@therapyjeff: Do you have to forgive the person that traumatized you in order to heal? #MentalHealth #trauma #therapy

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indigoinkyscribbles
Kelly :
wearing a Nirvana t shirt and telling us we don't have to forgive our abusers YAAAAAAAASSSSSSSS 🥰🥰🥰🥰
2022-03-10 20:15:24
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user2434999303909
user2434999303909 :
Exactly as our lord and savior Taylor Swift said 🥰
2022-03-10 20:15:15
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prettybug11
prettybug11 :
Didn’t forgive my dad , but my boundaries have been adjusted to protect myself and kids .
2022-03-10 20:07:43
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frezzyvodka
vodka. :
you have the best takes jeff
2022-03-10 22:14:22
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amanda.conner1
amanda.conner :
Jeff out here with real facts
2022-03-10 20:06:16
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jessie99932
Jess :
My friend always needs “closure” from the other person. Tried so many times to tell her that they are not responsible for making it easier for you
2022-03-10 20:14:45
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cforcalore
• sarah • :
hi Jeff! I was recently diagnosed with bipolar II and was immediately recommended to start medication - is this typical? thank you!
2022-03-11 04:57:32
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brendalee760
JENNIFER :
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2022-03-11 09:43:16
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chelseaemma2
Chels :
Alcoholics Anonymous IM LOOKING AT YOU
2022-03-10 20:08:34
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its_yo_mama_carol
mamacarol :
people raised catholic rn 😵‍💫
2022-03-10 20:07:56
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kentuckyfriedbrit
KentuckyFriedBrit :
You are my favourite person on this app! Thank you for being realistic
2022-03-10 20:07:09
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moss_goyle
user1884880461595 :
I’ve had therapists tell me I needed to do this , I have a new therapist now
2022-03-10 20:07:18
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rebekkahwbrennan
Rebekkah Brennan :
Do you think also you can forgive someone though without saying it to the person?
2022-03-10 20:20:05
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soupintheclub
Tik Toker :
Only person you should ever forgive is yourself 💗
2022-03-10 20:08:09
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k8murphyslaw
Kate Murphy :
One of the most healing things I’ve ever heard was getting permission to not forgive the person who abused me. I hope this helps others too!!
2022-03-10 20:26:01
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charmlizard
Claire 🦷 :
Can you give some advice on moving on in a healthy way without forgiveness? He doesn’t deserve it but I wanna be better 🥰
2022-03-10 22:44:01
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ztaylor12
Zo :
first time i've ever heard this said - THANK YOU 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
2022-03-10 20:07:26
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rubyjeanettelesli
Ruby Jeanette Leslie :
Forgiveness doesn’t have to mean reconciliation or that you don’t from time to time still feel angry or hurt
2022-03-10 20:22:03
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zpickelz
Zpickelz :
My priest says he'll forgive you for saying this 🕊
2022-03-10 23:14:41
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godgal07
Dimples :
Forgiving someone requires repentance. If they don’t repent, you don’t have to forgive.
2022-03-10 22:56:33
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om_therapy_coaching
Gabby | Mental Health Coach :
Lmao “it’s not a thing” — I’m so glad I follow you. We have the same vibe when we talk to clients 😂
2022-03-10 22:58:46
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user8936092389705
user8936092389705 :
OMG! I could almost trust therapists after listening to you! Smart and real!!!
2022-03-10 23:01:28
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cletse
Cle’Tse (klee•shay) M.Ed., LPC :
As a new therapist, I have always felt this way and I feel so seen right now.
2022-03-10 23:01:59
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sugarfreedust
SugarFreeDust :
My husband, listening from the other room, just shouted “here come the evangelicals” & now I’m wheezing. 😂😂😂😂😂
2022-03-10 22:31:28
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tyralove22
tyralove22 :
thx u for this! My moms been telling me to forgive my dad and I don’t feel I need to🤷🏽‍♀️
2022-03-11 03:12:17
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awkwardoctopous
user2957574814573 :
YES THANK YOU 👏 👏 👏 👏
2022-03-10 20:08:06
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luvzarwa
luvzarwa :
i'm so early heyyy
2022-03-10 20:07:44
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kwerkie.creations
Kwerkie Creations :
Needed this. Thank you.
2022-03-10 20:07:52
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liz_luna37
Liz :
Telling someone they “must” to forgive is cruel. Who are we to judge others??
2022-03-11 02:27:04
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toddlbauerle
Todd L Bauerle :
I assume to “heal” from that trauma you need to let go of the emotional experience and not let it define you, yes?
2022-03-11 06:19:42
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brujafemcult
BrujaFemCult :
@obsidiankitsune @fish_a_shark @slavocado_spooky_
2022-03-11 22:14:05
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icky.witha.v
💜 :
can I maintain a relationship with them if I can't forgive them?
2022-03-10 20:22:51
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valxx143
valxx :
having a trauma evaluation in a few weeks. so scared that I'm gonna have to open up the old wounds...
2022-03-11 03:39:33
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peaceloverainbows
$+@(€¥ :
I seriously love you so much! 🙌🏽✨🥰
2022-03-10 22:52:19
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hannahamirr
Hannah Amir :
@shahdalfeky @maram OXEMBLAHHHH
2022-03-10 20:57:32
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nearstephexperience
NearStephExperience :
😂😂😂 Well said good sir!! 👏
2022-03-10 20:26:58
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forevrs.the.sweetest.con
forever.is.the.sweetest.con :
listen up religion
2022-03-10 20:08:46
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consuela3001
Consuela :
Finally! Finally someone says what I’ve always felt. Thank you so much for another awesome video 🙏✌️
2022-03-10 22:22:55
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hollyberry1223
Holly Grillo :
Thank you!!!!! Have never had the desire to forgive but everyone says I should.
2022-03-11 03:53:27
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faundabrite
Apple User26939847 :
Fellow therapist here. So, so, so true. Thank you for saying it.
2022-03-11 02:36:40
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stephpatto6
Steph :
@TherapyJeff why can’t I leave my relationship when I’m not happy?
2022-03-10 20:35:16
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elliemixer
Elliemixer :
Scary that there’s still “mental health workers” telling victims of sexual child abuse/domestic violence etc. that they need to forgive their abuser
2022-03-10 20:19:17
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eroad
ERexroad :
@sarahsemi7 🤷🏻‍♀️😆
2022-03-11 21:56:21
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melisalyn23
Melisalyn23 :
Thank god! I was struggling with this 1. Partner/ex hubs of 20 yrs cheated last year and I can’t forgive him. I can move on but not forgive
2022-03-10 20:09:19
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xenofasgard
💚Xen Of Asgard💢 :
I forgive myself because I feel as if I betrayed myself in these situations. That’s what I honestly needed. Not forgive them.
2022-03-13 21:01:01
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sunny_2009
Sunny :
I would give anything for you to be my therapist
2022-03-18 23:42:13
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sad_academia
sad_academia :
Wait. What?! I don’t? I won’t be bitter?! :o
2022-03-10 20:19:57
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ashleyfancyray
Ashley Ray :
thank you 🥰
2022-03-10 20:20:05
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