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Cory Jaynes :
The final choice is up to you, but you are not responsible for his actions, only he is.
2022-03-13 23:49:06
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Kyndall Garrison :
That’s definitely not something that therapist should have said. Supposed to help the trauma not cause it
2022-03-13 23:55:55
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Alicia :
YOU are not responsible for the actions of someone else!!!! If he does it again it’s 100% on him, you hold ZERO blame
2022-03-13 23:55:08
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. :
Putting that guilt onto someone who’s gone through SA is one of the worst thing you can do as a therapist
2022-03-14 00:32:22
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Willius Wolfius :
What of you’re not ready? What if this causes more damage to you? Do they consider this?
2022-03-13 23:46:48
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Susi 🍉 :
The thing is when you tell your therapist they are allowed to report it but they dont have to... Other professions they are obliged to report.
2022-03-13 23:46:43
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evergreen🦋 :
I'm sorry howdy :(
2022-03-13 23:44:04
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katelyn :
as someone who’s had many people say that. no one should ever have to carry that kind of guilt
2022-03-13 23:53:27
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Shanika :
That’s not your responsibility and I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this
2022-03-13 23:55:46
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Maddison Foody :
I just had the same convo with my therapist and I wasn’t going to report it but he offered to come with me for support and it was helpful/comforting🥰
2022-03-13 23:57:12
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Maddy Heughins :
When I told the doctor at the hospital what happened, she said “you need to report for people like me! I live in this town” I didn’t stop crying for
2022-03-13 23:58:38
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rowan 🧿 :
im sorry :( be strong love ❤️
2022-03-13 23:48:57
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Ham Sandwich :
You’re so brave. Remember that none of this is your fault. It’s Never your fault. You’re doing amazing ❤️
2022-03-13 23:58:58
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Sasha Toad :
It’s the fact that he did it to someone else before me is one of the reasons that I’m not gonna say anything
2022-03-14 00:15:18
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Em :
Sending you love and strength. You can only do what’s right for you. What he does is just that, what he does.
2022-03-14 00:10:56
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Kevin :
I'm so sorry 🥺
2022-03-13 23:44:30
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boricua panda :
sending good vibes
2022-03-13 23:49:35
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Dixie Reed :
Oh dude. I’m so sorry
2022-03-14 00:31:35
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Michaelabrodeur :
You are not responsible for stopping him 🥺 sorry this happened
2022-03-14 00:22:46
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Alyse :
You do it when you’re ready ❤️. THEY’RE the one with the responsibility to stop. You don’t owe anyone anything if it affects your mental well-being
2022-03-14 00:25:44
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toons ✌ :
not only does it not consider the repercussions of reporting him, but now it also makes you feel like it's YOUR fault if HE does something. i'm sorry.
2022-03-13 23:54:14
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laasya0824 :
Legit same. Everyone keeps telling me to report and I just can’t
2022-03-14 00:20:24
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Brody Newswander :
It is only your choice to make that decision to to report it. It took guts for me to report my abuser but now people know she’s potentially dangerous
2022-03-14 00:22:15
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Sky :
What ever he does is not your fault, u will only do what u feel comfortable with doing bcs this process are not easy.
2022-03-13 23:57:54
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Tornambrosia :
Confused
2022-03-13 23:52:54
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Cori :
I remember that conversation :/ reporting it ended up being a big mistake for me and i still feel bad that i didn’t push for a higher punishment
2022-03-14 00:12:24
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Joscelyn💜 :
I hate when people say this. women are not responsible for men's actions. we don't have an obligation to further traumatize ourselves
2022-03-14 00:02:51
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Derek C :
I'm sorry
2022-03-13 23:59:39
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Bobbyromo1 :
So any luck on either fixing your favorite pants or finding a new pair?
2022-03-14 00:20:11
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Becca :
im sorry howdy
2022-03-14 00:17:04
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Maggie :
A therapist should not be saying this to you, wtf
2022-03-14 00:30:59
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HawaiianKansas :
:(
2022-03-13 23:46:16
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user9311867831688 :
I’m so sorry. That’s just awful 😞
2022-03-13 23:44:21
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donna :) :
@hey.itz.roni thisbis what my mom said to me
2022-03-18 02:58:28
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Predator H2O :
I get it's not right to have that guilt put on you but idk, I can't imagine not reporting. There must be justice.
2022-03-14 08:21:47
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Deanna :
therapist here- no therapist has the right to tell you what you have to do or not. I'm sorry this happened to you. you deserve support and compassion
2022-03-14 03:04:03
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Morgan Kay :
The thing is: it happened in the dead of night by a man I never saw in a place that I was visiting. I had nothing to report.
2022-03-14 01:25:12
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Ness :
It is not and will never be your fault, be strong, you have my full support 💕
2022-03-14 01:28:31
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syd 🇵🇸 :
it was not is not and never will be YOUR responsibility
2022-03-14 01:29:10
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Uncle Tadpole :
If I could keep my little corner of peace, and hold them accoutable by reporting it, I would. ... Sadly, it is the U.S.A. 💔💜
2022-03-14 01:42:59
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Sydney :
Yeah sometimes therapists don’t seem to quite understand
2022-03-14 01:45:54
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Rhiannyn Paige :
mine forced me to report bc I was a minor 🙃
2022-03-14 01:48:34
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Lilith Liberty :
I’m all for holding men accountable but their only part in that is helping you heal, not force you to report when you’re clearly not ready.
2022-03-14 02:11:13
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Casey :
As a future therapist this is what we’re not going to do… there’s so many reasons someone does not want to report and that’s valid!
2022-03-14 02:18:44
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Andrea Masterson :
As someone who was my pedos at least 2nd victim, I don’t harbor bad feelings. The first one was older than me, and he moved onto me when she didn’t1/2
2022-03-14 02:23:35
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sam :
and the deep, gut-wrenching guilt when you try to report and justice isn’t on your side… the next girl was never supposed to be our responsibility.
2022-03-14 02:26:39
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