Ella
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Tuesday 12 April 2022 15:36:04 GMT
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cherrybombfangirl (💕she/her) :
“I don’t even know what my personality is” THAT HIT WAY TOO HARD 😭
2022-04-12 15:44:58
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Ella :
Idek what unmasking is😂 I think there’s a difference as well between unmasking and knowing you are masking
2022-04-12 15:37:57
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Cyn Weston :
I've found a lot that unmasking is too gentle a term, makes it seem like the mask is a choice...
2022-04-12 15:40:43
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imnotamyth :
help i started to unmask and now I'm a lesbian with gender identity crisis
2022-04-13 08:12:27
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HowDoYouSpellThat :
‘I dont want to give more people reasons to think Im odd’ was literally my reasoning at 13y why I didnt want to be lesbian 😅
2022-04-12 15:50:47
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Elian the goblin :
I literally repressed everything about myself until a point where I couldn’t be interested in anything anymore. I would just try to rush through time.
2022-04-12 16:58:09
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Pickle rick :
I don’t know who I am. At all. I swear my personality changes every day. It’s never constant. And I struggle to know what I like and dislike. Etc
2022-04-12 15:52:25
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xxtexx111 :
my daughter masks at school , it's become a nightmare getting her help because of it unfortunately
2022-04-12 15:53:42
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Namax :
Do you ever mask when you make TikToks?
2022-04-12 16:36:34
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Eli McKenzie :
I completely understand! For the longest time whenever people asked me what my hobbies were, I had no idea.
2022-04-12 16:08:53
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💚🖤 CMG 🖤💚 :
i feel you.. late a night i often ask myself do i even know myself at all
2022-04-12 17:10:57
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Cassie :
my dad once asked teenage me "you copy everyone else. do you even know who you are?" to which i had a panic attack. now we know, at 30, I'm autistic😳
2022-04-12 15:52:31
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A. Masters :
I didn't realize I was trans until after significant unmasking
2022-04-13 03:23:02
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Lil :
Ella, this hits so hard. My mask started cracking two years ago, completely gone a year ago, still learning new stuff about myself
2022-04-12 15:59:17
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xdaantjeee :
i lovehow you just found the words for everything i've been trying to explain about my autism, i personally think alot of ppl don't know what it means
2022-04-12 16:02:16
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ejickling47 :
For me I still masked but I don’t mask well so I just made myself as visibly queer as I could to give other people a reason for why I’m a bit off
2022-04-13 02:57:18
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Kit :
Autism masking, S\xual abuse and trauma I literally feel like I have no identity. You just summed up my current crisis
2022-04-12 21:58:19
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Sam :
i'm not sure what my gender identity is but it is something that i started questioning after i started to unmask so it makes sense
2022-04-12 16:31:17
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vulpa.vulgaris :
It took me 26 years to realize I was trans and asexual for this exact reason.
2022-04-12 16:41:12
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Antje Post111 :
I realised in actually very bossy, and the therapist wrote down i was vey perfectionistic, I didn’t realise😂
2022-04-12 21:26:29
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Bailee :
I mask so much that I don't know who I am without the added parts I copy from others. I copy everything from those around me 😬
2022-04-12 21:09:28
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meg.hollyy :
oh my god I love your earrings 😍
2022-04-12 20:54:00
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count dyscalcula :
i feel like the point where I started masking heavily created a personality split and part of me is still stuck at 17, which isn't necessarily bad
2022-04-12 16:01:36
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No name :
Hey, I don’t know if you’ve done this already, but could you talk about what the correct language around discussing autism is?
2022-04-13 09:30:45
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evelyn :
Early
2022-04-12 15:41:01
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