@educatorandrea: Reply to @callymoore2 Asking in a way that allows them to save face avoids a power struggle.

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nicole_rex_1111
Nicole Rex :
Sometimes I’ll say “You aren’t in trouble” to disarm that defensiveness so they know this is a conversation that’s happening before that step.
2022-05-06 00:43:06
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brothers_of_panda
Rowan :
I love being this deep in teacher tok while still in high school. I've been picking up on SO MUCH
2022-05-06 00:25:18
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chad_pettit
Chad Pettit :
Some of the best breakthrough moments happen in those hallway conversations!
2022-05-05 23:57:04
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simplesandwhich
simplesandwhich :
the key is the gap time. you can't do it right then when they still need to be right
2022-05-05 23:46:15
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lafayetteearthscience
Ms. Cooper :
Whenever my principal asks for a student he always says “they’re not in trouble but I need their help with something” so no one in the class knows
2022-05-05 23:53:10
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sarcasmandgrace
Sarcasm&Grace :
I had a confrontation with a student where we both got mad. Since I waited until I was calm to talk to her, I was able to start the conversation...
2022-05-06 00:00:30
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milythebun
emily :
man, i wish i had seen this earlier.
2022-05-05 23:52:35
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coco424680
Coco :
My problem is they won’t stop talking back in the moment. Like “that’s enough” won’t stop them so I end up having to kick them out of class or call
2022-05-05 23:57:02
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mitchimuspr1me
Mitchimuspr1me :
This strategy is certifiably effective. They respond when we say, “enough,” because they know we’ll handle the following conversation respectfully.
2022-05-05 23:47:10
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sokojiwren
SokojiWren :
11 years in, same experience. They've never refused to quietly talk in the hall.
2022-05-05 23:46:36
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hbprincess1144
HBPrincess :
What do you do if they don't stop after you tell them that is enough?
2022-05-05 23:24:48
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krissyyyb
Krissy :
I’ve used this approach for five years now and it works BEAUTIFULLY, but I had my first refusal this semester. I was floored.
2022-05-06 02:58:15
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callymoore2
Cally Moore :
This is really excellent advice. Thank you!
2022-05-05 23:06:57
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equusregia
equusregia :
Once I asked a student to go into the hall, and when I got there, they were gone. They went home.
2022-05-07 14:14:45
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cloudthedogg
Kristabell :
It’s so true, my stepdaughter has a panic disorder and sensory issues and the teachers that let her go out in the hallway to talk are a godsend
2022-05-05 23:51:14
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vickilee1994
user8353381601705 :
I always tell my students they don’t know what we are talking about it could be grades, something personal, something good. It’s not always bad.
2022-05-06 01:07:49
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yes..its..kaija
Kaija :
100% the best way!!
2022-05-06 03:31:27
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theteachress
Madi Deming :
This is an incredible approach but my admin has told me I’m not allowed to leave my classroom unattended, even for a quick convo
2022-05-06 21:43:33
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familyalways527
Familyalways527 :
Yes!!! Talking out in the hall! I also give mine 5 minutes to make their choice. And then let them know it was their choice.
2022-05-06 19:50:17
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mrs.g_in_the_lbc
mrs.g_in_the_lbc :
For me, I explain early on that the hallway conversation is to keep it private so that our conversation isn't everyone else's business.
2022-05-20 04:15:07
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pwig1
Jon :
I have a couple that don’t like to step out with me. One claims he is being gs fed up on even if it’s just me the other one will fight me
2022-05-23 04:18:07
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pwig1
Jon :
Until he sees it will not work but I work with Specil Ed kids
2022-05-23 04:18:37
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etrimboli
Ellen Trimboli :
If I think it may turn into a confrontation I will first ask them if they want to work in the hallway. They usually say yes.
2022-05-30 22:22:50
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miss.phillips
Miss Phillips | Math Nerd :
This is so good!!
2022-06-03 19:32:58
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mr.boatfield
Mr. Boatfield :
Thanks! My school asks us to never have a student separated into the hallway which makes it hard to take the audience away.
2022-07-04 18:42:02
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