Kc Davis
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Monday 24 January 2022 20:03:13 GMT
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BigMamaB73the OG🐿️ :
AND, you as the parent don’t get to nag them to do their list. You cheer them on when they do it.
2022-01-24 20:07:44
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buchananley :
As I teen I would have benefited from prioritizing putting laundry away, selecting an outfit for the next day, and planning my brkfst/lunch
2022-01-24 20:19:57
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Kc Davis :
@Learning Happiness if you ARE a teen and are looking for examples let me know and ill answer that too!
2022-01-24 21:02:00
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Sarah Bane :
Growing up I had a MESSY room, but every night before bed I made sure I had a fire path through the mess. Does this count? 😂😅
2022-01-24 20:20:40
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user2398473414640 :
My friend used to come over and help me clean my room when my mom would say I had to clean before going out. I never realized this was body doubling.
2022-01-24 20:09:50
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AriT :
Tell them anything that makes your morning easier. Pre-packing the backpack, making lunch, making in ice coffee, etc
2022-01-24 20:08:22
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signe :
This is so key! For a long time I was mimicking what YOU did for care tasks and I inevitably failed. I finally came to terms with what was only (1)
2022-01-25 05:19:27
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mirandastargo :
I can only imagine how much more functional my life would be right now if my parents took this approach, thank you for all you do ❤️❤️
2022-01-24 20:10:59
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Alice's AstroInfo :
what if this commenter is a teenager who is asking for your advice on what kinds of things might help them make this list?
2022-01-24 20:16:33
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levi :
i’m 25 and barely learning this
2022-01-24 20:11:41
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Kelly :
Setting up my outfit for the next day helped me in high school. And having everything put away in my backpack so I couldn’t forget anything.
2022-01-24 20:17:15
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FiercePufferFish :
🥰 This is that good stuff. Autonomy is an extremely important aspect of growth
2022-01-24 20:51:57
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TheCheekyGinger :
Do you think it's helpful to suggest they maybe think about what would make their mornings easier? Or just let them figure it out totally?
2022-01-25 01:31:06
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bobbybhp3 :
🤯❤️❤️So, what about toddlers? 😂
2022-01-24 20:09:28
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Michelle :
Hi! Do you have any resources on how to start this as an adult??- signed a 30 yr old who has never had a routine in her life. Tysm
2022-01-24 20:41:38
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Mrs Threepwood :
Would that work with a SO that has the emotional intelligence of a teenager? 😅😭
2022-01-24 20:19:20
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Katie Kunze :
Love this! And if that list isn’t working there’s no harm in revisiting it after a few weeks and making changes
2022-01-24 20:17:06
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Catherine Thames :
What about a 6 yr old who is possibly adhd and seriously independent
2022-01-24 22:52:11
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J Leigh :
How do you begin teaching toddlers and young kids about care tasks so it’s not overwhelming by the time they’re older
2022-01-25 13:00:23
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Carrying Wayward :
FYI - your closing duties concept has really helped me create a more functional space for myself 💛
2022-01-24 20:34:50
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Sierra Thompson :
I love this, because my teen has ADHD he struggles to maintain routines, but thrives on the ones we have in place this would be spectacular.
2022-01-24 20:17:17
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Mo :
STILL upset I never received any kind of parenting like this and now I’m useless at 28 😭
2022-01-24 20:16:25
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Laura :
You always school me, KC! I was excited to learn about a list I could make for my kid! 😂 But you are so right!!! 😅
2022-01-24 20:28:42
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Kaitlyn Meibers :
normalize treating teenagers as people!
2022-01-24 20:20:17
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Candice :
I read this more as a teen asking for ideas of where to start.
2022-01-24 20:25:36
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