@silva_carolyn: Who else has experienced this? #friendship #friends #advice

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coolnamewow1
coolnamewow1 :
Depends how long they’re absent for. If you disappear for a couple months constantly then yeah it’s fair to wonder why they keep dipping
2022-02-01 16:09:10
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bellybellybol
Bellybellybol :
when your friend doesn’t bother to meet you for over 2 months but has time for everyone else
2022-02-05 19:52:38
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18hens
Henna :
I find adult friendships the most difficult thing honestly ugh
2022-02-01 16:43:03
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ange1ous
Angelous :
Life can pretty busy as we progress and grow but I think that’s what makes friendship so special is in the midst of business you make time
2022-02-01 16:04:51
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user64272530
User99153 :
How about a friend who just ignores for months
2022-02-01 22:43:26
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isabel4434
Isabel :
Uh yeah? Why would I want a non responsive and absent friend lmao what’s the point
2022-02-04 16:01:49
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meowetc
E M :
i think its normal to not constantly be available but if ur friends u shud put some effort in
2022-02-04 09:12:06
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glorious_tart
glorious_tart :
This was me 😅
2022-02-01 15:09:54
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ivantalks
Eyevan :
No offense, but it’s pretty fucked to no communicate with friends...
2022-02-04 05:26:43
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marcoarosas
Marco Rosas :
Bro, you are so AWARE of human tendencies and patterns. Who/how do you date? Like what caliber of human being can keep up lol??
2022-02-01 15:12:10
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jboom87
Jboom87 :
Sounds like an anxious attachment style.
2022-02-01 16:55:34
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hashmeousside
Hash :
I think its okay to want some sort of explanation, communication is still key to any relationship. But any sign possessiveness def ain't it
2022-02-05 21:46:14
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midnightcherrysuperstar
undercover op :
help i think i’m literally this friend :( but i don’t mean to be controlling i just want to feel like my friends are present when i need them
2022-02-03 17:43:29
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ionworkjobsbitchiamaj0b
aint sh!t funny :
first couple times, imma check in on u cos maybe ur not ok. & then there’s just being a fair-weather friend
2022-02-04 11:07:55
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kaitlyn_brooklyn_
Kaitlyn :
The distance also makes it difficult to grow as friends though. Goes both ways. Probably goes back to not setting proper expectations
2022-02-06 02:48:26
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hennasahota
hennasahota :
oof just broke up w a friend like this a few months ago 😬
2022-02-02 06:13:46
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nibbbbbbbbbbbta
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :
I mean depends! You shouldn’t expect daily communication but few texts every few week is normal just don’t ghost them and show up 3 months later.
2022-02-06 00:04:19
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ohcrefasi
ohcrefasi :
can you elaborate? i want to agree on the pressure part but i feel like feeling bad abt your friend’s lack of communication is normal?
2022-02-06 18:04:50
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yourfavmoroccan
Rania :
I agree but what about the friend not contacting for over 10 months? I said something after reaching out a few times and being ignored.
2022-02-06 04:45:13
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ba7kara
Kara Baquer :
I’ve been in a month long situation w/ a friend now bc of this, didn’t text her for 3 days so now I’m a villain for not putting her needs 1st
2022-03-09 01:50:01
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aomz11
aomz11 :
theyre always super narcissistic
2022-02-04 12:51:10
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kamari.leola
Kamari McElroy :
I’ve always been this friend 😅
2022-02-04 21:31:43
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auntiemonique
auntiemo :
I have a friend like this who've I've been friends with for 23 years and it's not until now in our adulthood that she's being this way. It's a lot
2022-03-11 01:36:22
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users9jwre34yh
Yhanss :
Love your content
2022-02-01 15:30:34
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kunata_kc
Kunata_kc :
What lenses are you wearing? Thanks
2022-02-07 14:19:37
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thebetteryou4
Dave :
its just not healthy!!👍👍👍
2022-02-01 15:55:22
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badgalbrubru
B :
It’s really shitty when they make time for other friends though
2022-02-06 09:03:54
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itz_vee_here
Vee :
I bet you’re the other half of a healthy relationship ☺️
2022-02-01 16:21:05
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user09636245731
T :
@noorie69
2022-02-06 00:18:35
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thisislarek
Larek Riley :
Love this!!! I
2022-02-06 02:10:48
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sj_ramallah
@ramallahbeachclub :
You just described my freakin brother 😂
2022-02-02 02:51:30
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quincy.org
Quincy :
I needed this a year aho
2022-02-03 19:31:31
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lifeofcindyt
Cindy Nguyen :
honestly friendships are hard as heck when you’re adultingg 🥲🙃
2022-02-06 08:12:52
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moonkeiri
Keiri :
@issy.rc him
2022-02-05 23:48:06
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jamjam2030
jamjam2030 :
!!
2022-02-05 23:27:22
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ac64846263847
. :
damn this is me
2022-02-04 04:52:36
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hforhype
Horace :
Wow, well said. Thanks, Carolyn.
2022-02-13 04:39:18
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aboxofchairs
arc5 :
please make a video on boundary setting. i don’t know how to enforce boundaries without hurt feelings. it’s my biggest struggle with adhd
2022-02-27 22:21:01
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babypisces997
melissa :
this!!!
2022-02-04 09:04:22
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userforever11008899
Resistance :
yo I'm too quick to cut these ppl off
2022-02-05 01:45:10
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bethividi
Bethi Vidi :
I felt more dread at the idea of talking to them, ESPECIALLY when I chose to keep myself busy. Everything was always my fault, so I cut them off.
2022-10-30 02:55:49
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faith.fuller
Faith :
YES OMG
2022-12-05 04:50:01
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