Rachael-The Considerate Momma
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Monday 25 April 2022 17:35:17 GMT
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sarahr0902 :
Wow...so apparently this parent is all about themselves, their comfort, and controlling their child instead of understanding and helping. Wow
2022-04-25 17:49:39
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Nicole :
Been there myself...I'm 35 now and still not able to regulate my emotions like an adult would.
2022-04-25 17:40:33
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Alexa Michele Macias 💙 :
my 2 year old can barely tell me he wants water...let alone why he is frustrated..crying.... being a baby is hard too..
2022-04-25 17:52:34
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Lily Fox 😉🦊 :
My LO is close to that age too, her screaming is a decent trigger for me too. Basically, I just have to breathe and then try to help her.
2022-04-25 17:52:40
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Paige D :
I often wonder why people like that even have children. Because even as an adult I scream it out sometimes(as appropriate).
2022-04-25 17:53:26
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Me no name :
Oh no. She’s two. TWO!
2022-04-25 17:48:34
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emmagoss24 :
Yes I totally get that frustration! But I agree with you. How can we expect them to know how to communicate effectively without us teaching them how
2022-04-25 17:40:43
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What~is~Normal :
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
2022-04-25 17:57:54
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jacqueh91 :
But what if she’s teaching different skills instead of screaming? I think it’s ok to teach other skills and still want to communicate with them
2022-04-25 18:27:21
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Marissa :
Not being able to express my negative emotions as a child has lead to major anxiety and an inability to communicate effectively as an adult🥺
2022-04-25 18:10:10
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Skepticbychoice :
Thank you for reacting with kindness and understanding to this parent - the way we hope they behave with their child.
2022-04-25 18:06:09
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Mara :
Can I just say? I’ve been validating my daughters big emotions since 15 month and she’s almost two and went from constantly throwing tantrums to 1/2
2022-04-25 19:59:31
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jillian lurie :
That’s not fair to not allow them to have tantrums poor child it’s going to effect their development in such a bad way
2022-04-25 18:14:21
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Moonlight Siren :
Tantrums happen whether you “allow” them or not… 2yo’s scream sometimes, thats part of life.
2022-04-25 19:33:06
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Lungile 🇿🇦 :
Yeah. The first sentence is scary. How do you get to the point where a 2 year old understands they are not allowed to show emotions?
2022-04-25 18:27:29
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user1089030358983 :
Oh god this 💔but do you feel it’s appropriate to say “ok no whining pls let’s try to use our words and tell mommy what you want?” I need the words!!!
2022-04-25 17:52:37
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Living My Life :
Um, excuse me!?! AT adult level? Don't you mean ABOVE adult level!?! Because the number of adults I know who have as much control over their 1/?
2022-04-25 23:10:35
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micaela sommers :
my fiancé has a hard time understanding this because of how he was raised… i was raised on gentle parenting. he’s also learning with our children 😬
2022-04-25 18:08:40
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Julie Trask788 :
I don’t understand how one stops a child from having a tantrum?
2022-04-25 17:52:46
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Brucephotography :
Question - my daughter runs to her room and shuts her door when she is in a frustration mode and I’m not sure if she needs space or if I she needs me
2022-04-25 18:03:15
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Lindsey :
Some adults can’t even control themselves, WHY would you expect a 2 year old to???
2022-04-25 18:52:12
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by.benham :
Love this!! Have been using your tips and tricks since I gave birth! First baby hoping to do the best I can also hair routine!? Your beautiful!! 🥰
2022-04-25 22:33:02
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Simple_mom :
I hate screaming and whining but that’s bc I have issues inside myself. This is so sad!!!!!!!
2022-04-25 17:56:11
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Billie :
Our 2yo is still adjusting to a a major change and every day we have meltdowns which we didn’t before. All we can do is sit there and offer support.
2022-04-25 19:25:43
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Vada Smith :
Most of the adults I know don’t even know how to control there emotions.
2022-04-25 19:31:06
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WHazz :
not allowed? smh
2022-04-26 03:22:30
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Erica :
Absolutely!
2022-04-25 19:23:11
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5wad :
@ar.993
2022-04-25 17:55:40
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casey.younglove :
How DO you respond gently to a screaming toddler? it's very triggering for myself and my spouse.
2022-04-25 18:15:02
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Camila Santiago :
Expect this level of maturity from a 2yo child is cruel
2022-04-25 18:06:41
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Lula Cooks :
I agree 5000%
2022-04-25 17:57:52
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K leatherwood :
Oh my LO newly 4yr is going though a lot of emotions lately & parents/teachers around us struggle so hard to let her work though it. Really eyeopening
2022-04-25 19:48:51
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ASV :
I see what you did there 😏 love this explanation
2022-04-25 19:56:02
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Jerilyn :
yikes. poor kid.
2022-04-25 17:53:37
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Alicia | Baby Sleep Consultant :
That's unfortunate🥺🥺
2022-04-25 23:09:57
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RachelCoolman :
I love this ✨✨✨✨
2022-04-25 20:30:57
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louise.sa4 :
My son is 7 and autistic, meltdown mode is similar to a tantrum. He cannot hear, think or reason.
2022-04-29 20:59:16
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Sara Hupfer :
You have legitimately helped me so so so much just off these TikTok’s. I have a 7,3.5, and 2 year old so it’s chaos all the time but calmer chaos now
2022-04-25 22:53:31
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Megan Myers :
Yikes on bikes 😬
2022-04-25 21:34:33
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kaleesisqueen :
So what about after talking to a three year old and theyre in logical mind again telling them it’s okay to be angry but not ok to use your angry voice
2022-04-25 21:54:24
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Amy Standage :
So off topic but can I please ask what color your extensions are??? Your hair color is similar to mine.
2022-04-25 21:59:38
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SaltybutSleepy :
demanding a 2 yo have the section of their brain that is not developed yet is crazy.
2022-04-25 22:03:48
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Ali's Mummy :
I love your page! It’s helped to understand situations and develop healthy communication between me and my little one. Thank you ♥️
2022-04-25 22:31:09
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Winter Mouse :
People like that shouldn’t be parents. Sad people hold toddlers/kids to higher emotional regulation standards than adults/themselves 1/2
2022-04-25 20:33:04
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ThWritingSpider :
The @Tsvetina Nikolova comment makes me sad. That child is in for a world of hurt at their mothers hands.
2022-04-26 10:39:08
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Chelsea Clements :
Off topic but loveeeee your hair!
2022-04-25 23:04:10
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Brittoni :
What about a 3 year old that tells you they will just cry if you take them to therapy because they do not want to go (speech)
2022-04-25 19:59:38
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Ema Kici :
1) could u help please , my 20m old girl is very independet and want to do everything by her own , ->
2022-04-25 19:26:11
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Hāllie Fields :
I currently have a 2yr old & I try to validate and calm the situation but I feel like I make it worse & she just is not getting it! Is she too young?
2022-04-25 23:37:44
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