@theholisticpsychologist: @jennaweakland show what parentifistion looks like. This is a common child trauma that is rarely acknowledged.

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Thursday 05 May 2022 18:11:51 GMT
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kassv21
Kass :
This is an exact mirror of my childhood 😳
2022-05-05 18:27:52
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drepo_
drepo_ :
27 and they still do this. confusing as a child, exhausting as an adult.
2022-05-05 23:27:20
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lilygracie144
LilyGrace :
Such a common trauma - as you say it’s rarely addressed. 🥺
2022-05-05 18:27:04
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lianavalle
✨Liana Valle✨ :
Wait both of my parents did that
2022-05-05 20:57:27
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fkajackie
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my mom did this and I ended up hating/resenting my dad a lot it truly damaged our relationship
2022-05-05 21:36:06
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rachel_756392
Rachel :
My mom would put us in our car seats and make us go bar to bar looking for our dad. Why couldn't she just let us sleep?
2022-05-05 20:00:13
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ohgollymissmollyandme
Oh Golly Miss Molly :
“You’re upset, imagine how I feel” was definitely said to me a lot but I can’t remember why
2022-05-06 00:11:46
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0nedirection2828
Lunar Eclipse :
it's like some parents use their children as therapists
2022-05-06 16:02:57
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teniece
Teniece :
also sounds like "why are you doing this to me?? you are really upsetting mommy is that how you want mommy to feel??" with tears
2022-05-05 19:02:31
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laurendulay
Lauren :
My mom still says, “What about me and feelings?” to this day. I stopped comforting her once I became an adult but it’s still hard to hear.
2022-05-05 21:40:39
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goldustwomen
Anna Marie :
Exact mirror of my childhood! I had to raise my little sister through her emotions because my mother was not stable and still to this day is not.
2022-05-05 19:04:26
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ninadallemann
Ninadalleman :
U have changed my life so immensely and I’m so happy your here and do what you do. Thank you ❤️
2022-05-05 19:13:28
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inkedunder
Cartoon Enthusiast :
Oh so this daily occurance was also trauma... fun.
2022-05-06 16:05:28
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disney.queen.channel
disney.queen.channel :
This causes more harm as a victim of this type of abuse, you develop the pattern of everyone else’s feeling are above yours
2022-05-06 18:03:00
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matchamama13
Matchamama :
My child is not responsible for my emotions. I never talk about my daughter’s father infront of her or show my emotions of him infront of her.
2022-05-05 21:22:06
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amymarieee27
Amy :
This hit home 😳
2022-05-05 18:25:14
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selflovelro
Lu J is the best auntie lulu :
I love my neice charlotte my first emotional support system
2024-09-17 17:34:21
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thealmondbreath
theAlmondbreath :
this was my life. then they got a divorce
2022-05-06 23:36:40
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ghostelboo
queen of totoko :
It’s terrifying to know how common this is. This flies under the radar ALL the time…
2022-05-06 18:41:59
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trinmarii
trin_mariii :
IS THIS PLAY ABOUT ME-
2022-05-06 15:56:29
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yourhomiekale
Spider-Man🕷️ :
thank you, I've never actually seen anyone address trauma like this and it makes me feel not alone anymore,
2022-05-06 13:28:48
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littleboo1212
Little Boo :
Well, I needed this more than I realized. Thank you for giving those of us who experienced this a visual that it was indeed, not our fault. Thank you.
2022-05-05 18:57:31
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kiaraaleman87
kiaraaleman :
Wow 😳
2022-05-05 18:23:41
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luckyduck143
Jen the Dejenerate :
I open tik tok for 10 minutes and my entire childhood is captured in a random video on my fyp
2022-05-11 04:40:07
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