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Cris Redmond :
Would they also buy clothes for you and then say it was theirs and you can take them with you?
2022-05-06 15:20:16
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𝔏𝔬𝔫𝔡𝔬𝔫 🍄🖤👻 :
Yep. And if I ever try to call my mom out for anything that happened when I was a kid, the fact that they didn’t let me starve gets thrown in my face.
2022-05-06 15:37:33
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Kaley :
I’ve never heard anyone describe this exact experience so accurately. My mom did this every year and would tell me not to tell my dad or brother.
2022-05-06 15:35:06
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briar147 :
I'm so over the word ungrateful. If I ever hear jt again, I will explode.
2022-05-06 15:18:03
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shelbell1319 :
She would sometimes buy me stuff, or buy it for my siblings and flaunt it off (even though they didn’t care for it), or buy me things I never wanted-
2022-05-06 15:32:58
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Claudia Finkbeiner :
OMG my mom did this all the time!!! she threw it in my face all the time!!!
2022-06-01 16:44:41
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haylee.m.hays :
Yes l didn’t realize till a little while ago. Everything bought costed something later. It was never really a gift
2022-05-14 20:54:10
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Zuri :
Every.Single.Item is tallied up and used at a later date for manipulation. There are purposes to all their actions. Smh.
2022-05-06 21:51:45
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MrsGoodReaver :
@keiiyelizabeth
2022-05-06 15:57:14
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MessyAF :
Yep my mom thinks she can just write a check and get my love. Nope.
2022-05-06 20:41:18
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post_tenebrae_luxious :
yikes, yeah. it's never a gift freely given. we bought a car from my mom and FOR YEARS afterward it was still her car.
2022-05-06 15:36:41
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Remy & the Ghibli Bunch :
speaking of child called it. when I read it, bc I knew she read it and talked about it, I realized that she picked up abuse tips from that book
2022-05-06 21:25:33
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CoffeeFirstYouPeopleL8er :
My ex narc bought a car for our daughter and threatens to take it back any time she won’t visit him 🥺 she’s at the point now where she’ll give it bac
2022-05-06 15:56:54
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HappyGoLiving :
Yup. Lots of material things - but then they’d take them away too.
2022-05-06 15:55:50
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OJO :
"well i paid for it" "why do you hate me so much, i gave you everything and you treat me like shit" everything is always about them
2022-05-06 15:57:29
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emeryrealle :
my mom always like to say "I was going to buy you this *thing* but...I didnt." like why tell me then?!
2022-05-06 15:58:40
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sheanyou :
my mother would take me shopping for clothes... I'd do a kid thing, get in trouble, and then she'd take them all away again. sometimes scissors were 1
2022-05-06 15:58:59
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brackishwitch_xo :
My mother literally thinks she did no wrong because my basic needs were met and she never “let” herself kick me out. 🙃
2022-05-06 16:08:52
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Obviously ADHD 🇨🇦 :
what if they ask you specifically what you want, then buy you something COMPLETELY different. how dare you be disappointed.
2022-05-06 16:12:52
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treestareater32 :
I cant accept her gifts for my child without guilt
2022-05-06 15:55:46
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Rebekah Jean :
How about when they give the opposite of what you ask for like for my kids and then say your ungrateful lol.
2022-05-06 16:56:48
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MEtime_Mama :
Mind blown…my dad loves to save the day, but with strings. He even threatened to pull tuition from my brother if he didn’t leave his wife.
2022-05-06 20:11:28
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🖖🏻 :
The smelling like cat piss one really gets me... I had a similar experience.
2022-05-06 20:34:25
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Noreen Russell :
But we took you on vacations and you never wanted for anything. Yeahhhhh that’s called parenting. But thanks I guess?🤦🏼♀️
2022-05-06 21:01:00
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Happy-Go-Lucky :
Buying allllll the things so they can take them as wagers/leverage for ultimate compliance.
2022-05-06 21:12:26
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mamamcneil0 :
Or just doing anything in general. My mom got mad she brought my sister to my house 4hrs away but I reminded her I offered to go pick her up like…😅
2022-05-06 15:55:03
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JLANI :
lived it!
2022-05-06 15:54:32
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mcprieto89 :
My mom would shower my kids with brand new clothes she would buy using her Kohls credit card. Weeks later she would “ask” if I was planning on helpin-
2022-05-06 23:50:30
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M Kooz :
We have a small home. And my nmom always offers to take things we arnt using and store them at her house. I thinks it’s her chess game to ensure
2022-05-07 03:20:11
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Lily🌷 :
I owed my parents for every bite of food and every gift given ever… everything was a debt. My friends thought my life was great… 😬
2022-05-07 03:23:27
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LostinMissouri :
My father told my best friend he was raising my children, I called him out and I've never seen him so mad. I thought I was going to get hit. I'm 36.
2022-05-07 03:33:56
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JustRoen :
Would you say that narcissism is voluntary and intentional? I think narcissists are victims of narcissism themselves, products of generational trauma.
2022-05-07 13:02:29
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ForeverReachingUp :
My narc ex gave gifts then guilt, shame, power/control, or taken away…Kids & I learned to not get attached to gifts. There was always stings attached.
2022-05-07 15:10:38
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Big John :
I learned pretty early on that both my parents would use material things as a trap. Didn’t know what to call it then.
2022-05-07 21:48:13
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Sharon Berenfeld :
yep. 58. finally got it.
2022-05-08 16:02:51
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emilyxxalien :
This is my mom
2022-05-08 23:13:24
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Lauren Cleboski :
This is why my daughter doesnt let her dad by her stuff anymore little to none because she doesnt waht to hear about it.
2022-05-09 12:33:40
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Juni_0910 :
63 here 🥺
2022-05-09 13:32:34
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LikesABargain :
Yes. 53 before I knew it. Crazy!
2022-05-10 02:47:50
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Marie :
yep got the same from my mom. She also liked to do things for me to later on throw in my face that she did that thing for me!
2022-05-10 16:28:22
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Mal💕 :
My mil for real!! Constantly buys things only to take them away when she feels that you have wronged her and tries to use going shopping as a way to
2022-05-10 19:25:00
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Alicia 💙🆘🇺🇸 :
I always got things I didn’t even ask for like it was a special gift and then when she wanted something from me she would use the”gift” to try to 1/2
2022-05-10 20:06:01
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Roxas :
They love giving gifts to hold over you. As an adult I refuse…
2022-05-06 15:49:11
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Carrie :
Yesssssss
2022-05-11 01:17:02
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Texas Patty :
Yep 👍
2022-05-11 17:57:08
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