Dr. Nicole LePera
Region: US
Thursday 24 February 2022 19:14:21 GMT
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i.am.not.jennifer :
Basically all of Gen X
2022-02-24 19:39:40
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it’s_always_sunni_in_mpls :
I was JUST talking to my therapist about this today
2022-02-24 20:20:05
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Kacie :
I had this trauma response. It's a wild journey back to connection.
2022-02-24 19:51:10
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Morgan :
Why do we need other people? I’m literally isolated from everyone and I’m good
2022-02-24 19:49:01
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kc.anne3871 :
The problem is when that’s continued into adulthood every time you try to allow in. Doing EMDR to desensitize, but I can’t just forget the precedent.
2022-02-24 19:22:44
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Lori Williams :
💯 I remember saying to myself “I will never depend on anyone and I will never ask for help”.
2022-02-24 19:39:32
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LANZARETTA :
Crazy Bc I am hyperindividualized and also codependent but my parents were also around and good parents. But they did never talk to us about real stuf
2022-02-24 19:40:23
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Taylor LeAnne Craig Stanley :
This made me tear up. Immediately.
2022-02-24 20:00:07
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Rachel :
100%
2022-02-24 19:16:55
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Ash King :
Your content is so good!!!
2022-02-24 20:55:14
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Kimberly Weeks, CTCP-S :
Hyper independent spirit
2022-02-24 19:46:35
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Obviousleigh :
Nah I’m good, people are disappointing
2022-02-24 21:57:11
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purplepeopleeater5678 :
So you say. I’m gonna stay right here in my independence/denial bubble. SOOO comfy 😂. #GenX
2022-02-25 21:05:06
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Private James-Bay :
The few times in my life I asked for help, I was told no. Never asked again. We don’t need other people
2022-02-25 04:33:40
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amy m :
Hmm… sounds about right…
2022-02-25 01:18:59
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LilyGrace :
Why am I hearing my name called?
2022-02-25 01:54:50
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mikeGdrizzy :
avoidant personality 😳
2022-02-24 23:20:48
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Sharon K Stone :
This is exactly me.
2022-02-25 10:46:44
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zimzim :
My parents met my basic needs of food and shelter, but they were never "available" to me. I have trouble being close to others. How to overcome?
2022-02-25 12:05:21
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Ashlea :
This is me. Still working on it!
2022-02-24 19:41:58
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Elise :
This is me! It’s always a work in progress after a looooong healing journey.
2022-02-24 19:53:22
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Daisy :
Almost 60 in a couple of weeks and recently thought about what if I allowed people to help me or what if I reached out more for help, never been one
2022-02-25 11:42:00
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OG_MAC :
That’s me. Trying hard and have a small circle of friends
2022-02-25 11:55:38
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user7838708426274 :
Yup. Kids dealing with divorced parents.
2022-02-25 01:59:27
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Dea :
This is the one I cannot move past…
2022-02-25 03:13:34
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Aj<3 :
@j.0.r.d.a.ns sending this to mom lol
2022-03-15 22:04:56
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Erica Perkins :
I know it's not healthy BUT I'm safe there. I got me, no need to risk the fall out
2022-02-25 04:31:15
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Roni :
Ugh… so true 🥺
2022-02-25 04:47:09
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Daisy Mae :
meh. what's so bad about solitude? I'm extremely less likely to be a murderous ex. I think this is juvenile thought
2022-02-25 06:06:06
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Cherio_17 :
🤯🤯🤯. I am soooo this way even with my husband!!!
2022-02-25 06:37:15
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Weysoymarisol❣️🇲🇽 :
Is your book available in Spanish?
2022-02-25 07:10:09
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Drink like a fish :
I’m aware of this but until someone can do stuff for me without me asking - Foff
2022-02-25 07:20:32
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Malak O~🐆Intuitive+Holistic🦄 :
Truth
2022-02-25 08:20:57
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HopebyBrandi :
Love you ❤️
2022-02-25 08:56:23
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Kiwipom 🇬🇸 :
just realised why Im like this 😳... how do I stop doing it?
2022-02-25 09:06:47
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Rhonda__ :
That's so true
2022-02-25 09:38:26
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user4067590007178 :
no I don't
2022-02-25 10:09:52
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Kristal Vidak :
That’s me alright.
2022-02-25 10:30:32
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Apo Stolia :
But if we meet our own needs we don’t actually need other people. We might want them but I disagree that we need them. We evolved to not need
2022-03-01 02:33:31
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Jay Pi803 :
This is another pandemic of our times
2022-02-25 20:47:27
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Tracey Smith :
That is me 100%.
2022-02-25 11:03:23
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oemqinrznd :
THIS
2022-02-25 11:17:55
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mrfriendly :
I wonder what they call it when all the guys I hire don't show up for work
2022-02-25 11:24:28
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Heather_pdx :
Everyone says I'm so strong willed or stubborn. I just look at them and say oh, ok😂 and I laugh it off
2022-02-25 01:39:06
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Fer :
I love that sweater
2022-02-24 20:11:26
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Heyalyjay :
Wheres you sweatshirt from?
2022-02-24 21:49:11
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Nichole :
So true. This led to me being a perfectionist and overly physical, to becoming an alcoholic because I don’t know how to take rest and recover.
2022-02-24 22:38:56
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RV.Barndominium :
latchkey at 6 and 7years old does this😳
2022-02-24 22:50:28
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iluvnyc :
agree 💯!
2022-02-24 23:14:45
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Loulou :
I’m totally good never fixing this about myself though. I have connections with family/friends. That’s enough. Idon’t need to NEED them too, tofeelok
2022-02-24 23:59:23
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