Dr. Nicole LePera
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Saturday 12 March 2022 21:50:49 GMT
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Julia Marie :
I’ve learned to look at my parents and people who hurt me as unhealed children. It doesn’t excuse their actions. It allows healing & moving in grace
2022-03-12 22:32:29
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Priscilla_Reads📚 :
Our parents had their own trauma. Coming from a space of compassion that they didn’t have the same resources to heal that we do.
2022-03-12 22:04:00
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Boop :
Hmmm my mother had access to therapists. She chose to not go see them.
2022-03-12 22:37:43
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neon.echo8 :
That’s unfair though we have to do the work and they continue their behavior that doesn’t make sense
2022-03-13 01:20:01
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Jurassicaaa :
You can accept them as they are but you don’t have to stick around for the abuse
2022-03-13 13:03:15
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janemcart :
Helps me to imagine my mom as a child & see the trauma she endured. I can’t help but have compassion for her coping mechanisms when I see it this way
2022-03-13 13:58:29
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Sierra Mercedes :
Yeah but what if I don’t like and accept who they really are and just don’t want to be around them
2022-03-15 01:00:05
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Indigenous Barbie :
Sometimes wounded parents interfere with ur healing journey by constantly triggering u and u transgress. Sometimes healing means no contact
2022-03-14 10:26:40
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Ella Ba Bella :
I struggle to accept my parents as they are.
2022-03-13 07:44:47
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Thelma.Lynn :
Sorry but I can’t just “accept” the emotional neglect I endured as a child ..
2022-03-14 10:11:39
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Sean Simpson :
good boundaries and self-love 😁
2022-03-13 00:38:16
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tessietwo :
As a parent I am open to my own healing and taking accountability for things I could have done better🙏I just find it difficult to be shamed and blame
2022-03-13 15:03:07
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Hi :
Do you believe that every person on the planet is doing the best they can within the parameters they have/ have had to live? I do. It helps me forgive
2022-03-13 16:34:48
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Spacecadetmellymel :
I accept them but I’m also going to look to distance myself from them bc the relationship is unhealthy
2022-03-13 19:55:13
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emily_leCerva :
Thank you that helped me
2022-03-13 18:40:20
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Deanna kemp :
Thank you so much for this post!
2022-03-13 17:37:44
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alanahayes :
Where do boundaries fit in to this philosophy? Narcissist parents are abusive.. this sounds like you are suggesting we continue to accept abuse.
2022-03-13 15:30:42
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Mega :
You’re so right, I deal with this with my mom too. Thanks for being so awesome!
2022-03-13 11:07:30
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justfacts11.11 :
This is my life story 😂🥰❤️
2022-03-13 08:56:50
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Jazmine🌻 :
Thank you soooo much!!! I have followed you on FB for over a year and LOVE your content 🥰
2022-03-12 23:27:04
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M.D.Jackson :
We do not all possess the gift of self awareness. Our parents didn't go to therapy. They have no idea what they did, for them it was survival.
2022-10-03 07:02:02
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Val :
But what if I really want them to heal because it hurts me to see them this way?
2022-08-04 08:15:48
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Saved the Family Farm :
I look at all the pain I’m carrying and I’m freaking out about what I’m doing to my children!
2022-07-28 19:30:22
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