Ryan Allen
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Wednesday 16 February 2022 18:12:45 GMT
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allegra.michelle :
How would you handle that situation if Mikey threw the purse instead of putting it down nicely?
2022-02-16 18:34:16
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chaviva073 :
and what if the kid takes it and runs around the house screaming nooooo? 😅
2022-02-16 18:31:27
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twistedbug :
what do you do when they still don't give it up.
2022-02-16 18:35:02
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Eduardo Coronado :
This should come with a warning saying "resolution time my vary" lol
2022-02-16 18:32:30
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Jules Starling - Seidora :
How do we respect our child asking us to stop when we can’t stop doing something because it’s to keep them safe?
2022-02-16 18:34:22
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alyssa :
Love this - when we get to the choice, I often have to take it which results in a physical struggle and doesn’t feel good. Any tips?🙏🏻😊
2022-02-16 18:21:45
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Ryan Allen :
Which part would have been most triggering for you?
2022-02-16 18:16:52
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th1rtyf0ur :
I need one of these for “ok it’s time to get dressed/go outside/go to bed” because sometimes those take literally >1h 😞 (ctd)
2022-02-18 08:02:06
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Bridget :
yeah but I'll have this argument for 6 hours. over. and over. and over. what's the resolution to it safely.
2022-02-16 18:38:41
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Катинка :
@pint124
2022-02-24 12:28:00
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lei :
Can you do a scenario where they dont , you have to take it and they scream bloody murder ? 😬😬😬
2022-02-16 18:34:02
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Dani Arroyo :
💙
2022-02-16 18:15:33
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•☆*:.｡. o*~♡~*o .｡.:*☆• :
If I have followed corraectly you can also redirect them like “you can play with this instead” 😁
2022-02-17 04:00:38
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beeiscoolx :
Once my girl says no! A firm “oi! Excuse me! Do it now or I will do it for you”
2022-02-17 09:24:22
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gabby :
advice on if it skips tantrum and goes to full on meltdown?
2022-02-16 18:38:00
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Anisa Gaines :
ok, I try this. but my toddler just tells me no over and over so I just end up taking it and she gets angry...
2022-02-16 18:39:09
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Willy Beamen :
How do you get them to go to bed without a drag out MMA style battle every night 😭😭😭
2022-02-16 18:45:48
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Szczepan Bentyn :
doesn't work.
2022-02-16 18:52:44
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Jen O'Rourke MA MFT RPT-S :
They always love the purse! So many interesting objects in there 😂
2022-02-16 18:56:30
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Tiktokmuthafuka :
Do one where he goes, “Ok, try to do it”
2022-02-16 19:01:43
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Bonita Loca452 :
Now do one where he refuses and YOU have to put it away. How you handle when they fight back & tantrum when you take it?
2022-02-16 19:16:21
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Meagz :
A textbook parenting example in tiktok form lol
2022-02-16 19:28:21
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A_Nic0916 :
This has worked wonders for both me and my 2 year old. The hardest part for me is constantly having to do this (or so it feels 😆)
2022-02-16 20:06:26
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Melissa :
If only my child handed it over after giving them those two choices he would still say no :/ I’ve tried
2022-02-16 21:05:03
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uncanny devito :
I think that in this instance, guiding the child to a different stim toy would have been appropriate. Stimming is a self-regulation tool.
2022-02-16 21:45:22
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dianacarrottop :
@angelicus4
2022-02-16 22:15:18
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🐱 :
I love Mikey
2022-02-17 00:06:17
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Sora Hikari399 :
Suppose the kid throws a quiet tantrum after you suggest going outside where they just sit and sulk. What do?
2022-02-16 18:35:26
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Georgi Podskokniev :
Dawg check 😁
2022-02-17 04:32:34
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Judith Treisman Orka :
Yes but what if after your sentence “ me or you” they still don’t want to put it away?? That’s more realistic
2022-02-17 07:50:34
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Marijke :
😂😂😂😂😂😂
2022-02-17 09:56:47
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Nebozhder :
Thats a lot of playing outside, just saying.
2022-02-17 22:35:21
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Wednesday :
Wait time. The magic secret sauce people overlook. If you wait long enough the right choice will usually follow.
2022-02-18 03:18:25
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nuggets🍉 :
he has dark impulse give him a break
2022-02-16 18:32:58
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Abigail Jade :
Ok. We do this most of the time, but what about when the child has something that can lead to a major mess or ruin the item if they get reactive?
2022-02-18 23:25:48
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Noelle :
My 3yo is purposefully ignoring her preschool teachers requests. What do I do as a parent who isn’t there at the scene?
2022-02-18 23:41:26
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De :
Can you do one where you have to out it away cause the child refuses
2022-02-19 04:30:22
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Erica :
Might be helpful to get him an item of his own with the same texture/pattern/sparkle.
2022-02-19 06:35:26
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user3942854349833 :
My son physically fought me to hold onto the item. What do you suggest for those situations?
2022-02-20 00:41:01
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Louise :
I try this but he just doesn't respond or listen at all if he doesn't want to do it. its like talking to a brick wall sometimes.
2022-02-20 09:35:29
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Zishy Qamber :
My kid doesn’t say fine in the end… what to do? Plz show that too
2022-02-20 13:10:37
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Morkvt :
When I tell my daughter not to play with something I also give her a reason why, so it's not just because I said so.
2022-02-20 16:42:02
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SayfDadTia :
I find that the nicer I am with my daughter in such situations the more stubborn and “No I won’t do it” she is… what can I do? 😕
2022-02-22 04:19:17
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JamG :
I love your content. This is great for a parent with one kid. What about two toddlers and having a newborn? Sometimes, this can’t happen.
2022-02-22 06:17:07
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Stina :
That's very nice. Now do this in room with 20 other children where you've got three of them trying to get your attention at the same time 😂
2022-02-22 11:53:10
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natural.beautie01 :
Great idea
2022-02-23 19:50:55
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ModerateMouse :
I get the “fine!” And then it gets chucked across the room
2022-02-24 05:22:05
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Cheryl 🐧 :
Exactly, and suggesting a replacement sometimes can help. Otherwise good idea to give them a choice to put it back themselves or I will
2022-02-16 18:29:03
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