
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jlynn_24
jlynn_24 :
This was a good reminder to me to trust the process!
2022-01-15 19:50:41
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geek_princess
Courtney :
when I try to have a calm conversation with my son he shuts down, is it OK to wait and talk to him at a different time?
2022-01-15 19:53:48
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danialora23
Dani Arroyo :
Always thankful for you.
2022-01-15 20:10:46
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ouimmy
Immy :
hello I need help please my toddler doesn't listen to me. provoke me. he's not verbal so I don't know how to deal with him
2022-01-15 20:20:44
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uiqque
UIKKE :
makes sense! what do i do if I feel like my child (2,5yo) doesnt react in any way/just walks away if i try to teach him not to hit or throw stuff?
2022-01-15 19:52:34
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pyrpunchesandpurrs
Cupcake :
That's like when I was growing up & my Mom & Dad would sit me down once a month & I would make me just sob uncontrollably.
2022-01-15 20:24:51
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thunderstormsandhoney
thunderstorms&honey ✅️ :
I just need to know what I can do that isn't seen as punishment when kiddo is literally destroying the house.
2022-01-15 20:28:15
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jule.leon
Charlotte :
I had to translate it via Google to understand 😂
2022-01-15 20:39:20
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starving_art
user9284548708153 :
and also if you tell your children not to hit then you hit them, that makes you a hypocrite. rules are for everyone, not just your kids.
2022-01-15 20:52:08
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adhd_curl
Laura :
Saving to refer back to repeatedly
2022-01-15 20:55:01
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nasenhund
Pat :
you should have much more likes 👍
2022-01-15 21:38:10
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yeoldecatwench
yeoldecatwench :
My toddler gets upset at sharp intakes of breath or me saying “oh no!”…. She understands and knows something was wrong immediately.
2022-01-15 21:38:38
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laprincesajasmin99
LaPrincesaJasmin99 :
Hi! I was hoping you could give advice on how to stop a child from putting things in their mouth? My daughter is only 16 months old and wants to
2022-01-15 23:01:06
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cae2109
Cae :
but how would you do it?
2022-01-15 19:50:19
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roxx9357
ROXY 🦋💜 :
@Bramty
2022-01-16 00:43:01
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elletee.x
elletee.x :
I wonder if some parents do this because they think their kids are “mature and can handle it”. I know I was exposed to a lot of inappropriate stuff /2
2022-01-16 02:59:03
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