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danipurington :
My husband is a GREAT dad. My pp recovery was a rough one, and he went through a lot as well. Plz be sensitive and understanding. 🥰
2022-04-13 17:16:58
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Eliza Day :
This only applies if they're a good husband/father. Unfortunately most tiktoks of dads postpartum are addressing the ones who take their wife's bed in
2022-04-13 15:30:03
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KG :
Too many people invalidate dads because they assume they do nothing and it doesn’t compare to what mom went through
2022-04-13 15:43:29
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Sarah A :
He has a point & at the same time I think if Dads went through what Moms did he wouldn’t be worried about checking in with Dads.
2022-04-13 16:10:30
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Aislinn Belle :
Dads main role is to support in the beginning l, in my opinion... 🤷♀️
2022-04-13 15:51:57
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Madison :
This makes me a little sad for this dad, you can obviously tell that he cares and wants what’s best for his family. Dads are going through it too!
2022-04-13 16:15:47
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Myranda Brooke :
I need to keep this in mind. I’m due any week now and I want to make sure I’m there for my man as much as he will be there for me
2022-04-13 16:13:20
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Justagirl :
If it makes him feel better I know a lot of women who arent asked about how their doing. Only the baby
2022-04-13 21:39:16
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Tina L. :
Yes! Papas have their own journey in this transition too!
2022-04-13 15:10:03
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Ashley Scales-Howard :
My husband was so upset when everyone always directed the questions about the baby to me when he was also capable of answering them.
2022-04-13 20:53:00
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Cait :
It’s definitely an emotional experience for the dad too!!
2022-04-13 15:42:05
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cyndalennis :
This is SO IMPORTANT. My husband always talks about how traumatic our sons birth was for him. Because it was! We have our feelings as mothers 👇🏼
2022-04-13 20:13:56
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Alexis📚🫶🏼 :
Dads definitely do! My husband was so caring after I had our baby 🥺
2022-04-13 15:49:51
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awkward mom :
this doesn't apply to a lot of dads though.
2022-04-13 16:42:19
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Courtney OKeefe :
I would not have survived those first few months without my husband! He was my absolute rock ♥️
2022-04-13 16:14:18
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Susan.Lawless🇨🇦 :
yes!!! I'd be in a breakdown moment and look at my husband and ask how he's doing and he was like I'm fine ..but I knew he was struggling to.
2022-04-13 15:31:24
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Hannah :
We talked a lot about not comparing suffering- just because my situation was objectively worse, did not mean that he wasn’t in a hard situation too.
2022-04-13 21:55:36
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emeryrealle :
sorry but I either have to get my entire gut cut open or push out an entire human. you aren't priority.
2022-04-13 16:12:33
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Kayla :
I think the hard part is that most people assume that the dads aren’t being involved enough to be affected by it. Not all dads are this helpful.
2022-04-19 19:48:03
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dan_and_jake8 :
my husband didn't help in any way. he said he worked and that was enough
2022-04-13 18:11:25
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Kayla Drew :
Yesssss I wish more people would support dads through this time so that way he can keep supporting mama 🥰
2022-04-13 16:17:06
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Mrs.H2019 :
yes! my husband felt this way! they even treated him like 3rd class in the hospital... it was sad to see
2022-04-13 15:03:48
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Asfes :
Oh I agree with him . Our husband are amazing people .(if he’s a good one )
2022-04-13 16:31:27
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Katie || AngstAttack :
He's absolutely right. No one checks on the dad, few people check on the mom, and everyone cares about baby until there's diapers to deal with.
2022-04-13 19:12:49
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Maegan Martin :
no one but my parents really asked how I was doing either. it was all only about the baby
2022-04-13 23:10:13
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Kasey :
“Not to put anything else on the mom, but…” 🤨
2022-04-13 16:16:40
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Wriggles :
very sad some of these women feel that labor is justification enough to tell men to suck it up. very sad. glad I have a good wife.
2022-04-13 16:19:23
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LB :
yea but like she carried that shit for 9 months and sacrificed her body. you can handle taking over for a while. your turn.
2022-04-13 20:08:31
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Morgan Alumbaugh :
I agree, I think it’s okay even worse for high risk and preemie births too. Good dads/husbands are terrified in those moments and they’re doing care
2022-04-13 17:51:44
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Ashley June :
dad literally just stands there and pats your fucking back for 6 weeks to a year. that's it. how is that too hard?
2022-04-13 17:13:05
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Angela :
Omg this is so heartbreaking yet insightful. I think I took advantage of my husband but in reality, without him, I would have never survived postartum
2022-04-13 16:54:27
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Cheyenne! :
my husband is so hesitant about a second child because of what he saw me go through. I recovered and I'm ready to go, but we're working through his
2022-04-13 15:41:58
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Inna Gavrishchuk Kho :
I feel like this is accurate. but this is how mom's feel daily after the post partum period. clearly ur relationship is great
2022-04-14 07:01:16
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kaybee 🐝 :
it's absolutely a team effort. If my husband is checking in on me and trying to meet my needs, as his wife, I want to make sure he's okay, too.
2022-04-13 20:46:03
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Ammie :
I try really hard to ask my partner how he is doing with everything!! I made sure I was checking in regularly 🖤 gotta take care of eachother
2022-04-13 16:29:44
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C.Taylor_writes📖 :
He needs support, but not from mom at that point. Having a strong father figure might be good. But, it’s not about dad right then. Eventually.
2022-04-14 18:19:54
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Rose :
Our suffering as moms doesn't invalidate their struggles. This is still a hard transition for themit's just different. As long as they're being there
2022-04-13 20:53:54
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alexandriamcfarlin :
That’s valid! No one gave my husband proper credit because he wasn’t the mom, and it is taking care of a new baby AND the healing mom!
2022-04-13 18:06:01
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YA GIRL KATIE ✨ :
I feel like the way he described it was a little insensitive. “The little one just poops a lot and cries”. Hit and miss.
2022-04-13 18:20:10
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Tom :
my biggest pet peave is when I'm in the store with my 3 kids alone and I hear comments like "babysitting today" 😠 NO I'm their Dad not a sitter
2022-04-16 15:19:03
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Arin Fleming :
I know he was a great husband/dad for you I can feel it! But I audibly laughed when he said no one asks how the dad is 😂
2022-04-13 20:51:07
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Nikki :
Struggling is struggling. we don't put down others who have depression just because someone else has depression worse. They deserve to feel valid.
2022-04-13 23:24:53
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Catching_layla :
My husband sat in his room and played video games as I was expected to do everything I did before having a baby via C-section
2022-04-19 23:48:48
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KeepersBee 🍉 :
well, the good dads definitely need some recognition.
2022-04-19 21:48:05
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A :
I love his heatwaves!
2022-04-13 20:03:58
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Justin Golzari :
I feel this guy. It was really tough for me but I made sure I didn’t complain because I knew my wife had it way worse.
2022-04-20 00:49:45
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Michelle My Belle :
I just gave birth in March and my husband actually went through post partum depression, luckily communicating helped out a lot to let me see the signs
2022-04-14 19:06:26
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harleybickish :
my husband had no struggles but because of that he was the most AMAZING support 🥰 I stayed in bed for at least 5 days after baby was born!
2022-04-13 16:25:41
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Neyma Andrade :
Yes! I agree with him! Dad’s always get put last Even on holidays like Father’s Day
2022-04-13 16:18:21
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