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JINXY :
Sometimes I think I accidentally stray into toxic positivity when I try to problem solve for others. I gotta watch that
2022-03-10 20:40:23
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coffeeluvr80459 :
Related: love bombing! The worst!!
2022-03-10 20:31:10
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Nahh :
Or when someone try’s to constantly relate to you when your just trying to vent.
2022-03-10 21:02:50
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hundelune :
I think acknowledging someone's feeling is always important to open the discussion and help them
2022-03-10 20:37:43
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steve :
it's not just feelings. it also sidetracks away from a potential solution. toxic positivity encourages failure or mediocrity.
2022-03-10 20:47:27
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The Anxious Millennial :
Sympathy vs Empathy
2022-03-10 20:33:49
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Angel Melendez :
What is he doing with his hand 🖐🏻 😅
2022-03-10 20:41:25
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djdole :
Um... HAND CHECK!
2022-03-10 20:37:53
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Zen and his Human :
It comes off as invalidating. People need to sit in and experience their tough emotions rather than being rescued from them.
2022-03-10 23:00:28
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Meg :
Exactly!!! Just because others have it harder, doesn’t mean you don’t have it hard
2022-03-10 20:45:02
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Vic or Vikki :
I’ve read of it as saying “well at least…” isn’t empathy. It’s forced positivity.
2022-03-10 23:24:49
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user318686426693 :
yes! love this video
2022-03-10 20:38:18
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Ashie :
it's invalidating
2022-03-10 20:38:42
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𝘼𝙣𝙟𝙖 𝙋𝙨𝙖𝙜 𝘼𝙧𝙩 ♿🏴 :
Toxic positivity is so damaging to chronicly ill and disabled people 🥺 because of it, it took me over 7 years to start feeling the loss of my "life😔
2022-03-10 20:42:50
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KD :
God my ex was like this it was so exhausting
2022-05-24 10:31:04
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Kenneticly :
As I continue to live, grow and learn, im learning to just nod and listen. I only say something if they let me & I just restate what they’re giving me
2022-03-13 07:09:26
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Mariia :
Toxic positivity is like the exact opposite of empathy. Loved this episode!
2022-03-14 11:03:40
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sublime377 :
The hardest thing for most people is they just can’t listen! No advice, No corny sayings! Just listen
2022-04-13 01:13:17
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Stevie K :
“Let’s play the glad game!” … How bout let me be pissed that I broke my arm and am missing half the season MOM!
2022-03-11 03:48:57
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lindsey :
This parallels with grief psychology it seems. Very interesting!
2022-03-10 20:38:34
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Samwich :
3rd. Cause I know this is gunna blow up
2022-03-10 20:36:46
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Stay Curious :
basically toxic positivity is kinda like Happy in the movie Inside Out?
2022-03-10 20:50:18
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Sarah :
Another example: a workplace where they only want to focus on wins/celebrations and leave no room to talk about challenges and issues that need fixing
2022-03-11 06:09:08
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Mega. :
This is way I think a lot of woman don’t talk about there miscarriages. it happened for a reason, you can just try again, you weren’t that far along.
2022-03-10 20:54:10
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LBC :
this is great information. thank you for sharing 🙌🏼💯
2022-03-10 20:54:19
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